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InstaChadBoston
48 Salem, Massachusetts, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 47
I want to be a husband and I am inspired by the American Imam Adnan Adrian Wood-Smith. Update: 1. Please no feminists trying to hide in America and I will not sponsor anyone for a green card. Must be able to leave parents and live in New England. 2. I am not sectarian, the Quran states Islam is one religion and there is to be no bands or factions. 3. I see the need for ummah and will never say leave Islam out of anything. 4. I respect all tribes and languages as the Quran statea Allah made us and my tribe and language is English so if you don't respect that then do not pretend to. 5. I respect the Deobandi movement, but I only rely on Quran because it is clear. 6. I have no time to waste with vain and selfish people who have no desire to be a wife. My story: I reverted in New Hampshire and then had a failed marriage with a pure munafiq from Morocco. Reverts tend to be more practicing. I have a 4 year old son in Waterbury I have a strong bond with and is being raised Muslim. I am looking for a true Muslim wife and have no tolerance for hypocrites or fake people. I need a wife who would love to teach me Arabic and knows all the things the Quran states a woman and wife should not be. I am intense, intelligent, generous, and hard working. So I'm 48 and have no time for games. I work in the Andover, MA area so would like to be able to see someone close by after work. I also have my son in CT that I see on the weekends so if youre a mom or maybe even wanted to be a mom but never could this may be a good opportunity for you to have a family. So that's the reality. I am a unique mix of intellect and experience. I have a strong sense of justice and aware of geopolitics. Do I think America is the greatest country? No. If I could move to another country I would. I like to do things right but I also have a fun side. I can wear a tux for a night event and then be racing at Limerock the next day. I love fast cars and intense exercise, so you should too. Spiritually I am at a humble place in my life where I realize all life has a purpose whether I like it or not. I don't support woke, liberal, LGBQT agendas, but I also don't support Christian Zionists. I realize the need for 2 gender partnerships in my community. I have been in love just not with someone that has been good for me, so that is what I am really getting at. I just need someone good for me and I really want to be good for someone. I am a family man and soldier at heart, that means I am self sacrificing and very generous. I have wasted so much time and effort that I am being extremely careful not to do that anymore. I always was so open to everyone but learned the hard way that just because people are attracted to each other doesn't mean they are good for each other. I am going to make sure we are good for each other before we are attracted to each other this time around. I have an Academic Award from the White House signed by the President but didn't stop me from finding the truth in Islam. I have had a colorful life and have learned things I couldn't have any other way. I hate smoking and drugs. I try to stay perfectly healthy but am realizing it's much easier when you have a like minded partner. From my past relationships I do well with strong, independent women, who have good judgement and are very active. Some of their professions have been business owner, pharmacist, IRS agent, police officer, basically women who are reliable and responsible. Problem has been that I work 60 hours a week with a son in CT so I don't have much free time. I am home every night and have 2 days off, it's just a lot of hours, but sometimes I get extra days off. In any event I am fair minded and straight forward. I would love to build a life together rather than alone. Open to relocating. I love everything about New Hampshire and wish I had never moved back to Massachusetts. I am not a big City person and love everything natural with space. Let's build together. 4 reasons a relationship ends, home life, how we get angry, how we travel, and how we spend money. I can't have the temp over 72f in my house or the humidity over 50% so I hate opening the windows on a 90 degree day with 100% humidity. I like a clean and organized house, always romantic, never neglected. It takes alot to make me angry and I avoid getting angry by walking away or ending a relationship, but when I do get angry I'm like a drill sergeant in hopes the situation never happens again. When I travel I am safe, thorough, prepared, and plan everything. I spend money on health food and healthy living, I can indulge on romantic or special events but otherwise frugal. Find my Insta.
SHAN
50 Washington, District of Columbia, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 40
I do not understand why majority of females want an exclusive and imbalanced relationship. They want to own you, your time and your resources in return for what? Once kids are in the picture, they want to dictate you and emotionally blackmail you through the kids. What a male gets out of marriage except more and more responsibilities and lectures from different sides? Females between the age of 20 – 40 think that everything evolve around them. All men are fools running after “one thing”. Once kids are entered in the teenage the motherly love requires them to take care of the kids. This is acceptable but now a male becomes just a dog of the house. This attitude leads to a divorce. Now these 30 – 50 females start to look for another toy to be owned and controlled. Now the pool of men in that age to be controlled has decreased significantly. They want to have a single or divorced man which are not available because first these males have an option to marry a single or a divorced girl without kids. Many girls from back home are willing and eager to go for that option. Second, there are not many men in that age group available. Third, if Chinese law, Indian customs and Muslim countries priorities have not created too many males in these countries, world would have had at least 5% more females. Still many countries have more female population as compared to males. One marriage law in many countries leads to relationships outside of formal commitments. Research shows that 20 – 25 percent men cheat and 10 -15 percent of women cheat. As a result, open relationships are gaining popularity in so called developed world. A Muslim is not allowed to go down that route because of the religious restrictions. Therefore, men living in these countries are hostage by dominating females who cannot accept western options and do not follow Islamic rules. These females once divorced, they continue to live as single parent for whole life but do not accept to be a second wife.

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