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Mehmet
46 Aachen, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany
Seeking: Female 25 - 40
DEEPMIND
44 Düsseldorf, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany
Seeking: Female 18 - 24
Assalaamu alaikum Dear Sisters around deen. A profile from a brother. bissmi 'llaahi oua ssalaatu oua ssalaamu alaa rasouuli 'llaah ******** TO THE PERSON ******* Age: 42 (thanks to Allah I look very young) Size : 181cm Hair color : Dark brown Figure/stature: Athletic / athletic Continent : Africa (Maghreb ) State: NRW Change of location: No You live alone: Yes (with 2 cats W/M) Do you have children: No Do you want children: YES Very - (with the right inshallah. Several to enlarge the ummah with righteous children inshallah) **** RELIGION * Since when you have been (conscious) Muslim: Always with learning, the process started about 10 years ago. You read the Quran (Arabic) or a translation: Rather Arabic (after all, you have enough to do with it - if you read Tafsir, the hadith and the learned explanations.) German version rather to explain it better in German. Do you wear a beard: YES alhamdulillah Lang What do you do to train yourself in Islam: To constantly form (without imagining it. One is small in knowing despite knowing), eg Kitab attaouhiid, thalathat ousoul kashf ashouhaat Quran teaching siirah when it goes directly from the shouyoukh. Unfortunately too little in the EU. But alhamdulillaah there are enough explanations of tapes like Sheikh al-Albaani Sheikh ibn alouthaimiin Sheikh ibn baaz Sheikh Saiid raslaan Sheikh saalih alfaouzaan… (but does not replace direct learning) *** INTERESTS ***** How do you spend your free time: Reading, studying, training, and I do nothing then think a lot, try to do good deeds (clean up) and other activities like meeting brothers. It also depends on a lot of weather. (I'm more of an eagle than a canary) How do you like it at home: Clean (very exhausting for me as a man to keep it) and, above all, I like it when it smells like boukhour. What is your favorite food: I have almost all halal cuisines of all cultures through, must say the Moroccan is the most to me. Sushi, Thai (not spicy) healthy, no sweet food (think food should be salty and desert sweet) * PROPERTIES ** Strengths: I discovered many of my strengths after I recognized my weaknesses! Enforcement, thinker, mercy, being patient in Allah's radar, I am not one who quickly gives up when I see meaning in something. i'm straight or authentic. There is much that my future wife can discover with me in the inshallah (is also better). Weaknesses: Can be lazy, can quickly become fiery (it's more about efficiency than showing its weaknesses). One weakness that many have is to control his nafs better (may Allah help) I like this especially: Obedience of the HEHE wife (for Allah) to her husband in halal (after all, it stays together 80% today because of this), a good cook, a woman with a (warm) HEART in the right place, humor, a look that I like inshallah (because I want to see my wife in Jannah again. lt hadith will be 70 times more beautiful than the hoor aleyn.) And if she is enthusiastic about ideas and wants to learn it (I can support inshallah after all, she should be the teacher of her children)"I don't like that especially: (I remain related to topics here) When Sisters do not even know the criteria themselves, let alone act on them, according to Quran and Sunnah. zb quran and sunnah in anticipation and unfortunately not in fulfilling! Or Quran and Sunnah if it is in life Prosit but if it turns negative - which Allah's tests are, things are not handled after Quran and Sunnah. Unfortunately, they are using other sources of solutions. The rule is to know before talking and acting! and if you want to know, then you only understand and believe and not already have something specific in your heart and look for it in the deen! May Allah keep me from this and give me a good sister and mother of the children. What is also very counterproductive is a hidden emancipation/feminism that is designed by the Shaitan especially for our sisters (ouallaahi Shaitan has invested a lot there and how you can hide it is not necessarily to know all your trix, but the sister should simply know and do the duty of marriage. thus his plan is useless - as allah said the cunning of saitan is weak - but with the following of quran and sunnah). Do you not observe the high divorce rate despite knowing the ideas? (Please understand exactly what the rights and duties in Islamic marriage are with the understanding of Muslims.) Families break a lot in Islamic marriages that they do not act properly, interfere (e.g. the husband for the family and not the father of the wife or even their mother. After all, the man before Allah also bears the responsibility) or because they prefer tradition of the Sunnah. (as i said, quran and sunnah. The sister or brother should already have the courage to keep his family out with kindness but clearly) ** EDUCATION/OCCUPATION * EDUCATION : Martial arts teacher /security industry Studies : Wing tsung Akademie/soundenengeneering (alhamdulillaah abandoned) Occupation: Current employment: Martial arts teacher + soon a further education Other knowledge: (insllah if you meet private in halal with ouali) but a few would be, tajoueed knowledge, several spoke... ** WISHES FOR THE FUTURE PARTNER********** What characteristics should it have: (I think I mentioned a few things above.) Feminine (not only externally but also internally), NICE, good heart, OBEDIENCE (the duty of the woman today is so much hurt by the woman) calm mind, good-natured. Attention paid (well-kept) Age: Until 28 approx. Appearance: (At least Khimar but best is Niqab) I should like inshallah. The more she lifts her charms for her husband, the more barakh Allah will make in her beauty. sporty inshallah would be good. The most important thing is that we master the trials of this life through Quran and Sunnah and grow together in it and give the children the same. Until Allah takes us (on the effort and the aqidah) again to Himself, it shall have Hijab/Khimar/Niqab: At best Niqab or on the way away there Khimar shall be the least. Other wishes: (Correct) aqidah should know her (without exaggeration UB in takfir or sufia or shia etc.). Inshallah without children. baaraka llaahu feekum.
hi
38 Düsseldorf, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany
Seeking: Female 30 - 40
Kamil
27 Düsseldorf, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany
Seeking: Female 18 - 29
"أنا رجل تعلّمت أن القرب من الله هو أجمل شعور. قلبي معلّق بدعاء في جوف الليل، وأحلامي تبدأ بسجدة وتنتهي برضا. أؤمن أن الستر ليش فقط في اللباس، بل في الكلام، والنظر، وحتى النية. انا لست شخص كاملا، لكني أجتهد كل يوم لأكون أقرب لله، أحب البساطة، أحب البساطة، وأقدّر الأخلاق، وأختار الطمأنينة على الزيف، هدوئي مو ضعف، وتسامحي مو سذاجة… ولكن قلبي يعرف ربه، ويتعامل بنوره. أنا أرى الجمال في الخلق، والهيبة في الحياء، وأدري أن أعظم علاقة تبدأ عندما يكون طرفها الأول: الله. I am a man who learned that being close to God is the most beautiful thing. My heart is attached to a prayer in the middle of night, and my dreams begin with a prostration and end with contentment. I believe that concealment is not only in clothing, but in speech, looks, and even intentions. I am not a perfect person, but I strive every day to be closer to God. I love simplicity, I love simplicity, I value morals, and I choose tranquility over falsehood. My calmness is not weakness, and my tolerance is not naivety... but my heart knows its Lord, and deals with His light. I see beauty in creation, and majesty in modesty, and I know that the greatest relationship begins when its first partner is: God.
Sebastian
46 Bonn, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany
Seeking: Female 18 - 38
Cemil Söyler
50 Wesel, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany
Seeking: Female 40 - 52
Ibnu Abi
42 Duisburg, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany
Seeking: Female 20 - 50
﴿ وَالَّذِينَ يَقُولُونَ رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا﴾ الفرقان:74 And those who say: \"Our Lord, give us reason to be happy with our wives and our descendants, And make us an example for the God-fearing.\" (25:74) First I must confess to myself the tremendous graces of ALLAH, I am neither rich nor wealthy, but neither poor. al HamduLLILAH At the beginning and at the end, because I am allowed to live in Germany like a king. I can eat when I want and drink when I want. My electronic slaves wash my laundry and dishes. I have light at the touch of a button, with constantly running cold and warm water. My sleeping place is low, but is fluffier than a cloud and always has space for 2. A well-kept home protects me in wind and weather. And when it's cold outside, it's warm inside. When it is warm outside, the garden provides shade and joy. My mechanical mount is fast and carries me everywhere by ALLAH'S favor, HIS destiny, and HIS permission. And there's much more to explore. \Nal HamduLLILAH at the beginning and at the end. ich I have been a Muslim and male German 43 years old for about 18 years, single father of two extremely charming and cute girls (13/11) and we come from Duisburg. I mention the male one extra, because it is unfortunately a rarity today. 😏 I am neither young nor too old, nobody has estimated me to be older than 32. Al HamduLLILAH at the beginning and at the end. I am neither too beautiful to be a fitness where every woman turns her head, nor too ugly to have to endure the bitter test of patience. Al HamduLLILAH at the beginning and at the end. For some I am sweet, in the whole package also a dream man. For the other not her type and not worth the speech. They also said a sweet milk slice. I say for some simply sweet, for others not their taste. There is ALWAYS one who is nicer, smarter, bigger, richer, etc. Al HamduLLILAH at the beginning and at the end.\I am a man with intellect and character with ambition and unchangeable principles. I don't have the humor of a dumb clown, nor am I too dry. I love it everyday to revive my marriage, even if it is only due to everyday life, with a sweet saying. I'm a leopard at home and I'm taking care of my kitten. I can't be a hangover, otherwise we are at eye level 😉. Outside, however, I am the inconspicuous lion and defend my honor as best I can. I'm outside nice to everyone who is also to me. Try to keep my smile in this strange tribulation. But I do not compromise my DIN, just to please the non-Muslims. I avoid the company outside as far as I can and prefer to work on me or my family rather than waste my time hanging out with. Life is simply too short for this and follows the wise advice of the early scholars, the Salaf. 25 years of crazy Jahiliyya hanging out was enough for me. May ALLAH forgive me. There will be much more exciting things to explore for me later on. Al HamduLLILAH at the beginning and at the end. The greatest grace came to me in 2007 when ALLAH guided me. In 2011 ALLAH gave me the second greatest grace when he let my parents follow. For about 18 years the Kufr against the Taghut and the Iman to ALLAH have been our constant companion in a German family and an obstacle to this foreign time. -> As with glowing coal in hand in this hopeless loneliness. Al HamduLLILAH at the beginning and at the end. During this time there was also a wonderful marriage. Why it failed, I will gladly tell you later. Of course, separation always involves two, I am not an innocent lamb, but also a separation (from my own in July 2022) can be a grace. Nevertheless, I have a testimony to experience, development and quality. I also have six wonderful children, who are deprived of the rest of decency and Islam that I was allowed to build in 15 years, of course only with the grace of ALLAH, now day after day by this abominable German society and the Shaitan. Unfortunately, the mother is deeply to blame for this. Sorry, I just have to mention that, more about it privately. The last year of this beautiful 15 years of education, I was completely alone with 5 children which worked wonderfully, but unfortunately was taken away from me. For me and my children, the best year we have ever had and a huge experience for me that I have ever had. I have the two sweetest cuddly cats left. Al HamduLLILAH at the beginning and at the end. More on this later. Sounds worse than it is, don't worry! So now to the most important point in my current life. MOM!!! My father died in 2014 (rahimahullah) and since then my mother had to give up on me until 2023, because I always didn't swirl around here with my family. For 25 years I was weak and my mother was strong and I was wearing. Now I am strong and my mother weak and don't want to leave her alone. In Sha'a ALLAH . My mother is no longer the youngest but can still manage everything independently except the loneliness. Who of us can cope with loneliness? You will learn more later in Sha´a ALLAH – Al HamduLLILAH at the beginning and at the end. so What is the charming Bilal really looking for now? \NDU must love loneliness. Because that will be our part of life. Just as it was part of the best people before us. A true advice from Sufyaan Ath-Thauriy. I don't want to bend you, or you'll break. Your curvature is inviolable for me. We all have corners and edges. When I hit it, you just have to cure me and comfort me. Even though I am the doctor in the family, I have been a naturopath/health consultant since 2019. 😉 We do not need to worry about anything, because there is a dispute in every good marriage. You just have to know how to argue that no catastrophe will happen. Please don't be resentful, I'm not. Even if the shreds fly, no one is angry. I can even make jokes in the middle of the fight and you? Rare, but may occur. In Sha´a ALLAH. If you want and I should take you on my humble life ship, you have to understand that I am the commander. Allah gave the last word to the man in the family. This does not mean that I cannot be talked to. On the contrary. I wish for a wise counselor, which is worth more than a mountain of gold. But you shouldn't be disappointed if I can't follow your advice and decide otherwise. I just want the best for EVERYONE. Above all for my family on the best way of ALLAH in Sha'a ALLAH. It is never easy for a man to make a decision, no matter how small, the responsibility for it is ever greater, because we must be accountable for everything. Only in such a way of life is there blessing in Sha'a ALLAH. If the woman thinks she wants to play the leader, every marriage and every people will fail. Let us remember the words of ALLAH Subhanahu wa ta'ala and the wise words of our beloved prophet (sallallahu alahi wa salam) ▪️ Aḷḷāh - Exalted He - said: الرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُونَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ بِمَا فَضَّلَ اللَّهُ بَعْضَهُمْ عَلَىٰ بَعْضٍ وَبِمَا أَنفَقُوا مِنْ أَمْوَالِهِمْ "Men are responsible (Qawwāmuun) for women because of this, With which Aḷḷāh has distinguished one of them before the other and because they spend their possessions." [4:34] Some of this verse: Ibn Kathīr (701 - 774 n.H.) said in his "Tafsīr Work": "The man is in charge of the woman and he is her leader, her great and the ruler/ruler over her if she should be crooked/deviated." Then he said: "And this because men are better than women, and men are better than women. Therefore, Prophethood was destined only to men, and the same applies to the rule, since he said to ﷺ: 'A people that uses a woman (as ruler) will not be successful.' handed down by Al-Bukhārī." How true, how true my dear Ukhoyya! \Don't read often that there are people who always want to have a solution to the problem after a dispute. This is not always possible and then you should also leave it good. You should sweep some problems that cannot be solved under the table and never get them out again. Of course, in order to make it clearer, this requires theoretical examples which would be out of place here. There are certainly more, but that was a few spontaneous thoughts. - But what is important to me about US now is that we speak German and Arabic well. With languages we conquer hearts bi´ithniLLAH. And that is what I want. I want you to conquer my heart, just as I want to conquer yours. In Sha'a ALLAH. And ALLAH has made the hearts. \N - You should be able to read the Quran perfectly or have set this as a really serious goal. Not for my own sake, A'udhu Billah. A scholar does not make me a scholar. One who prays at night does not make me a prayer at night. And vice versa. This does not work like this and is only a dream and a dream, but not a reality. And ALLAH has power over all things!\Naber! The mothers are the Ummah's educators. That's what I'm interested in. Anyone who can read the Quran can also pass it on to the descendants of Sha'a ALLAH. Consider this! And I want a completely new family by my side. In Sha'a ALLAH - You should learn with me the true marital adab. Since my separation 3 years ago, there has been a tremendous amount of learning on this subject, which I have not been able to learn in the last 15 years due to the new knowledge about the way and understanding of Salaf. This has given me a lot of indulgence and above all insight, which I have actually done wrong in my marriage. - The next goal should be, under ALL CIRCUMSTANCES, that we get real Arabic tongues. You can? I still have to learn! \NThis is important otherwise we/I will be sinful according to the statements of the scholars. And by that I mean it should be so good that you can browse through the old books. In Sha'a ALLAH – maybe you are ahead of me. If not, how nice to compete with you. I love the competition and you!? - What I don't like at all are the mobile phone bloggers, internet leisure designers and the Amazon Prime Video and Netflix subscribers. Telegram, Whatsapp, Social Media, Google and Co. should be banned from life. This only leads to fitness and is not a benefit at all and dangerous to any character and relationship. Of course there are ways to use these things healthy, but more about it privately. \N - Finally, I want me to be your center of your life just as you should be mine. In Sha'a ALLAH. Whether with your own children or not! This emphasis was actually missing in my old marriage and on both sides, because we had put our emphasis on child education and that was partly only right. But I only had to learn this after the separation, alone with my children, through friends and the statements of Salaf and deep contemplation. I think there's more, but that's the most important thing for me. Everything else develops in marriage, in Sha'a ALLAH. I just want to fall in love again, to have a like-minded person, a friend by the side, a feeling like before, a person with whom I really share everything -> My love, my heart. Where it's not about money, that's yours and that's mine. All of me is for you and all of you for me. You go through thick and thin, through light times and difficult, without accusations, only with good encouragement and mutual motivation. My parents always lived this in my own way and so it was also dominant in my old marriage and was just wonderful. And I know it can be like that again. In Sha'a ALLAH. It does not only require a manager, but also simply to be on a wavelength. A marriage like the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alahi wa salam) and Khadijah had it. Or like the Prophet Ayuub (Alahi salam). A woman who always stands behind me, always encourages me to continue and not give up. A woman who loves me like I am. Strong or weak. Young or old. With teeth or without. Rich or poor. Sometimes smelling good, sometimes sweaty. Just as I always stand behind her, in times of pregnancy, put on her shoes when she can no longer and much more. My eyes overlook the traces of pregnancy and age when it conquers my heart. So my eyes become blind to every blemish and my heart full of acuity, to the most beautiful sides of it. In Sha'a ALLAH so as our beloved prophet (sallallahu alahi wa salam) said: "No believer detests a believer. If he hates one of their qualities, he likes another." Report from Imaam Muslim. How true, how true my dear Ukhoyya
Arif
32 Bünde, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany
Seeking: Female 18 - 29
Djibril
44 Bielefeld, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany
Seeking: Female

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