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SHAN
50 Washington, District of Columbia, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 31
I don’t understand why the majority of women today desire exclusive yet imbalanced relationships. They want to own your time, your resources, and your emotional space — in return for what? Once children enter the picture, they begin to dictate your role and use emotional blackmail through the kids. What does a man truly gain from marriage, other than increasing responsibilities and lectures from every direction? Women between the ages of 20 to 40 often act as though the world revolves around them. They assume men are just fools chasing one thing. When the children reach their teenage years, “motherly love” shifts focus entirely to the kids — understandably. But at that point, the man is reduced to little more than the house dog. This attitude leads to resentment, distance, and ultimately divorce. Then, in their 30s to 50s, these same women start searching for a new man — someone else to own and control. But the pool of eligible men in that age range has drastically shrunk. Many single or divorced men aren’t available or interested, because they have better options: marrying someone younger, child-free, or from abroad. Plenty of women from back home are willing and even eager for that opportunity. Additionally, global gender ratios work against older single women. If it weren’t for China’s one-child policy, India’s customs, and the male-preference in Muslim countries, the world would likely have 5% more women than men. Even now, many nations have a higher female population. Marriage laws in most countries allow only one legal spouse, which often pushes people into secret or non-committed relationships. Research suggests that 20–25% of men and 10–15% of women cheat. Open relationships are increasingly accepted in the so-called “developed” world. However, a Muslim man is not allowed to pursue that path due to religious limitations. As a result, many Muslim men living in the West find themselves trapped — caught between domineering women who reject Islamic principles and also refuse to embrace Western alternatives. Once divorced, these women prefer to live as single parents for life, yet refuse to accept the role of a second wife.
AbuNuh
49 Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States
Seeking: Female 37 - 53
Start with Bismillah and end with Alhamdullilah. May Allah Almighty give us power over our own selves similar to The Power He holds over every aspect of our lives. May Allah endear us into the hearts of the believers He loves most,and turn us away from the losers. Bismillah From darkness to light Alhamdullilah I raised 9 kids, My oldest son Nuh Assadullah returned to Allah at the age of 26. May Allah be pleased with him, and my oldest daughter Daisy,23,from my first marriage of 9 years.. Two sons,Sadeeq Amin 19 and Yaseen Adonis 12,and two daughters,Sumayah Amina 17,and Madina Anna Maria 14. 3 step kids, Isaac,23,Jamilla,21,and Amir,20 From my second marriage of 18 years. I made shahada around 1993. I was raised in a non religious family.My mother was loose with God and didn’t deny God,but didn’t really adhere to any particular religion. My father was a disbeliever in God and didn’t teach me much,except what not to do with my life. Alhamdullilah his disbelief only pushed me closer to Haqq,and my mom’s laid back,easygoing approach to God,left the door open for me to find be my own way. ShukrAllah I learned things the hard way and after almost twenty years stumbling and struggling through jahaleeya,I arrived at Allahs Rahman rather than an early grave,or behind bars. Alhamdullilah! But all the ups and downs, Highs and lows, Victories and defeats are very much alive in the man. We never really know until we know right? We can empathize and connect,and try our best to walk in somebody else’s shoes,so as not to make the same mistakes they made.But we never really truly know until we walk ourselves into our own trouble. “God bless my soul, before I put my foot down and begin to stroll, Into the drama I built.” (Albert Johnson) Prodigy It’s all water under the bridge right? Istughfirrllah and proceed. Live and learn. A Muslim doesn’t get stung from the same hole twice. Most times… I don’t allege that I haven’t been hardheaded a few times,and had to learn some of life’s lessons the hard way,because I followed my ego a little too far. Alhamdullilah I always held onto the rope of Allah and Allah has never let me slip from His religion. Alhamdullilah ShukrAllah My struggle,heartbreak,loss and failure has only served to sharpen my sword and solidify my Imaan in Allahs Qadr,and His divine Wisdom in my life. Allah found me like a dirty piece of steel and iron in the dirt and threw me in the fire to soften my heart and weaken my ego. Then He took me out of the fire to beat me into the shape he wanted. After I found my shape He threw me back into the fire to burn away impurities and solidify my purpose. Again He took me out and beat me into the shape of a sword. He sharpened my blade and crafted my hilt and polished my heart to love Allah and his Messenger first before all others. May Allah adorn my saif with the precious love and affection of my beloved woman,My Qadr wife, My true beloved muslimah that will be the jewels and priceless stones Allah uses to beautify my SaifAllah with kindness and grace,true love and affection. I’m a hardworking man,A leader to my children and the best example of a Muslim man that I can be. I don’t follow doonya trends and stand firm in my deen. I teach my kids to be leaders and not followers aswell as being grateful and thankful to Allah for all of our blessings. I’m allergic to negative energy and require kindness and compassion from my wife. A kind word from the woman you love is the most precious medicine for a Muslim man. I’ve learned that the woman a man loves is the Sultaana on the throne of his heart and should be treated well ,protected and honored,respected and loved like Allah intended. Bismillah