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SHAN
50 Washington, District of Columbia, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 40
Have children: Yes - live at home
I do not understand why majority of females want an exclusive and imbalanced relationship. They want to own you, your time and your resources in return for what? Once kids are in the picture, they want to dictate you and emotionally blackmail you through the kids. What a male gets out of marriage except more and more responsibilities and lectures from different sides? Females between the age of 20 – 40 think that everything evolve around them. All men are fools running after “one thing”. Once kids are entered in the teenage the motherly love requires them to take care of the kids. This is acceptable but now a male becomes just a dog of the house. This attitude leads to a divorce. Now these 30 – 50 females start to look for another toy to be owned and controlled. Now the pool of men in that age to be controlled has decreased significantly. They want to have a single or divorced man which are not available because first these males have an option to marry a single or a divorced girl without kids. Many girls from back home are willing and eager to go for that option. Second, there are not many men in that age group available. Third, if Chinese law, Indian customs and Muslim countries priorities have not created too many males in these countries, world would have had at least 5% more females. Still many countries have more female population as compared to males. One marriage law in many countries leads to relationships outside of formal commitments. Research shows that 20 – 25 percent men cheat and 10 -15 percent of women cheat. As a result, open relationships are gaining popularity in so called developed world. A Muslim is not allowed to go down that route because of the religious restrictions. Therefore, men living in these countries are hostage by dominating females who cannot accept western options and do not follow Islamic rules. These females once divorced, they continue to live as single parent for whole life but do not accept to be a second wife.
Marshall
42 Bloomington, Minnesota, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 43
Have children: Yes - live at home
Salamu Alaikum, The Prophet (s) said, "Verily, I have only been sent to perfect good character" and that is what I have been focused on doing since I reverted to Islam when I was 21. Islam is my deen, my way of life, and I strive to teach my family the importance of correct belief, acts of worship, and the good manners that should be developed alongside them, so that they can be successful in this life and the hereafter, insha Allah. Regarding my family, I have two beautiful (on the inside and out) teenage twin girls. Their mother is an equally beautiful person and although we couldn't make our marriage work in the end, we continue to work closely together to raise our daughters, alhamdulillah. This and the fact that I am an only child who needs to help his aging parents are the reasons I cannot relocate at this time. I am by nature a very positive and forgiving person who tries to make the most out of life, whatever the circumstances. If you fall down I'll be there to help you back up. If someone wrongs me but and are remorseful and do their best to change, I will do my best to be forbearing and forgiving to them. Others often describe me as a dutiful, honest, and positive person. I take my responsibilities seriously and believe that a man's word should be iron: whatever he says he will do he had better do everything in his power to make it happen. I'm more introverted than extroverted, and am a better writer than speaker, but overall I consider myself pretty socially balanced. I enjoy time to myself as well as with friends and family. But back-to-back social activities definitely drain my energy, so I'll need some time to myself to recharge my battery. I'm highly analytical and enjoy planning ahead or "tying my camel" whenever appropriate. I'm naturally inquisitive and enjoy asking questions and learning and try to maintain a healthy curiosity. I usually make decisions by thinking through them, but that's not always the case, emotions can play a role too. Financially speaking, I earn an IT Professional's salary, own my own home, live modestly, and consistently save / invest. In my spare time I enjoy long walks by myself or with my family, and with a little encouragement, other outdoor activities and sports. Physical health and fitness are important to me! I enjoy time indoors - PC games, tabletop games (e.g. D&D), watching movies [I love fantasy themes like Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, Dune, and Game of Thrones], learning about history, and dining with family and friends. I have a good sense of humor and enjoy expressing love, affection, and support to my family members. Oh, and I love cats and coffee. I've travelled to about 15 countries. And I've performed the Hajj [but would love to go again, insha Allah].

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