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Alifia
40 Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking: Male 45 - 60
Marital Status: Divorced
i am a loner. i don't mingle with too much people. people come to me to talk & solution but i don't talk about myself to others. i like to stay at home, cooking, and all domestic things. i work (mostly) from home but i do travel 6 times a year. . Legally divorce at 2019. A mom of two wonderful boys (17 & 12) both are in dormitory. I run my own business and i spend most of my time working from home. Geminians. A shy person ☺️. Love to cook. . My vision is to have a sakinah mawaddah and warahmah. An easy life, no rush, with my spouse. I am a good listener and loyal. . Marriage isn’t always butterflies. The spark fades. People disappoint. But then—Allah says something in the Qur’an that can completely shift how we see love, and how we build it. "He created for you from yourselves spouses so you may find tranquility in them..." 30:21 The word used is Sakinah. Not romance. Not thrill. Not perfection. Peace. Stillness. Coming home after the world has drained you... and your spouse is the calm in the storm. If your relationship feels like constant anxiety, screaming, or emotional shutdown—it’s not what Allah intended. You deserve Sakinah. Then He says: “He placed between you MAWADDAH and RAHMAH.” He didn't say “love”? He said mawaddah : Mawaddah isn’t just feeling love. It’s showing love. It’s intentional. It’s expressed. It’s maintained. Mawaddah is making their tea when they’re tired. It’s texting, “I’m proud of you.” It’s holding their hand when they feel insecure. Even when you're annoyed. Especially when you're tired. Mawaddah is love that acts. And Rahmah? Mercy. Compassion. The ability to forgive, to see the best, to pause your ego, to stay soft even when you're hurt. You know when your spouse messes up—again? And your anger wants to explode? But you remember they’re human. And you give space. You hold grace. That’s Rahmah. love isn’t something you fall into and out of. Love is something you plant, water, and protect. You stop loving when you stop showing love. You stop nurturing the Mawaddah. And when there’s no mercy left, even love gets crushed under resentment. Quan 2:187 says: “They are a garment for you, and you are a garment for them.” Why a garment? Because your spouse should cover your flaws, not expose them. Warm you, not freeze you out. Protect your dignity, not rip it apart in front of others. Marriage is meant to make you feel safe. Still worried? “I’m not ready. I don’t have enough money.” Allah already spoke to that: "If they are poor, Allah will enrich them from His bounty...” (Qur’an 24:32) Marriage isn’t a threat to your provision. It’s often the start of your barakah. If you want your marriage to work: Don’t chase constant “vibes.” Chase Sakinah. Don’t wait to feel love—build Mawaddah. Don’t expect perfection—give Rahmah. Be a Libas (garment for your spouse) – cover their flaws. Don't invite others into your issues. So when it’s hard—don’t just ask: “Do I still love them?” Ask: “Have I given Sakinah? Have I shown Mawaddah? Have I chosen Rahmah?”
icha
40 Samarinda, Kalimantan Timur, Indonesia
Seeking: Male 36 - 50
Marital Status: Divorced

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