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coral
37 Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking: Male 30 - 45
Salam It's never gonna be easy to talk about ourself, but lets do this :) I am a simple person who want to love Allah more than anything in this world, at least that's the main aim of my life, that's what I always taught myself to do. I consider myself as a woman who is strong, not fear of anything (in the name of Allah), an independent single working mother who is able to do multitasking tasks, but also can be so sensitive that tears fall down every time I pray. My educational background is political science and international relations. I love to read, discuss and learn about islamic world, middle eastern study, sufism and old civilizations, those are my most favourite topic. I feel that I ve been living a fruitfull and colourful life with many lesson and experiences, and thats my own definition of success. I am a person who always avoid a conflict, i always offer mediation and willing to compromise to make everything right. My nature is a caring person, who always prioritize others over mine, my happiness is when i can share mine to others, and when I see happiness on other people eyes. I love being here, to be able to see other people in the same deen of Islam, this is beyond my expectation. I dont expect much, i feel that i came from a quite different background from most profile i see. I dont speak arabic or have any blood conection with any middle east countries. I see most of people here try to find a match within their region or country and its great, its the other way o silaturrahim. To all my brothers and sisters here, my family in Islam, I love you all in the name of Allah, it might be weird but for me being here in a platform than we can see or communicate each other it's just something beyond words, i pray that everyone will find the right match :)
Alifia
40 Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Seeking: Male 45 - 60
i am a loner. i don't mingle with too much people. people come to me to talk & solution but i don't talk about myself to others. i like to stay at home, cooking, and all domestic things. i work (mostly) from home but i do travel 6 times a year. . Legally divorce at 2019. A mom of two wonderful boys (17 & 12) both are in dormitory. I run my own business and i spend most of my time working from home. Geminians. A shy person โ˜บ๏ธ. Love to cook. . My vision is to have a sakinah mawaddah and warahmah. An easy life, no rush, with my spouse. I am a good listener and loyal. . Marriage isnโ€™t always butterflies. The spark fades. People disappoint. But thenโ€”Allah says something in the Qurโ€™an that can completely shift how we see love, and how we build it. "He created for you from yourselves spouses so you may find tranquility in them..." 30:21 The word used is Sakinah. Not romance. Not thrill. Not perfection. Peace. Stillness. Coming home after the world has drained you... and your spouse is the calm in the storm. If your relationship feels like constant anxiety, screaming, or emotional shutdownโ€”itโ€™s not what Allah intended. You deserve Sakinah. Then He says: โ€œHe placed between you MAWADDAH and RAHMAH.โ€ He didn't say โ€œloveโ€? He said mawaddah : Mawaddah isnโ€™t just feeling love. Itโ€™s showing love. Itโ€™s intentional. Itโ€™s expressed. Itโ€™s maintained. Mawaddah is making their tea when theyโ€™re tired. Itโ€™s texting, โ€œIโ€™m proud of you.โ€ Itโ€™s holding their hand when they feel insecure. Even when you're annoyed. Especially when you're tired. Mawaddah is love that acts. And Rahmah? Mercy. Compassion. The ability to forgive, to see the best, to pause your ego, to stay soft even when you're hurt. You know when your spouse messes upโ€”again? And your anger wants to explode? But you remember theyโ€™re human. And you give space. You hold grace. Thatโ€™s Rahmah. love isnโ€™t something you fall into and out of. Love is something you plant, water, and protect. You stop loving when you stop showing love. You stop nurturing the Mawaddah. And when thereโ€™s no mercy left, even love gets crushed under resentment. Quan 2:187 says: โ€œThey are a garment for you, and you are a garment for them.โ€ Why a garment? Because your spouse should cover your flaws, not expose them. Warm you, not freeze you out. Protect your dignity, not rip it apart in front of others. Marriage is meant to make you feel safe. Still worried? โ€œIโ€™m not ready. I donโ€™t have enough money.โ€ Allah already spoke to that: "If they are poor, Allah will enrich them from His bounty...โ€ (Qurโ€™an 24:32) Marriage isnโ€™t a threat to your provision. Itโ€™s often the start of your barakah. If you want your marriage to work: Donโ€™t chase constant โ€œvibes.โ€ Chase Sakinah. Donโ€™t wait to feel loveโ€”build Mawaddah. Donโ€™t expect perfectionโ€”give Rahmah. Be a Libas (garment for your spouse) โ€“ cover their flaws. Don't invite others into your issues. So when itโ€™s hardโ€”donโ€™t just ask: โ€œDo I still love them?โ€ Ask: โ€œHave I given Sakinah? Have I shown Mawaddah? Have I chosen Rahmah?โ€
icha
40 Samarinda, Kalimantan Timur, Indonesia
Seeking: Male 36 - 50

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