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umad
33 Schenectady, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 22
Smoke: Don't smoke
Hey! Salam, Bonjour! I didn't know whether to write a long about me section or not but I thought you should know a thing or two about me haha So, I grew up in upstate New York, but my parents are Pakistani. However, most of my family does live in England 🇬🇧 and I've been there several times. I love traveling, and so far I have been to Saudi arabia, Turkey, Dubai, Pakistan and of course England! I want to travel more hopefully with my future spouse! I love going to the gym and keeping myself fit! Don't worry, even if you don't go, it's fine, we will work on it together 💪 haha. Believe it or not, I have never had a girlfriend or had any seriously relationship. I have never been to clubs or drank in my life. I grew up around a great group of people who guided me and kept me in line when it comes to deen and dunya. I know it's hard to believe in this day and age. I am not perfect but I do believe that this was worth mentioning. I love reading self help books for self improvement and all types of fiction and non fiction books as well. I have high goals and I am ambitious. I do believe that reading and improving ones knowledge is important. I have been on umrah a couple of times and I do pray all my prayers on time. My goal is to go on hajj at some point in sha Allah. Hopefully with my future wife! I want us to work and improve on deen together. I want someone who I can call my best friend. Who I can support through thick and thin and someone who will do the same for me. I also want someone who can work on deen with me as thats really important. I want us to one to have kids and raise them properly in sha Allah. Let's talk!
SHAN
50 Washington, District of Columbia, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 31
Smoke: Don't smoke
I don’t understand why the majority of women today desire exclusive yet imbalanced relationships. They want to own your time, your resources, and your emotional space — in return for what? Once children enter the picture, they begin to dictate your role and use emotional blackmail through the kids. What does a man truly gain from marriage, other than increasing responsibilities and lectures from every direction? Women between the ages of 20 to 40 often act as though the world revolves around them. They assume men are just fools chasing one thing. When the children reach their teenage years, “motherly love” shifts focus entirely to the kids — understandably. But at that point, the man is reduced to little more than the house dog. This attitude leads to resentment, distance, and ultimately divorce. Then, in their 30s to 50s, these same women start searching for a new man — someone else to own and control. But the pool of eligible men in that age range has drastically shrunk. Many single or divorced men aren’t available or interested, because they have better options: marrying someone younger, child-free, or from abroad. Plenty of women from back home are willing and even eager for that opportunity. Additionally, global gender ratios work against older single women. If it weren’t for China’s one-child policy, India’s customs, and the male-preference in Muslim countries, the world would likely have 5% more women than men. Even now, many nations have a higher female population. Marriage laws in most countries allow only one legal spouse, which often pushes people into secret or non-committed relationships. Research suggests that 20–25% of men and 10–15% of women cheat. Open relationships are increasingly accepted in the so-called “developed” world. However, a Muslim man is not allowed to pursue that path due to religious limitations. As a result, many Muslim men living in the West find themselves trapped — caught between domineering women who reject Islamic principles and also refuse to embrace Western alternatives. Once divorced, these women prefer to live as single parents for life, yet refuse to accept the role of a second wife.