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Seattle, Washington, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 46
Have children:
Yes - live at home
It's all in His hands
Bismillah. I wonder how I can fit in this small box. My intention is to do my best to please Allah, and live this life the way that best pleases Allah. I believe that being with a spouse is half our deen, especially to perfect mercy, akhlaq and manners. These are my goals, and I honestly feel that I'm a tiny ant on this vast path. As I falter, and often do, my heart comes back to this goal.
Christian
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50
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Statesboro, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 60
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Boaz Looking For His Ruth
I am a single father with a beautiful daughter. She was the one that recommended this for me because she does not want me to be alone for the rest of my life. I am looking for someone who is ready to love and be loved in return because i know i have
Mamoon
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56
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Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 31 - 48
Have children:
Yes - live at home
USA residents only. Easy going.
I am not really good at Writing stuff, but I am really good talking. I am an easy-going person. I love people very passionate, Very loving and very caring. I love children. I make people laugh, no matter what. As I said, I am easy-going like to be happy all the time don’t like drama. I try to do my best to please Allah. I am volunteer mom for the community. even when I make khutbah On Fridays, I still make the brothers and sisters laugh. yes I forgot, I love animals within the USA
aziz
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29
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Panama City, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 35
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Looking for a wife to read the Quran with and pray
As-salamu alaikum. my name is aziz I’m from America but I’m multiracial. both of my parents are mixed I’m Cherokee samoan cerole Italian German Asian middle eastern and Indian and Irish lol yes that’s a lot but that’s my parents for you. I’m a busin
Ali
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38
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Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 35
Have children:
Yes - live at home
salam
if u r nt serious, plz do not send interest Salam I would describe myself as a goal oriented, adventurous, down to earth, fun-loving, helpful and a logical person. In my free time, I like to I workout, hang out with friends, go explore new
Ahmad
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34
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Leesburg, Virginia, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 35
Have children:
Yes - live at home
I am a 100% Real Genuine Certified Halal Man.
My name is Ahmad, I am 33, I live in Virginia. I am currently married, I am interested in adding a new wife to my family. My vision is to expand my family inshallah. I am a successful business owner alhamdulilah. I have the capacity and capability to marry a second wife and be equall in treatment and time.
Muhammad
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38
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Alexandria, Louisiana, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 46
Have children:
Yes - live at home
A kind man looking for Nikah with love & respect
I belong to a middle class family, I leave in Louisiana, I am very discipline, kind and energetic person at same time. I believe every one has the right to leave his life with peach and the way he want. We should respect and listen others . I love go
Jose
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48
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Fort Myers, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 40
Have children:
Yes - live at home
I've lived a full life. Now I need a good wife.
NO scammer please!!! You can call or text me. I am not using Skype or WhatsApp to talk to you. I'm not buying gift card for anyone. I love the outdoors, traveling and family time. I'm a single dad of three. I'm always smiling. I make friends anywhere. I value my family above all. I work hard and enjoy life. Please don't contact me if your a scammer. You will not get a single dime for me. But if your the person you say you are. And becomes my wife. You will never have to work another day ever. I will pay for everything. I am looking for a Muslim woman to be my wife. please don't waste my time. I am looking for a real woman to fall in love with to marry.
SHAN
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50
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Washington, District of Columbia, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 40
Have children:
Yes - live at home
الْنِكَاحُ مِنْ سُنَّتِي
I don’t understand why the majority of women today desire exclusive yet imbalanced relationships. They want to own your time, your resources, and your emotional space — in return for what? Once children enter the picture, they begin to dictate your role and use emotional blackmail through the kids. What does a man truly gain from marriage, other than increasing responsibilities and lectures from every direction? Women between the ages of 20 to 40 often act as though the world revolves around them. They assume men are just fools chasing one thing. When the children reach their teenage years, “motherly love” shifts focus entirely to the kids — understandably. But at that point, the man is reduced to little more than the house dog. This attitude leads to resentment, distance, and ultimately divorce. Then, in their 30s to 50s, these same women start searching for a new man — someone else to own and control. But the pool of eligible men in that age range has drastically shrunk. Many single or divorced men aren’t available or interested, because they have better options: marrying someone younger, child-free, or from abroad. Plenty of women from back home are willing and even eager for that opportunity. Additionally, global gender ratios work against older single women. If it weren’t for China’s one-child policy, India’s customs, and the male-preference in Muslim countries, the world would likely have 5% more women than men. Even now, many nations have a higher female population. Marriage laws in most countries allow only one legal spouse, which often pushes people into secret or non-committed relationships. Research suggests that 20–25% of men and 10–15% of women cheat. Open relationships are increasingly accepted in the so-called “developed” world. However, a Muslim man is not allowed to pursue that path due to religious limitations. As a result, many Muslim men living in the West find themselves trapped — caught between domineering women who reject Islamic principles and also refuse to embrace Western alternatives. Once divorced, these women prefer to live as single parents for life, yet refuse to accept the role of a second wife.
Quaaday
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50
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Brandon, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 30
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Most important: God. family, respect, and loyalty
International teacher. Been to 57 countries. Love traveling and meeting new people and experiencing new cultures. I am a kind hearted and loving father. I love the arts and life and all it has to offer. I hold friendship high and loyalty even highe
Abu Salma Edward B.
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44
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Kansas City, Missouri, United States
Seeking:
Female 19 - 60
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Always striving to be a better Muslim 🙂
Assalaamu ‘Alaykum wa rahmatullahi barakatuhu. Please Read My Profile Before Replying To Me. Thank you!! 🙂 جزآك الله خيرا. I am a practicing Muslim who is sincere and educated in al-Deen. I strive to gain the knowledge; to practice the knowledge; and to share the knowledge with others, as understood by theQur’an, the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), his Companions, and the first generations of Muslims (Salaf). I would like to mention my intentions up front. This way you can decide if communication is still good for you. I have one wife. She is a kind, humble, and practicing Muslim. She is also a great mother and a young business professional. She is supportive of my decision to marry a second wife. I am looking for a second wife to share my blessings with. With my second wife I would like to expand my family and build a loving home and a strong family support system. I will treat my second wife equally with love, affection, and respect, and I will protect her with my life, insha’Allah. We will live a simple and peaceful life and we will practice our faith together, insha’Allah. Please only contact me if you’re actually interested and ready for marriage. 🙂 جزآك الله خيرا.
Jassim
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31
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Rochester, New Hampshire, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 33
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Practicing Muslim Man looking for a right spouse.
Assalamu Alaikum. Please read my Bio Fully. My Name is Jassim Abdul Rahim. I'm 32 years old, from New Hampshire, USA I'm a Practicing Muslim Man who values the Dheen of Allah and follow the Quran and Sunnah and the way of salafs to the be
Hassan
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65
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Morgantown, West Virginia, United States
Seeking:
Female 38 - 60
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Looking to marry inshallah. I’m Hassan in the U.S.
My name is Hassan Im Saudi Arabian 🇸🇦I’m currently in America , I’m 54 years old and a former captain pilot at Abdul aziz airport in Jeddah Saudi Arabia, I’m retired and looking for a Muslim woman to marry by Islam for marriage only no relationship
Jabril
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37
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Tucker, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 32
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Looking for the best there’s to offer
My friends will describe me as self-sufficient and outgoing. I want my life to look like always using my time to grow my wealth from my family and be able Enjoy life and money currently as I still work towards leaving well for my family. In my free time, I’m mostly always coming up with ideas to invest or enhance my finances but I also like to travel recently. I’ve been traveling to Ghana Africa. I enjoy going out. I’m willing to go out love family event. I have fun with coming up with money ideas.
Noorudeen
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36
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Boynton Beach, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 50
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Obeying Allah, Following Muhammed
MashaAllah I have studied tawheed, Quran, sunnah , and fundamental principles for 7 years. I have remembered about a juz of Quran. Looking to meet my wife to please Allah 1st then to complete half my Deen 2nd and 3rd to make her happy keep her happy love her specially and give her the dreams she always wanted. some up front truthful things about me is that I was once a member deep into the dunya so much so that I landed myself in a situation like Yusuf(as). Allah granted me relief from that oppression 14 months ago. this is where I converted and MashaAllah have remained upon la ilaha ilallah since. I am currently a head cook in a deli with two sons who I had prior to my conversion but MashaAllah I am raising them into Islam. I would love for my future wife to be my partner in everything making decisions together raising children together under the authentic Sunnah of the messenger of Allah(sas). we will be partners in ibada, family, business, recreation, and all aspects of life. financially I am not in the best position but alhamdulillah I am grinding and trying for the sake of Allah
Tyler
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43
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Green Bay, Wisconsin, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 33
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Here I am stuck in the middle with you
Kind, caring, affectionate, hard-working single father. I have a small farm in the state of WI ISA that I live in, looking for my other half, my helper, my best friend. If you get the application called Signal, my name on there is blessedfarm.50 I would love to talk to you and see if we have a connection. Looking for honest and faithful woman to come and live in our farm, to help out with raising my daughter and being a good Godly example in the home. * I have my daughter full-time, and the farm needs attention every day so I am not able to come to your country. I am looking for somebody that is able to come to the US, and spend time in our home to build relationship fall in love, then get married. You must have the ability to come on your own. I will pick you up when you arrive. Also I am apostolic Pentecostal and believe in one God the creator of the heaven and the Earth.
Marshall
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43
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Bloomington, Minnesota, United States
Seeking:
Female 31 - 43
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Looking for my wife in this life and the hereafter
Salamu Alaikum, The Prophet (s) said, "Verily, I have only been sent to perfect good character" and that is what I have been focused on doing since I reverted to Islam when I was 21. Islam is my deen, my way of life, and I strive to teach my family the importance of correct belief, acts of worship, and the good manners that should be developed alongside them, so that they can be successful in this life and the hereafter, insha Allah. Regarding my family, I have two beautiful (on the inside and out) teenage twin girls. Their mother is an equally beautiful person and although we couldn't make our marriage work in the end, we continue to work closely together to raise our daughters, alhamdulillah. This and the fact that I am an only child who needs to help his aging parents are the reasons I cannot relocate at this time. I am by nature a very positive and forgiving person who tries to make the most out of life, whatever the circumstances. If you fall down I'll be there to help you back up. If someone wrongs me but and are remorseful and do their best to change, I will do my best to be forbearing and forgiving to them. Others often describe me as a dutiful, honest, and positive person. I take my responsibilities seriously and believe that a man's word should be iron: whatever he says he will do he had better do everything in his power to make it happen. I'm more introverted than extroverted, and am a better writer than speaker, but overall I consider myself pretty socially balanced. I enjoy time to myself as well as with friends and family. But back-to-back social activities definitely drain my energy, so I'll need some time to myself to recharge my battery. I'm highly analytical and enjoy planning ahead or "tying my camel" whenever appropriate. I'm naturally inquisitive and enjoy asking questions and learning and try to maintain a healthy curiosity. I usually make decisions by thinking through them, but that's not always the case, emotions can play a role too. Financially speaking, I earn an IT Professional's salary, own my own home, live modestly, and consistently save / invest. In my spare time I enjoy long walks by myself or with my family, and with a little encouragement, other outdoor activities and sports. Physical health and fitness are important to me! I enjoy time indoors - PC games, tabletop games (e.g. D&D), watching movies [I love fantasy themes like Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, Dune, and Game of Thrones], learning about history, and dining with family and friends. I have a good sense of humor and enjoy expressing love, affection, and support to my family members. Oh, and I love cats and coffee. I've travelled to about 15 countries. And I've performed the Hajj [but would love to go again, insha Allah].
abrahim
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40
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Auburn, Maine, United States
Seeking:
Female 23 - 44
Have children:
Yes - live at home
marriage
"Hi, I'm , a curious and driven individual with a passion for researching Islam and living a life guided by its values. Professionally, I work in the tech industry, where I strive for excellence and high quality in my work. In my personal life, Outside of work, you can find me exploring new knowledge and insights about Islam, enjoying meaningful conversations, and appreciating the simple joys in life. If you're a kind-hearted and dedicated individual looking for a partner to grow together in faith and life, let's connect!"
Dominic
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Verified
32
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Cleveland, Ohio, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 29
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Can't think of anything clever
A revert of 12 years, I became a Muslim at 18 years old and my wonderful wife and I have been two peas in a pod ever since. We both decided to expand our happy little clan which is why we started this profile. Moving on to the ol “about me” sect
Kaileem
Standard Member
36
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Killeen, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 39
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Single Muslim Father giving this a try.
I’m not really good at talking about myself. I am a single hardworking father. I am very hands on traditional man. I build, hunt (for food not fun), and provide for my children. I would like a woman in my life who can be an example to my daughters, and an inspiration for my son.
Hussein
Gold Member
37
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San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 49
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Hussein
Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh My name is Husain and in reality, I'm a peaceful person and God fearing. My age in reality as of Nov 2024 is 37 years old. I was born in the United States, but I was raised in Saudi Arabia, and after my graduation from High school I came to the United States around when I was 19 years old. I live now in Texas in San Antonio city, and I’m originally from the Arabian Peninsula (Nowadays called Saudi Arabia). I consider myself religious because I’m trying my best at least to do what's Wajib (a must do) such as the five prayers and fasting...etc., and some Mustahabat(Recommended deeds). Also, I ask God to provide me with a caring and pious wife inshaallah. I have four children from two marriages, one girl and three boys. I have Three children living with me, two boys, one is 15 years old, and one is almost 13 years old, and one girl is 11 years old. I currently just started studying in a Howza(Islamic theology or studies) and want to become a shiekh or an Imam one day inshaAllah. I also work and volunteering every Sunday teaching Quran and Arabic at one of the Islamic centers. I hope this is a good information that you need to know about me, and if you have any questions, please don't hesitate to ask me. Wassalam
Sharif
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Verified
51
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 36
Have children:
Yes - live at home
A true gentleman :)
A nice well educated athletic software entrepreneur. I am very active and athletic. I am generally happy and love adventures and traveling. Moderately religious and try to live life within the boundaries of Islam as much as I possibly can.
Abdul
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Verified
36
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Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 36
Have children:
Yes - live at home
I strive to live a meaningful life. I read ....... a lot. At least that's what people who know me would say about me. I read about religion, politics, economics, healthcare, history, Islamic finance and business as well as reading Daniel Tiger and Peppa Pig with my son =) I love following Islam in everything in my life to the best of my abilities قُلْ إِنَّ صَلَاتِي وَنُسُكِي وَمَحْيَايَ وَمَمَاتِي لِلَّهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِينَ
Timothy
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Verified
44
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Toledo, Ohio, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 30
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Hidden Gem
I love my kids and spend most of my time with them when I am not working. My career takes up most of my time but I love what I do. I am searching for a righteous woman to love me and to work together with me in business, and to do much good in this l
Ray
Standard Member
44
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Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 23 - 39
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Looking for my best female friend
Im Nigerian born Muslim who takes his religion very seriously. I strive to life my life according to the Qur’an and sunnah. I am interested in relationship that’s as peaceful as an idling boat on a calm river. 🙂 Not interested in a turbulent anything. Turbulent communication, turbulent relationship, turbulent love? Nah you can keep that 😌 I enjoy the gym and I actively play sports. I don’t really have a sweet tooth so I tend to eat healthy. I enjoy learning more about my religion. Either it’s through self study or classes. Currently Learning to recite Qur’an better and learning Arabic. I haven’t made Hajj yet, but it’s a goal in Sha Allah I have a great halal sense of humor...friends and family would describe me as generous, funny and intelligent. I’m a big coffee fan 🙂... a great cup of coffee in hand and the world looks more beautiful ☺️ I’m really just looking for a woman who we can call each other best friends and man and wife. Khalas Please Don’t be weird. Thanks for reading ✌🏾 As Salam Alaiykum
Ali
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33
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Castle Rock, Colorado, United States
Seeking:
Female 19 - 60
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Nowdays people are complicating Marriage.
My name is Omar and I 40 years old Somalia brother. I'm a very outgoing person who loves to explore new things. And also open minded. I'm a humble men with a tender heart that has mercy for others. I'm a honest person, also patient when calamity take
Kareem
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51
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Canton, Ohio, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 52
Have children:
Yes - live at home
As salaam alaikum
As-salamu alaykum! I’m a devoted individual who deeply fears Allah and strives to embody His teachings in my everyday life. Family is everything to me; I believe in loyalty and support, always standing by my loved ones. I am a hard worker, dedicated
Zak
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48
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Pensacola, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Looking Muslim wife
It's a beautiful sunny day. I’m fit, intelligent, kind-hearted, respectful, sincere, loyal, affectionate Open Mind and straight to the point . I am strong willed and don't hesitate to say how I feel. I love kids, I love to laugh and have fun. My family and friends are the most important things in my life, there has to be a balance between personal and professional life, and I’m lucky to be surrounded by great people, I enjoy helping people and watching everything flourish. Family & relationships I have a wonderful wife of 20 years and in a very loving relationship. My wife is a doctor and she converted to Islam when we met, she is always seeking to be closed for Allah. Values morals and traditions but has an Open Mind ..We have 4 kids and we love the uniqueness of each one of them. We are always trying to get closer to Allah, and we will keep doing so.
Mousa
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41
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McLean, Virginia, United States
Seeking:
Female
Have children:
Yes - live at home
لا حياة بلا أمل وعمل
The most beautiful thing about growing old is that the older you get a year makes you smaller many things that used to consume your energy and feelings one day. Maturity is a feature that rearranges things and people in our lives!!\NN don't make your understanding of livelihood: It stops at the limits of money and children! The most beautiful of the souls: The soul. The light of the mind and the health of the body. The heart and the safety of thought. The most beautiful of all, the call of a mother and the satisfaction of a father The presence of brothers... Laughing son. Attention of a friend... And a loving invitation to you I am Moses, a man whose character has matured through years of life and work, believing that life is full of challenges that contribute to the formation of our spirit and guide us toward the ultimate goal. My origins are well established and my family is of high social standing, growing up in an environment rich in values and principles that profoundly shaped my personality. I completed my undergraduate engineering degree and am now a Chief Engineer in Oman, practicing my profession with precision and innovation, and using my skills in technical and managerial communication with global teams. But, beyond professional life, I believe that the greatest project in life is parenting and caring, and indeed, for eight years, I have played the role of father and mother in raising two children: A girl and a boy. Through their upbringing, I have devoted my time and effort to bringing them up in an environment filled with love and a clear vision for the future. I have always believed that personal maturity comes not only from practical experiences, but from raising generations that carry values and principles and achieve lofty goals. As for pluralism, it is not a passing choice in my life, but part of my vision of building a strong nation based on justice and balance. I believe that pluralism is not just a social or religious imperative, but a tool by which to balance the family and distribute roles in a way that enhances the quality of life together. For me, pluralism is not a burden, but an opportunity to build a family capable of achieving glory, not only at the family level but at the national level. I am looking for a life partner who is an extension of this vision, a woman of intellectual superiority, with a heart beating with faith and love, able to be my companion in the journey of building family and community. Pluralism is not a burden, it is a quest for justice and balance, a choice based on mutual respect and participation in bringing glory to the nation and to our future generations. I was late for the idea of marriage because I wanted to raise my children in a balanced way, they were my first priority, and I wanted to be their father and mother at every stage of their lives. However, I am now in a phase where I am looking for a life partner who will be my partner in this path, a partner in building a family that aims to achieve glory and happiness in this world and the hereafter. I am looking for a woman with a deep mind, a spiritual wisdom, a heart full of faith, who can make a positive impact in our family and in society. A woman who is a custodian of the Book of God, who understands the mission of life, and is able to be a true partner in life’s journey to heaven. Raising generations, building a family based on the values of faith, is the path I am pursuing with my partner in this life, where together we are companions of the Commission, achieving lofty goals and facing challenges in one spirit.
Richard
Standard Member
48
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Concord, New Hampshire, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 44
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Love, marriage, children and faith.
Salam Aleykum, very nice to meet you. My name is Richard I am married and available with full knowledge and agreement of wife. I consider marriage to be a commitment and relationship that starts in this Dunya and will continue Insha Allah in paradise together. I am a US citizen. I live in the USA. I am a gentle man. If I send a message it is to talk to a sister in a normal way, no things that are haram and inappropriate. I know that some of that is going on here, that some people are not appropriate. I am honest and I behave as a man should. Anything of even the slightest sexual nature is for marriage, not before. I am a serious man and will not waste your time. My time is very valuable to me and I know that you also feel this way about your time. I will respect it. I am progressively working toward achieving my dreams, which are many and larger than life Insh Allah إن شاء الله I would like to find a partner who also wants to achieve great things and help me with my dreams. I want to help her too. I have beautiful children and I love being their father. This is the most fulfilling part of my life, and the most challenging. -------------------- POLYGAMY I believe polygamy is ordained by Allah and I believe that done properly can be a great blessing for all involved. That it is often done poorly does not mean polygamy is bad, it means that humans often do things poorly. I believe in polygamy on a philosophical level and a scientific one. Please do not expect to talk me out of it or be so much woman or such a great wife I will forget about it. That will not happen. I have multiple, important reasons for wishing to structure my family in a polygamous way. I understand if you disagree. I have a small family and want to have a large one, which is the primary reason why I am open to the idea of eventually (not right away) having additional partners, so that there can be many children, inchallah. It is also because I want a community of people together because they chose to be. And because many hands make light work. And finally because it is the nature of man to want to love and possess women. My nature, man's nature, is not bad, no matter what the West nor feminism may claim. I will be a man as Allah made me and build the family I feel is right to build. I am extremely honest and would not begin such a process without informing my wife, and allowing her all she needs to feel comfortable in the situation. I would only choose someone she approves of and whom we both agree will make our family even better. A second wife is not a solution to a problem in the current marriage and I would never have undertaken anything until the first marriage was completely secure, happy - which it is. I would like to have as large a family as possible. I have now raised children for 8 years and it is a HUGE amount of work. I hope that everyone in our family will accept all the children as their own (including mine that I have now) and help in raising them so that we can be great parents and have a life outside of raising them. I envision a community of people living in close proximity in their own homes on a large piece of land and helping one another achieve our dreams, inchallah. Every wife must be treated with great love and equality. I have great love and care within me to share, a great abundance of it. I also have a great store of forgiveness within me. I love myself and thus I am able to love others and accept them as they - a beautiful creation of Allah. As Allah has infinite patience and love for me though I do not deserve it, I strive, and continuously fail, to have the same for all of his children. I will keep trying to be a better man and I will never give up and I will never break my promises. I actually like women. I do not secretly think that women are jsut broken versions of men that need fixing via lectures. Perhaps the secret to making a polygamous marriage successful is the same secret to making *anything* in life successful: following an ihsaan-centric model, where one puts aside their own selfishness, emotional/ cultural baggage, and double standards in order to pursue a relationship that is pleasing to Allah over all else. I alone am responsible for my decisions, Polygamy is the decision of the husband and he alone must bear all of the consequences. It is not up to the wife to force herself to act like everything is OK if it is not. It is up to the husband to lead and make everything good for her. -------------------- MY HISTORY I have been a Russian Linguist in the US Army (long ago). I eventually left the military because I did not agree with my mission. Ultimately as a soldier you serve the person who has managed to colonize executive office. These wars are misguided and insane and I was thankfully able to leave before being involved in them due to Allah's (swt) divine will. I completed university in Boston at a good school. I studied business and it was quite interesting. I studied business because I was able to complete a four year degree in just two and a half years. I could study anything, really. I actually study just as much today as I ever did in college in the pursuit of my dreams. I have a fulfilling and rewarding career that gives me a lot of free time to go for my dreams. I am lucky. I also have my own business that does quite well. I have good financial, and very abundant material, resources. I have traveled often in Europe, especially Germany. Also been in the Balkans quite a bit and visited many other countries in Europe. I have seen a bit of Central America. In the planning stages to see Africa, South America and Asia. -------------------- EXPECTATIONS Please want children. I do not mind if you cannot have children, thanks to polygamy this is not an obstacle to our love and marriage. As long as you can love the children I have now and the ones to come we are compatible. You fully and gladly embrace polygamy as a religiously-ordained practice. You do not merely tolerate or accept it with reservations - I am not interested in trading the love and goodwill we create in exchange for your acceptance of a practice you do not want. This will only cause pain and suffering later. I do not want someone to tolerate it and hope for the best. Ideally you come from a culture that practices polygamy on a regular basis and consider it normal. Or you dream of a big, happy, crazy polygamous family for your own reasons or the reasons I do. Tell the truth. The entire truth, all the time. Do not be afraid to speak up and say your opinion. We are partners in this life, I am not your overlord, nor you my slave. It is a fine line between dominance and submission formed out of different personalities in love and falling into pre-made societal roles where we lose our identity. We will work hard each day to navigate the complexity of love. When you arrive in the USA you will not be able to work right away, but once you can, you of course can if you want. It is your chice to stay in the home or have a career. I nthe USA staying home is quite rare now. Most women do want to have a job and I fully support this. When a baby comes of course you should stay home for some time. I like hijabs, they are beautiful. It is your choice to wear one or not. Niqabs are impractical in modern American life and will be very difficult to wear on a daily basis here. But if it is what you wish I support that.
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What is meant for you won't miss you
I'm a practicing Muslim and i do take the deen seriously. I'm layed back for the most part But enjoy sports and other activities by Allah. Articulate and analytical with a rounded understanding of the fundamentals of Islam respectful of the rights of others not one for the games I want to travel practice the religion and spend time with like minded upbeat personalities inshaAllah
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Let’s enter Paradise together!!
**** ONLY USA CANDIDATES **** Warm greetings and salaam! Here is a quick intro about me: - HR Manager of a global organization - 2013 MBA Student of the year - Alhumdulilah Fortunate Homeowner - Swim/ workout 5-6 days a week - Easy going and understanding - Mentally stable, leader decision maker and chivalry - Down to Earth respectful and good personal hygiene - Family oriented - Enjoy Netflix, traveling, watching sky, socializing, fitness, coffee, maintaining healthy lifestyle, DIY home improvements, etc. - Pray, fast, give charity and balance religion and worldly life. Single by choice as I am in pursuit of a very special person to enjoy life, cherish each other and make precious memories 🌹🔥❤️💍🎉🎈🎊 Best of luck!
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Muslimah salaam humor me
Read carefully,Without the Qur’an I don’t know right from wrong, I would worry whether my life will be short or long. I would wonder where my next meal will come from. I would ponder about the meaning of life I would have no answer for all the strife I would be lost in a world where oppression is rife.skype,alcherokee Without the Qur’an I wouldn’t know what to do I wouldn’t know where I came from or am going to But these questions are easy thanks to you. This life is full of tests and fraught with hardship. It is not meant for play but for worship. Thanks to the Qur’an I know whom y Lord is I know His names and where His throne is I know that all creation and authority are His Thanks to you, I know the truth from the lie I know nothing changes when I will live or die I know which Law to live my life by My life span and provision, Allah alone decides To the truth, it is only Allah that guides By His law alone, the believer abides. For every problem, you have a remedy You teach me who is my friend and who is my enemy You give my Imaan increase and energy You are my map to Paradise My passport for the afterlife Your value, is an unattainable price. P.S Im Studying in Egypt know i been here for one year .
Jihad
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Trust in Allah
Bismillah,I am practicing muslim and a single parent of one child that has very good behavior and respectful. I believe in allah and his messenger. I offer my five obligatory prayers a day and I dress as a muslim most of the time. I fear allah, , I
Ibn Yahya
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Asalaamu Alaykum wa Ramatullahi wa Barakatu
I am a hardworking healthcare professional and grad student, passionate about din al-Islam and family. Inshallah, I`d like to meet a fun, intelligent, sweet, caring, romantic muslimah trying to live and/or better herself as we all should, in accordance to the Quran AND Sunnah, with love for Islamic studies, becoming better Muslims, Mu`minun, and beyond. World issues, social causes, books, etc.................but as I stated, ROMANTIC, LOVING, FUN AND ADVENTUROUS person, who loves children and has a HUGE heart Insh'Ällah.
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