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Matthew
43 Green Bay, Wisconsin, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 47
Hair color: Brown
if you're serious about talking to me I suggest you upgrade your profile. Hello i am a single man living alone in the same city i hve spent mostly my entire life in. i am and have been for quite a few years an amateur writer of short stories and i have had several of my stories published in 3 books in recent years. My main passion is writing, reading, drawing (ink drawings) and painting. I love art, music literature and film. I am seeking a beautiful intelligent woman as a partner for life. although i want to start as friends, marriage is highly likely once i fall in love with the best woman who steals my heart. One side of my family's people from Ireland and the other side Germany. I have no interest in American women, if you're reading this and from Northern Europe or the Middle East, you must realize that i always find some type of captivation and provocative allure from women form those parts of the world where people are more civilized and sophisticated with roots in an older archaic culture. There are something about the places I have always dreamed of going to but never have aside from in my imagination. I admit now that i have been thought of by people i know and myself as polite, respectful genuine and humble when i have to be, very straight forward no matter the situation. I am used to getting what i want out of life even if i have to wait a significant time. i have only ever been in one serious relationship & only ever been in love once. My main source of income that i will be receiving for the rest of my life is "SSI" because of my schizophrenia, that has been under control for 18 years. i do from time to time work seasonal positions and part time employment when i want or feel like i need to to get extra money for this or that. One of my goals for the future is to try to get a series of books published all with collections of my short stories along with illustrations. I love reading and prefer the works of H.P. Lovecraft or any type of mythology. I am serious about the Occult, and a lot of my core beliefs revolve around. although i pay close attention to every one and everything i come in contact with, i live in my own world where the paranormal and supernatural aspects of the world around us are more interesting than what i can see on the cover of a local newspaper or news magazine. Even though try to be informed of worldly events. I am looki9ng for a woman i can synch with and be with for life. starting as friends on here first then contact through emails or video visits and hopefully have her come here to America to meet me and reside permanently. I have made the choice never to have children and there's no exceptions. I enjoy all kinds of foods, riding bicycle, going to parks, going on road trips to other cities and towns, fairs, art galleries, museums, libraries, coffee shops, and spend a lot of time online. i am loyal & faithful and want a reason to love again. i live in an apartment building in a decent neighborhood. If a special lady thinks highly of me after reading this message me as i am more likely to respond than send the first message. by the way if you're looking for financial gifts or running a scam, i wasn't born yesterday so don't try it. I have only been on two sites like this in the past eight years one was only for three months, so i really like this site and there are a lot of beautiful women using it , even though i am not a paid member right now, i plan to be if if the site goes somewhere. I wanted to tell her that there are forms of happiness and pleasure that a lot of people overlook in the daily life that is not noticeable by the 5 senses. Thank you for reading.
Richard
47 Concord, New Hampshire, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 44
Hair color: Brown
Salam Aleykum, very nice to meet you. My name is Richard I am married and available with full knowledge and agreement of wife. I consider marriage to be a commitment and relationship that starts in this Dunya and will continue Insha Allah in paradise together. I am a US citizen. I live in the USA. I am a gentle man. If I send a message it is to talk to a sister in a normal way, no things that are haram and inappropriate. I know that some of that is going on here, that some people are not appropriate. I am honest and I behave as a man should. Anything of even the slightest sexual nature is for marriage, not before. I am a serious man and will not waste your time. My time is very valuable to me and I know that you also feel this way about your time. I will respect it. I am progressively working toward achieving my dreams, which are many and larger than life Insh Allah إن شاء الله I would like to find a partner who also wants to achieve great things and help me with my dreams. I want to help her too. I have beautiful children and I love being their father. This is the most fulfilling part of my life, and the most challenging. -------------------- POLYGAMY I believe polygamy is ordained by Allah and I believe that done properly can be a great blessing for all involved. That it is often done poorly does not mean polygamy is bad, it means that humans often do things poorly. I believe in polygamy on a philosophical level and a scientific one. Please do not expect to talk me out of it or be so much woman or such a great wife I will forget about it. That will not happen. I have multiple, important reasons for wishing to structure my family in a polygamous way. I understand if you disagree. I have a small family and want to have a large one, which is the primary reason why I am open to the idea of eventually (not right away) having additional partners, so that there can be many children, inchallah. It is also because I want a community of people together because they chose to be. And because many hands make light work. And finally because it is the nature of man to want to love and possess women. My nature, man's nature, is not bad, no matter what the West nor feminism may claim. I will be a man as Allah made me and build the family I feel is right to build. I am extremely honest and would not begin such a process without informing my wife, and allowing her all she needs to feel comfortable in the situation. I would only choose someone she approves of and whom we both agree will make our family even better. A second wife is not a solution to a problem in the current marriage and I would never have undertaken anything until the first marriage was completely secure, happy - which it is. I would like to have as large a family as possible. I have now raised children for 8 years and it is a HUGE amount of work. I hope that everyone in our family will accept all the children as their own (including mine that I have now) and help in raising them so that we can be great parents and have a life outside of raising them. I envision a community of people living in close proximity in their own homes on a large piece of land and helping one another achieve our dreams, inchallah. Every wife must be treated with great love and equality. I have great love and care within me to share, a great abundance of it. I also have a great store of forgiveness within me. I love myself and thus I am able to love others and accept them as they - a beautiful creation of Allah. As Allah has infinite patience and love for me though I do not deserve it, I strive, and continuously fail, to have the same for all of his children. I will keep trying to be a better man and I will never give up and I will never break my promises. I actually like women. I do not secretly think that women are jsut broken versions of men that need fixing via lectures. Perhaps the secret to making a polygamous marriage successful is the same secret to making *anything* in life successful: following an ihsaan-centric model, where one puts aside their own selfishness, emotional/ cultural baggage, and double standards in order to pursue a relationship that is pleasing to Allah over all else. I alone am responsible for my decisions, Polygamy is the decision of the husband and he alone must bear all of the consequences. It is not up to the wife to force herself to act like everything is OK if it is not. It is up to the husband to lead and make everything good for her. -------------------- MY HISTORY I have been a Russian Linguist in the US Army (long ago). I eventually left the military because I did not agree with my mission. Ultimately as a soldier you serve the person who has managed to colonize executive office. These wars are misguided and insane and I was thankfully able to leave before being involved in them due to Allah's (swt) divine will. I completed university in Boston at a good school. I studied business and it was quite interesting. I studied business because I was able to complete a four year degree in just two and a half years. I could study anything, really. I actually study just as much today as I ever did in college in the pursuit of my dreams. I have a fulfilling and rewarding career that gives me a lot of free time to go for my dreams. I am lucky. I also have my own business that does quite well. I have good financial, and very abundant material, resources. I have traveled often in Europe, especially Germany. Also been in the Balkans quite a bit and visited many other countries in Europe. I have seen a bit of Central America. In the planning stages to see Africa, South America and Asia. -------------------- EXPECTATIONS Please want children. I do not mind if you cannot have children, thanks to polygamy this is not an obstacle to our love and marriage. As long as you can love the children I have now and the ones to come we are compatible. You fully and gladly embrace polygamy as a religiously-ordained practice. You do not merely tolerate or accept it with reservations - I am not interested in trading the love and goodwill we create in exchange for your acceptance of a practice you do not want. This will only cause pain and suffering later. I do not want someone to tolerate it and hope for the best. Ideally you come from a culture that practices polygamy on a regular basis and consider it normal. Or you dream of a big, happy, crazy polygamous family for your own reasons or the reasons I do. Tell the truth. The entire truth, all the time. Do not be afraid to speak up and say your opinion. We are partners in this life, I am not your overlord, nor you my slave. It is a fine line between dominance and submission formed out of different personalities in love and falling into pre-made societal roles where we lose our identity. We will work hard each day to navigate the complexity of love. When you arrive in the USA you will not be able to work right away, but once you can, you of course can if you want. It is your chice to stay in the home or have a career. I nthe USA staying home is quite rare now. Most women do want to have a job and I fully support this. When a baby comes of course you should stay home for some time. I like hijabs, they are beautiful. It is your choice to wear one or not. Niqabs are impractical in modern American life and will be very difficult to wear on a daily basis here. But if it is what you wish I support that. Lastly, and if you have read this far, the reality is that the woman that fits with me is going to be rare. Having a subscription here month after month waiting for her is not a great deal for me! Just go ahead come and talk to me there, then we will get acquainted. I had pay account here for a few years and really, not much luck with someone who has same ideas as I have. If you do have same ideas definitely come and meet me to talk.

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