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SHAN
50 Washington, District of Columbia, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 40
Body style: Average
I don’t understand why the majority of women today desire exclusive yet imbalanced relationships. They want to own your time, your resources, and your emotional space — in return for what? Once children enter the picture, they begin to dictate your role and use emotional blackmail through the kids. What does a man truly gain from marriage, other than increasing responsibilities and lectures from every direction? Women between the ages of 20 to 40 often act as though the world revolves around them. They assume men are just fools chasing one thing. When the children reach their teenage years, “motherly love” shifts focus entirely to the kids — understandably. But at that point, the man is reduced to little more than the house dog. This attitude leads to resentment, distance, and ultimately divorce. Then, in their 30s to 50s, these same women start searching for a new man — someone else to own and control. But the pool of eligible men in that age range has drastically shrunk. Many single or divorced men aren’t available or interested, because they have better options: marrying someone younger, child-free, or from abroad. Plenty of women from back home are willing and even eager for that opportunity. Additionally, global gender ratios work against older single women. If it weren’t for China’s one-child policy, India’s customs, and the male-preference in Muslim countries, the world would likely have 5% more women than men. Even now, many nations have a higher female population. Marriage laws in most countries allow only one legal spouse, which often pushes people into secret or non-committed relationships. Research suggests that 20–25% of men and 10–15% of women cheat. Open relationships are increasingly accepted in the so-called “developed” world. However, a Muslim man is not allowed to pursue that path due to religious limitations. As a result, many Muslim men living in the West find themselves trapped — caught between domineering women who reject Islamic principles and also refuse to embrace Western alternatives. Once divorced, these women prefer to live as single parents for life, yet refuse to accept the role of a second wife.

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