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Platinum Member
57
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Amherstburg, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 33 - 52
Attend religious services:
Daily
Professor Samy Please don’t communicate without
"We need to accept that there is no partner who would understand the whole of us, who will share all of our tastes in large and small areas. Ultimately, it is always a percentage of compatibility we will only ever achieve. I'm OK with being single in this phase of life, but open to partnership with the right.lady ."Serious,honest,and reliable
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28
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Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 21 - 23
Attend religious services:
Daily
Marriage only
Not big into this online stuff, but I didn't want to miss out on the right girl by not signing up. My names Arslan, I’m 28, 6’4”, born and raised in Toronto. Recently bought my own house outside the city alhamdulillah, so I’ve been quite occupied in running my home this past year. I work as a benefits officer for the federal government. I also operate a small charity for the homeless and newcomer refugees in the GTA. I’m a straightforward man. I’m conscious of Allah, I know what I want, and I don’t like wasting anyone’s time. I consider myself religious, I fulfill all my duties as a man, from 5x prayer to managing and providing for my family. I find femininity, emotional intelligence, kindness, deen, and sense of humour in a woman really attractive. I need a girl who can complement my masculinity, and prefers a man who is possessive and protective. Only message if you’re serious about marriage. Thank you
Simple Man
Platinum Member
Verified
37
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Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Seeking:
Female 18 - 40
Attend religious services:
Daily
VERY HONEST, KIND AND EASY GOING
Aslamoalicom Warahmatulahi Wabrakatu Nobody is perfect but I try my best to live by Quran and Sunah, I love listening islamic lectures and being in the masjid, I'm Funny Person as my friends and family says, I'm very easy going person, this life is temporary so live as strangers as our beloved Prophet Muhammad Salalahu alihi wasalaam said JazakaAllah khair for reading my profile
Mohamed
Standard Member
37
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Saint John's, Newfoundland & Labrador, Canada
Seeking:
Female 24 - 38
Attend religious services:
Daily
Im seeking a kind Muslims wife to extend my family
Im a Muslim man, I have a lovely family and looking to extend my family and have more kids inshaa Allah that worship Allah and bring more halal joy inshaa Allah in this life. I am looking for someone that want to be a Muslim wife (not secular), and understand the secular challenges we have nowadays in our society. we will have a separate house to build our family but we will inshaa Allah be a bigger family and everyone can be kind and respectful to the other.
Karim
Standard Member
40
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Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female
Attend religious services:
Daily
اللهم اكفني بحلالك عن حرامك، وأغنني بفضلك عمن سو
Algerian originally اَللّٰهُمَّ اِنِّيْ اُرِيْدُ اَنْ اَتَزَوَّجَ فَقَدِّرْ لِيْ مِنَ النِّسَآءِ اَعْفِهُنَّ فَرْجًا وَ احْفَظِهُنَّ لِيْ فِيْ نَفْسِهَا وَ اَوْسِعْهُنَّ لِيْ رِزْقًا وَاَعْظَمِهُنَّ لِيْ بَرَكَةً فِيْ نَفْسِهَا وَ مَا لِيْ فَقَدِّرْ لِيْ مِنْهَا وَلَدًا طَيِّبًا تَجْعَلُهٗ خَلَفًا صَالِحًا فِيْ حَيَاتِيْ وَ بَعْدَمَوْتِي
Daud
Standard Member
Verified
48
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Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 18 - 40
Attend religious services:
Daily
Salam Allaikum Beautiful
I have a youtube channel ``Wachest``
Bsher
Gold Member
40
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Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 27 - 36
Attend religious services:
Daily
There is no fear for them, nor do they grieve!
l love sports, travel, reading the Quran, and food :) I have a strong Islamic value and background I try to seek Allah in every aspect of my life; I’m a software engineer by profession with big passion for engineering as science, I like to be kind to people and am a solid defender of Palestine until it gets back to us 🇵🇸
Yaser
Standard Member
Verified
54
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Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
Seeking:
Female 25 - 50
Attend religious services:
Daily
Must Love Laughing at My Jokes Even the Bad ones!
I am a man who wears his heart on his sleeve, always honest, gentle, and kind. I find joy in smiling, in giving and receiving affection, and in sharing the warmth of true connection. Open and communicative, I am unafraid to be my authentic self with you. With a heart full of faith, I aspire to grow within my deen, embracing life's journey with optimism, passion, and a sense of fun. I love to laugh and make the most out of every moment. Those who know me say I bring a hopeful and passionate spirit to everything I do, always ready to sprinkle a little joy and adventure along the way.
Zee
Standard Member
40
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Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 24 - 43
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Daily
Millionare - Loving - Flexible - Empowering
I try to have Islam first in my life, I am ambitious and love to live a productive life focusing on tech, business, community and dawah projects. I also act as personal and executive development coach for a handful number. I look like someone
Ashik
Standard Member
Verified
33
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Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 18 - 31
Attend religious services:
Daily
u Must be fluent in english speaking!
Hey there! I'm a travel enthusiast always on the lookout for my next adventure. Whether it's exploring new cities, hiking through scenic trails, or diving into the ocean for a swim, I'm all about embracing life to the fullest. When I'm not on the go, you'll find me in the kitchen whipping up delicious meals or enjoying them just as much! Fitness is a big part of my life—I'm a regular at the gym, love playing badminton, and always up for a good drive around town. Currently, I'm pursuing a paramedic diploma in Toronto, and I also work as a real estate agent here. Looking for someone who shares my zest for life and enjoys good food, spontaneous trips, and staying active. If you think we might be a match, let's connect and see where our journey takes us!
محمد
Standard Member
35
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Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada
Seeking:
Female 21 - 40
Attend religious services:
Daily
محمد ولد باب
I know the people of prayer and purity and the affairs of Islam and I learn two days seeking knowledge in my path God protect you my brothers in Allah who loves Allah and his Messenger who fears Allah where he was and Allah is my Prophet. 14313889948+ May Allah reward you with good deeds, peace be upon you and the mercy of Allah and his blessings your brother Muhammad from Canada
Osman
Standard Member
35
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Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 21 - 35
Attend religious services:
Daily
Assalamualaikum.
I speak less. But I can speak a lot once In close to you. I appreciate every little things, even the wind. I believe I can win every obstacle when Allah is with me, and I will have a beautiful family inshallah where me and my wife will experience this life together. Life is beautiful, when Allah is in your support. I like nature, travelling, sea beach, cars, cooking. And I would love to have babies. My greatest satisfaction is to help others. So you do not need to feel any tention. Hahaha what about you?
Abd'Allah
Standard Member
43
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Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 38 - 44
Attend religious services:
Daily
Looking for a good pract hijabi Muslima to be mine
I, a 42-year-old Muslim man, am sharing my story with complete honesty and sincerity. I believe in following the teachings of the Quran and Sunnah and strive to live my life according to Islamic principles. My background comprises Jordanian heritage
Omar
Standard Member
41
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Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Seeking:
Female 30 - 38
Attend religious services:
Daily
On the journey towards being a better human.
Living in the lively city of Calgary, Canada, I am a confident and independent man who values hard work and responsibility. I seek a meaningful connection built on mutual love and sincerity. As a devoted father, my three sons are my greatest pride—ea
khan
Standard Member
43
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Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Seeking:
Female 34 - 43
Attend religious services:
Daily
looking some one special real face very welcome
that’s my real picture I’m expecting someone show me more interest I’m hard worker living in Canada. Someone who wanna marry me as a wife. my goal is going back to Saudi Arabia in Makah if someone interested then chat with me I’m not in rush, but I need someone pretty and good heart excited to marry someone like My Allah know if I am playing or serious someone willing to come Saudia
S
Standard Member
Verified
24
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Saint John's, Newfoundland & Labrador, Canada
Seeking:
Female 18 - 25
Attend religious services:
Daily
Looking to complete half my deen
Alhamdulillah I’ve been practicing since I was 12 and have been praying regularly 5 times a day since. Looking for someone with a similar level of dedication to the religion. I’m actively memorizing new ayahs of the Quran and practicing Qirat by f
Taimur
Standard Member
35
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Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 18 - 32
Attend religious services:
Daily
Taimur's Profile
I am currently living in Amman, Jordan . I come from a Pakistani family and was born and aised in Dubai. I moved to Canada in my teenage years. Personality-wise, I’d say that I can be a bit of a nerd, talkative, and quite social with those I open up to. My friends would describe me as intelligent and a good person to get advice from. I previously had my nikkah conducted but annulled. I am happy to discuss any relevant details.
IG Rimkartist
Standard Member
29
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Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Seeking:
Female 19 - 30
Attend religious services:
Daily
A découvrir
Always looking for personal development and growth in all spheres. \NI attach great importance to the journey to God and good behavior. Industriel designer and artist by trade. \NPassioned by art & sport
Qasim
Standard Member
39
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Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 22 - 37
Attend religious services:
Daily
A Muslim brother seeking a love one.
I have good sense of humor, love good food and like to travel exploring. I have a good stable job that I love. On my leisure period, I enjoy driving, watching series on Netflix, some shopping 😊, internet surfing, go to gym sometimes if not too busy due to work challenge and meditating at times. I Currently resides in Doha Qatar, working as a Project Control Manager.
Atlas
Standard Member
35
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Kitchener, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 30 - 55
Attend religious services:
Daily
Seeking a new life partner
I am here to meet some one for marriage. my actual age is 52 years now. i live in Canada... Well I tell you this.I am honest, romantic and hardworking. You may ask me anything, but of course I answer. And a good tip if you re interested in getting to know me . Bless you all SALAM
kas
Standard Member
44
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Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 24 - 39
Attend religious services:
Daily
Seeking for marriage only
Assalamo Alaikum , I would describe myself as someone who is honest,caring,intelligent,hardworking,and ambitious. I have a great sense of humour.Iam an easy going person & don’t get easily disturbed by down’s in my life.I also enjoy travelling,w
Mohamed
Standard Member
Verified
38
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London, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 21 - 37
Attend religious services:
Daily
Marriage Only
I'm kind, flexible, and most of all got a lot of sense of humor. Dheen is important to me. I'm a practicing Muslima trying every day to be a good Muslim. I'm not a man of culture and I adapt to anything as long as it's halal and acceptable. Not living with culture but accepting Islam. I'm very easygoing, have No anger, No Drama, and am Honest in communication, family is everything to me. I love cooking, I cook my food and many said it's delicious. As a hobby, I try all kinds of dishes. My dream is to open a restaurant one day, just to serve my food and make people happy. hh
PakistanCanada
Standard Member
37
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Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Seeking:
Female 27 - 37
Attend religious services:
Daily
Pakistan/Canada. No reply if you don't have pics.
I am hard of hearing (profound hearing loss). I am fitted with hearing aids and hearing some thing is not a problem but to comprehend that is a real issue. Umrah 5 times. Alhamdollilah. Hajj one day. InshAllah. What else can I say more?
waleed Ahid shanti
Standard Member
Verified
41
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Cranbrook, British Columbia, Canada
Seeking:
Female 24 - 39
Attend religious services:
Daily
only in Canada please my name is my :)
I like things to be the right way. I am always having dreams. I am working in Canada, BC, for the food and beverage industry. Alhamdullelah, I am supporting my mother in Jordan as her only son. But I still hope that some lady will accept me even tho
Omar
Standard Member
Verified
38
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Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 24 - 30
Attend religious services:
Daily
Niceness is a sign of power not weakness
Someone who knows what she wants. A person who is different. Someone who likes to laugh(off course i will have to make her laugh first, which is not a problem lol) Doesnt With a beautiful mind, someone who even at 50 still have the sparkle in her eyes as when we first met. Someone who i can talk to about everything, someone who i can treat as an equal to me. I had a hard life. My father died when i was 11, so i am a mommas boy. And that helps when you are looking for someone who wants to be treated right.
Belal
Standard Member
Verified
40
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Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 18 - 35
Attend religious services:
Daily
We'll just lie and say we met in Vegas!
**About Me:** I'm someone who finds joy in life's simple pleasures—whether it's exploring new hiking trails or cozying up with a good movie. I have a passion for forests, gemstones, nature, and I'm always open to trying new things. My friends describe me as a positive person who can solve any problem. **What I'm Looking For:** I'm seeking a genuine connection with someone who shares my values and zest for life. A sense of humor and an adventurous spirit are qualities I admire. Whether it's sharing quiet evenings or embarking on spontaneous adventures, I'm excited to meet someone who is ready for a meaningful relationship. **About You:** You're residing in Toronto, you’re someone who is generous, devoted to make her-man happy, and hardworking. You’re Muslim, and you're looking for a partner to build a future with. Let's connect and see where life takes us!
Mohammad
Standard Member
48
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Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 22 - 36
Attend religious services:
Daily
Good and understanding life partner
I am very caring, career oriented and broad minded. The person who always support me and our family, no feel hesited open minded, some time fun and not critisize our goal. May be religious but not foundamentalist. In term of religious I am not very religious but always keep in the way of allah. Someone who can make me laugh and fun and family oriented. Reverted muslims or just in muslims women don't fact but I always look her mind and heart. I always wellcom her
Tunisian
Standard Member
63
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Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 40 - 52
Attend religious services:
Daily
AnaBastannek
Un tunisien cherche une femme pour se marier, j'aime voyager, cuisiner, faire la fête avec des amis, ana globalia7, la visite, la musique, faire les sports, les plages, les arts, les musées, l'histoire, je préfère les femmes avec le signe zodique Poissons ou Gémeaux. Merci à tous.----------
Karem
Standard Member
61
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Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Seeking:
Female 29 - 42
Attend religious services:
Daily
Eagle
I'm simple, educated and professional person. Have a sense of humor. Generous and open minded. Responsible, serious, honest, self-confidence. Family oriented, ambition, like learning new things and curious. Positive attitude, optimistic, strong determination. Like travel, eat good food, movies, music, reading , writing, and sport. IS ENOUGH FOR NOW!!! I'LL TELL YOU MORE IF YOU ARE INTERESTED....... Thanks
samy
Standard Member
45
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Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
Seeking:
Female 18 - 30
Attend religious services:
Daily
Looking for marrage
I'm open-minded and understanding, as well as sincere, loving and caring man with strong family values.I like traveling, outdoor activities and all kinds of sport.I also enjoy the sea and nature in general,in addition,I always like to explore new adventures and learn something new.
Noureldin
Standard Member
Verified
38
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Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 18 - 35
Attend religious services:
Daily
Time to settle down.
I am a high-value man who is driven to always be the best version of myself. I am extremely motivated and constantly strive to get out of my comfort zone. I start every day at 5am with a workout to set the tone for a productive day ahead. After my workout, I go to work and then come back home to spend my evenings studying new skills to stay ahead in my field. I value discipline, hard work, consistency, and constant learning. I am always looking for new challenges to conquer and am not afraid to take risks to achieve my goals. In my free time, I enjoy travel and experience new cultures, and enjoy a good time with loved ones. I am looking for someone who shares these values and is also committed to self-improvement and would be excited to join me in pushing the boundaries of what is possible, both in our personal and professional lives.
T
Standard Member
58
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Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Seeking:
Female 45 - 59
Attend religious services:
Daily
Intelligent and motivated
I'm a person looking for a serious relationship with a very nice lady who's also romantic, intellectual who can listen. I am someone simple intelligent and very respectful. I'm looking for the same. I enjoy reading, sports, movies, Traveling ...
HeightenedSenses
Standard Member
Verified
47
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Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Seeking:
Female 36 - 42
Attend religious services:
Daily
Does Anybody Even Read Anymore!!
Important notes to begin with: It's really disheartening and gravely disappointing that nobody actually puts in the effort to even read the very first few lines. What's even more disheartening and disappointing...the fact that this is supposed to be a Muslim website...dedicated for Muslims...where you would expect a decent Muslim environment!! Please...At least Read the Notes Section Carefully before Initiating Any Contact...Thank you! **NOTE: I would like to thank all those who showed interest in my profile or sent private messages. However, I urge you to kindly wait until the profile is complete in its entirety before deciding to initiate any contact as it is still a work in progress.** **NOTE: Please understand that my search is limited only to within Canada. I cannot sponsor anyone from any other country. Thank You! Since I’m still receiving messages and interests from outside Canada, I would like to elaborate more on this point. Sponsoring someone from outside Canada is not as easy as hooking up online and deciding to get married. It’s a long and tedious process that can take years, depending on each individual case. Part of the sponsoring process is meeting certain requirements and conditions, with respect to the person who is the “sponsor”. Among those conditions, is meeting certain financial requirements. I’m a person of “modest means”. I may have enough to get by through life, but certainly not enough to meet the immigration department’s financial requirements to sponsor anyone. So, regardless of how special you are, or even If you have a genuine interest in my profile…I simply cannot afford it. I sincerely hope this point is clear to everyone. Thank you! ** **NOTE: Before messaging or clicking the heart button…Please be mindful of, and respect the age difference. If we’re at different stages of our lives, we will have different mindsets, different visions, different interests and definitely different energies. So, while it’s flattering to receive messages and likes from a 21 years old sister…Do you honestly believe that it can actually work?…that we can truly connect intellectually and emotionally in a healthy relationship?? The same, I believe, applies on the other extreme of the age range… (Kindly understand that I’m saying this with the utmost respect and with absolutely no intentions to offend anyone) ** **NOTE: I took it upon myself to verify my profile, so as to put your heart and mind at ease. This way, when you visit my profile, you can rest assured that you are visiting a real profile...not a fake one. In return, before contacting me, I would really appreciate if you can verify your profile as well. I've lost count of how many times I visit a profile with a profile photo...only to find the very same photo used in another profile of someone who lives in a completely different continent!! Not to mention: fake information, physical features that don't match the profile photos, or photos of popular celebrities? Seriously?? You couldn’t be any more obvious??! ** **NOTE: If I don’t respond to your message, please don’t take it personally. Please understand that I get a lot of messages in my inbox. I cannot possibly reply to all of them. Please also understand that I do have a life outside this website. Since, unfortunately, not all members respect my wishes, some of the messages are set to be automatically filtered out according to some criteria (Country of residence, age range, religious values…etc.). So, if I don’t respond to your message: - It was either filtered out because it doesn’t meet the criteria I’m looking for (especially if you live halfway across the planet) OR - You don’t have the “verified” badge on your profile OR - You don't give me any indication that you actually read my profile OR - I’m, unfortunately, busy with other matters in my life outside this website…like normal human beings, OR - My paid membership has expired OR - After visiting your profile and praying Istikharah, it didn’t feel like a good fit. In any case, I wish you all the best! On a related note, when you decide to text me, Please Don’t just send me the generic default messages suggested by the website. Messages that say: "Hi", "Hello", "Salut", or shorter form "Slt", "ca va" or shorter form "cv"...these are not really meaningful messages. Please try to put some effort into it and make it have a meaning. Please take the time to choose your words carefully. Words have power…Try to respect that power...Thank You! ** **NOTE: This is going to be a long reading exercise...A really long one (may take more than an hour to finish reading, depending on your reading speed). Almost all the sections of the profile are thoroughly filled out with information. So, Brace yourself! As for the respected members who complain about the length of the profile: If you are taking this matter seriously enough, wouldn't you want to know as much as possible about your potential partner?? Would you rather step into a hollow profile with little to no information? Are you shopping for a potential partner at the fast food lane?!! If you cannot afford to invest an hour to get to know a potential partner...One would have to wonder, how would you be willing to spend the rest of your living hours, days and years with that partner...or any partner for that matter. With all due respect, Nothing is forcing you to keep reading. You can simply click the "back" button and choose another profile, right? Thank you! ** **End of Notes Section** The actual profile begins here: Walking through this life (DONIA) with the eyes of the afterlife (ALAKHERA), I strive to achieve and maintain the perfect balance between my nature as a human being with earthly demands and needs, and my inner spiritual thirst to its Creator. Guided by the Holy Quran and blessed Sunnah to enlighten my way, my DONIA serves my AKHERA while not forgetting my share of permissible times of joy, pleasure and happiness. Throughout the years of my life, I have come to a better understanding of myself and my personality. I have come to realize that I’m an introvert. I might, in fact, say that I’m chronically introverted. If you’ve ever heard or read about the Myers-Briggs type indicator, I would fall under the INFP personality type. If you’ve also ever heard of Keirsey Temperament Sorter, I would fall under the “Healer” role variant. I will try to explain more in the "More about me" section, but the highly extroverted nature of today’s world doesn’t appeal to me. It doesn’t attract me. Dealing with people drains me emotionally and leaves me exhausted. Many a time, I have wondered how my life would have been like, had I been born at a different time. A time when the world was a bit quieter, before things got so amplified. We live in a time of constant distraction. A punishing drumbeat of constant, harsh and discordant input and stimuli, that seeps right into our souls. I have this dire Need to have some personal space for thinking, contemplation and reflection. I treasure those late hours of the night and early hours of the day. The late hours of the night are great times while the world is still sleeping and you are awake communicating with God. The early hours of the day are great times to communicate with nature. And as the world wakes up and the day starts, the joy diminishes and reality hits back and then you’re just a cog in the wheel of life. In this wheel ...as an introvert (esp. chronic cases of INFP), one of the many things that characterize you ...you are an observant. When you are an introvert observant, you tend to view the world around you through different eyes...the eyes of an outsider. Not only that, you also tend to view the world at a slower and encompassing pace. You view the world at a slower frame rate. And as much as you can see beauty...As much as your senses intoxicatedly sing and dance in joy and pleasure, from the beautiful tapestry of God’s exquisite and impeccable creation…the warmth from the sun rays that blankets your skin…the gentle and salty breeze of the ocean with the harmonious beats from the sound of the waves bumping into giant rocks by the shore…the smell of the grass, wet on its cheeks after a rainy day…the multitude of birds of different species singing in perfect harmony…Everything around us is in a divine symphony of perfection. And while your senses are still in this intoxicated and joyful state, you subconsciously stretch your imaginary hands and try and grab a piece of this beauty, or even merely touch it…only to be awaken by a slap on your face, called Reality…you look at your hands, only to find yourself holding the ashes of what used to be, the ashes of what could have been. Because, with all this beauty…on the other hand... adding humans into the picture…the things that you see and hear... the things that are revealed to you as an INFP...the ugliness committed with the human hands...how ugly and cruel humans treat each other nowadays…the degradation of everything that is of value...the degradation of everything that is moral and ethical...that hurts!! I remember a quote by the Russian Novelist Fyodor Dostoyevsky: “People speak sometimes about the "bestial" cruelty of man, but that is terribly unjust and offensive to beasts, no animal could ever be so cruel as a man, so artfully, so artistically cruel.” Allah says in the Quran: (Chapter 7, Verse 56) وَلَا تُفْسِدُوا فِي الْأَرْضِ بَعْدَ إِصْلَاحِهَا وَادْعُوهُ خَوْفًا وَطَمَعًا ۚ إِنَّ رَحْمَتَ اللَّهِ قَرِيبٌ مِنَ الْمُحْسِنِينَ Translation: (7:56) "And cause not corruption upon the earth after its reformation. And invoke Him in fear and aspiration. Indeed, the mercy of Allah is near to the doers of good." And yet, we seem to only be more insistent, determined and adamant on the corruption… in all its different forms!! I have been through different trials and tests. I would like to think they were meant for my own good. To help purify me, awaken me (sort of like Neo’s awakening in the movie" Matrix"); unchain me from all attachments to this short narrow-scoped life, show me what this life (DONIA) is really like. I would like to think of it as God’s messages making his presence known, guiding me to aim for and work harder towards the better, and more important afterlife (AKHERA). As God promised in the Quran at the beginning of Chapter 29, verses 2 and 3: أَحَسِبَ النَّاسُ أَن يُتْرَكُوا أَن يَقُولُوا آمَنَّا وَهُمْ لا يُفْتَنُونَ (2) وَلَقَدْ فَتَنَّا الَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِهِمْ فَلَيَعْلَمَنَّ اللَّهُ الَّذِينَ صَدَقُوا وَلَيَعْلَمَنَّ الْكَاذِبِينَ(3) Translation: Do the people think that they will be left to say, "We believe" and they will not be tried?(Verse 2) And We have certainly tried those before them, and Allah will surely make evident those who are truthful, and He will surely make evident the liars (Verse 3) I’ve been tried in my career. I’ve been tried in my previous marriages. I’ve been tried with my children. And I’ve been tried in my health. “It’s been a hard road...the road I’m travelling on” (Tracy Chapman "At this point in my life") On that road, I'm looking more for companionship rather than a typical marriage. But make no mistake, my pursuit of finding a companion is not one out of desperation. I’m equally happy and delighted in my solitude. I'm equally happy and delighted in my relationship with Allah (Alhamdolellah). In Allah, there is compensation for everything else...and in other than Allah, there is no compensation for His Almighty. في الله عوض عن كل شيء و ليس عن الله عوض في أي شيء But, having a companion by your side tends to make those hours in the wheel of life mentioned above less ugly, it makes them more tolerable. It’s a blessing to be awakened, but not to be awakened alone...in a world that’s drowning in a deep coma. Since early in my life I have been struggling with finding the right career path that fits me and fits my personality. As a kid at school, I was that cute, yet, odd little boy with eye glasses sitting at the back. The odd kid whom his being left-handed…added even more to his oddness among his peers. The odd kid whom, when called upon to answer a question, and despite knowing the right answer most of the time, would deliberately give the wrong answer…just to avoid being in the spotlight. That odd kid who puzzled most of his teachers…when class participation doesn’t match with his performance in tests, final exams and final grades. The kid that didn’t have too many friends at school but was lucky enough to have my older siblings attend the same school…working as a protective shield around me. As I grew up and it was time to go to college, I got stuck in the path to get an Engineering degree due to some family and cultural pressure (in addition to my fondness of Mathematics), only to realize it wasn’t really what makes me tick. Along that journey, I went through my first marriage which resulted in two beautiful children, But only to find out that I was just a step in someone else’s ladder. I was only a tool for her (my first ex-wife) to get to Canada and have Canadian children. I once read that “Being strong doesn’t always mean standing your ground and fighting your battles…Sometimes, just summoning the courage to walk away with your head held high and your pride intact…is the greatest show of strength”… ...and that’s what I did. I didn’t fight any battles. I didn’t stand in any courts. I didn’t fight for custody or even visitation hours…I just let her go. Few grieving years later, I met a wonderful single mother whom, by the grace and the will of Allah, was bestowed the greatest gift of reverting to Islam. Being from two different backgrounds, we had a great and exciting life together and I thought I couldn’t be happier. Yet again, that didn’t come without a thorn in the flesh. Despite how great she was, she had this weakness towards her children. I was always viewed as the bad guy, while I only had the purest intentions towards them. I treated them like my own and tried to find in them my long-lost love to my own children, who were taken away from me. And even though her studies in Psychology (she was a trained Psychologist in her home country, Brazil) helped her a lot in understanding, analyzing and absorbing the depths of my personality, they seemed to fall short in fixing her own weakness in front of her children. Though unwilling to believe in the obvious, It was clear to both of us that, unfortunately, we have reached a dead end. Along with that, hardly having a chance to catch a breath...came another trial, another test, only this time it was in my health. I had a thyroid problem that was easily treatable but during the onset of the problem I started losing some hair and it started thinning. Raising those concerns to a dermatologist, he prescribed a medication that had some nasty side effects (you can search “Propecia side effects” on Google). Those side effects came into the most delicate of all matters in a married man’s life but, thankfully Alhamdolellah, with proper medication, I was, and still, capable of leading a normal life. This may only be a glimpse of my life, but it’s hard to write down everything in the limited space offered by the website. That, I believe, would need a big thick book with multiple chapters. As a matter of fact, I can’t tell you how many times I have been encouraged by the few friends I have in my circle of trust and who have been a part of different events in my life, to actually sit down and take up that project seriously…to actually write a book! Or at least carry a notebook and note down the countless incidents and events as they unfold! They seem to believe that writing, somehow, comes easy to me… and that I may have an interesting story to tell. At the time…the way they say it…it sounds tempting…but I know myself…it just wouldn’t work for me. In this glimpse of my life I shared above, I tried to be honest and truthful as much as I could. I believe in honesty being the best policy. I believe in honesty being an obligation because on the day of judgement when I stand before Allah, when I am held accountable to all what I have done during my time in this life, when the Almighty questions me…I pray I have all the right answers. To be Continued... **UPDATE (): Due to the ever-changing economy, I will be going back to school. That's why I changed my employment status to "Student". I find it an obligation to put accurate information as much as possible so as to save you the pain of making decisions based on false information. To elaborate more on this point: I'm currently not in a position to take any serious steps. This will have to wait until, en shaa Allah, I finish studying and, by the will of Allah, secure a decent job. If you are in a rush to take serious steps right away, I am afraid I may not be a suitable candidate for you. Thank you for understanding. ** **UPDATE (): Clarification regarding the answer to the “Want more children?” question: Having a child, is undeniably a great gift and bounty from Allah. You see every day people going to great lengths to achieve such a dream and be granted such a gift. But for those who have never been through the experience… Having a child is a very demanding and taxing and seemingly permanent, 24/7/365 full-time job… A job without a retirement plan in sight. The demanding and taxing part is at all levels (emotionally, physically and, of course, financially). I strongly believe that the financial part shouldn’t be a concern, as Allah is the ultimate and only Provider. Every single soul brought to this world…they come with their provision package from Allah. Allah says in the Quran: (Chapter 11, Verse 6) وَمَا مِن دَابَّةٍ فِي الْأَرْضِ إِلَّا عَلَى اللَّهِ رِزْقُهَا وَيَعْلَمُ مُسْتَقَرَّهَا وَمُسْتَوْدَعَهَا ۚ كُلٌّ فِي كِتَابٍ مُّبِينٍ Translation: And there is no creature on earth but that upon Allah is its provision, and He knows its place of dwelling and place of storage. All is in a clear register. And in (Chapter 20, Verse 132): وَأْمُرْ أَهْلَكَ بِالصَّلَاةِ وَاصْطَبِرْ عَلَيْهَا ۖ لَا نَسْأَلُكَ رِزْقًا ۖ نَّحْنُ نَرْزُقُكَ ۗ وَالْعَاقِبَةُ لِلتَّقْوَىٰ (132 Translation (132) And enjoin prayer upon your family [and people] and be steadfast therein. We ask you not for provision; We provide for you, and the [best] outcome is for [those of] righteousness. And in (Chapter 51, Verse 58): إِنَّ اللَّهَ هُوَ الرَّزَّاقُ ذُو الْقُوَّةِ الْمَتِينُ (58 Translation: (58) Indeed, it is Allah who is the [continual] Provider, the firm possessor of strength. The parents are just the tools that Allah uses to deliver such provisions. Same like my parents did to me and your parents did to you. However, and while it’s instinctive to crave and desire having a child, not everyone is equipped or ready to be a parent at all times or at the different stages of their lives. Having a child…it changes the whole layout of your life. You willingly, happily and selflessly put your life on hold, indefinitely, on an abandoned shelf somewhere… somewhere that you may even forget. And while having a child can bring you joy and happiness, despite all the sacrifices and the selfless role you play…As much joy it can bring...As much as they can melt your heart … as much as it can totally rip the very same heart apart when, God Forbid, things don’t go well and they’re taken away from you. As I mentioned before I, unfortunately, have been through this before in my first marriage and my children were taken away from me. The scars in my heart are still there...they haven't healed yet! At this stage of my life, as I mentioned before, I'm looking more for companionship rather than a typical marriage. I would like to invest the time and the energy, spared by not having a child, to build and establish a greater, stronger and deeper bond with my companion. Have the opportunity and the time and the energy to explore each other…our personalities…what makes us who we are. I would also like us to be able to: In terms of Faith and Belief and Emaan and our efforts towards Akhera: - Increase our knowledge about this beautiful religion together. - attend lectures at the mosque or even online together. - Study together and delve deeper into Quran and Sunnah of the Prophet (peace be upon him). - Try our best to live according to what we learn from the Quran and Sunnah and put into practice. In terms of Donia: (If we can afford it) - Be able to save some money to travel somewhere new together. - Take a course where we can find a mutual interest, or even a whole diploma together. - Learn a new language together. - Take up martial arts classes together. - And more… (but hopefully you get the idea) However, even with all our best laid-out plans…Allah is the best Planner…and only his will on earth shall prevail. If it’s meant to happen, to have a child (despite any other plans in mind) …Well, who are we to refuse Allah’s gift to us?? And who knows? That child might be the real factor that actually builds and strengthens that bond between us. That child, he or she, can grow up and be destined to be a great addition to the society and the world. So, that’s why my answer to the “want more children?” is “Not Sure”. It’s not a definite “Yes” or a definite “No”. I really hope this point is clear for everyone. Thank you! ** **UPDATE (): I have been asked by some members to describe what Islam means to me? While I’m by no means an angel walking this earth, I would still like to think that Islam is what shapes who I am. This greatest gift and bounty from Allah the Almighty that he generously bestowed upon us. Islam is in the air I breathe...in the water I drink...in the food I eat. It runs in my blood. Allah…the afterlife...the first thought in my mind when I wake up and the last thought before going to bed. It’s also the thought I have in the middle of the night when I am tossing and turning and cannot sleep. Islam to me is beyond the five pillars (Shahadah, Praying, fasting Ramadan, giving Zakat, or performing Hajj (if possible)). Islam is what shapes my moral and ethical compass. Islam is having a live conscience and a live filter to every single action (Will doing this be pleasing to Allah or not?). Islam is what shaped my profile the way it is...being honest, upfront and straightforward. Islam is seeking knowledge about what is halal and what is haram. Islam is about knowing why Allah created us, what awaits us after this life, in the grave and on the day of judgement. Islam is in every transaction of the day, be it big or small. Islam is in how I treat my neighbors. Islam is when I go shopping, when I smile at people, when I hold the door for somebody. Islam is in how I drive my car, letting you pass me first, giving up my parking spot for the elderly or a mother with her children or a pregnant woman... choosing to park further away and walk. Islam is when I remove harm out of people’s way. Islam is in my conversation when I talk to people. Islam is while humbly cruising through this DONIA, constantly reminding myself to look at the less fortunate...that despite my struggles and trials, there's always someone else who have it worse...that for any given day, as long as I'm in good health, have a safe shelter, have enough food and enough means to support myself and whoever in my care...then I'm among the richest of the rich for that day...the rest is just glitter and tinsel...the rest is just confetti...and Allah, who provided me for that day, is capable to provide for me tomorrow. Islam is also in considering every morning I wake up, still breathing and am capable of getting out of bed, to be another gift from Allah...another chance for a new beginning with Allah. Islam, therefore, is also in constantly reminding myself to practice gratitude and be among the few whom Allah mentioned in Chapter 34, verse 13: وَقَلِيلٌ مِّنْ عِبَادِيَ الشَّكُورُ (Translation: And few among my servants are grateful). Islam is in my reflections and contemplation of the conscious world around me. Islam is living this life, knowing with absolute certainty, that there will come a day when the inevitable visits to finally release my soul and take it on its ethereal and final journey...knowing that at that final moment...all this life since my birth, through all the stages, the successes and failures, the ups and downs, the accomplishments and disappointments, the struggles and trials...even the good times and heartaches...all this will be just like looking back from a window, at an infinitesimal grain of sand on a sandy beach, while seated in an airplane taking off and leaving the ground...All what remains is the luggage I took with me ... the luggage that only contains my good deeds during that infinitesimal lifetime I had on this earth. But, I’m still a human being…I have my shortcomings…I have my demons. With the help of Allah, I try as hard as I can to work on those shortcomings…With the help of Allah, I keep those demons at bay on a leash. ** **UPDATE (): There’s been quite a number of curious messages asking where I’m originally from. I promise you, I come from planet Earth…I’m not an alien!! I’m not sure why that would be a concern. If you are worried that there maybe some inherited misconceptions regarding marriage or treating women or any other, unfortunately, negative stereotypes attached to certain cultures or backgrounds…I assure you that’s not the case. As I mentioned in my answer to other curious messages regarding what Islam means to me…My only reference is: Quran and Sunnah. The place where I was born…is just that…a place where Allah destined, I would be born. This information I will share with whom Allah decides that we have a serious conversation. What I can share is that: I was blessed to be born in a Muslim country to Muslim parents and grew up in a Muslim environment. The notion of Ethnicity, Nationalism, pride of belonging to certain country or culture…don’t mean much to me. The years I lived where, what you call, I am “originally from” and before moving to Canada…I never felt like I belonged. I always felt like I’m a guest or a tourist who, sooner or later, will have to leave. Allah says in the Quran: (Chapter 55, Verse 10) وَٱلْأَرْضَ وَضَعَهَا لِلْأَنَامِ Translation: He laid out the earth for all beings. It’s humans that came up with these concepts of countries and nations, while It’s The whole earth for all beings. Hence, I come from planet Earth! ** ** UPDATE (): It doesn’t give me any pleasure to have to write any of this, but after some unpleasant experience, I find it necessary: While I sincerely appreciate that you might be interested in my profile, please understand that it doesn’t necessarily mean that, in return, I have an obligation to reciprocate. Even if you think that your profile fits the listed preliminary criteria I’m looking for (Country of residence, age range…etc.) …there are many other factors to consider. There’s no need to be rude about it…There’s no need for patronizing or condescending behavior or projecting your insecurities on me…especially when I reply back and, politely and respectfully, apologize for not reciprocating the interest…even when I think I don’t have the obligation to do so. You know…I can be rude too…I can be acerbic...but Allah says in the Quran (Chapter 25, verse 63): وَعِبَادُ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الَّذِينَ يَمْشُونَ عَلَى الْأَرْضِ هَوْنًا وَإِذَا خَاطَبَهُمُ الْجَاهِلُونَ قَالُوا سَلَامًا Translation: “And the servants of the Most Gracious are those who walk upon the earth in humility, and when the ignorant address them [harshly], they say [words of] peace” Also, in Chapter 28, verse 55: وَإِذَا سَمِعُوا اللَّغْوَ أَعْرَضُوا عَنْهُ وَقَالُوا لَنَا أَعْمَالُنَا وَلَكُمْ أَعْمَالُكُمْ سَلَامٌ عَلَيْكُمْ لَا نَبْتَغِي الْجَاهِلِينَ Translaton: And when they hear ill speech, they turn away from it and say, "For us are our deeds, and for you are your deeds. Peace will be upon you; we seek not the ignorant." So, Kindly spare me your preaching about proper manners…I think my manners are fine…they’re just different than yours. Also, you don't need to tell me how we could have been meant to be together or how, according to your judgement, I’m limiting my chances and you are considered a missed opportunity! There are no missed opportunities… Like the great companion Omar Ibn AL Khattab said: “we run away from the fate of Allah…to the fate of Allah”. If I were to tell the stories of my previous marriages, you’d be surprised how we ended up being together…you’d be even more surprised how both marriages ended up in a divorce. If it’s really meant and predestined to happen…it will happen. And Please… Spare me the need to explain or justify why I may not be interested in your profile. With all due respect, I don’t think you feel obligated to respond to every interest or every message you receive or feel obligated to justify yourself why you are not interested…Or Do You??!** ******************************************************************************
✈️Ahmed✈️
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أعوذ بالله من الشيطان الرجيم لَا يُكَلِّفُ اللَّهُ نَفْسًا إِلَّا وُسْعَهَا ۚ لَهَا مَا كَسَبَتْ وَعَلَيْهَا مَا اكْتَسَبَتْ ۗ رَبَّنَا لَا تُؤَاخِذْنَا إِن نَّسِينَا أَوْ أَخْطَأْنَا ۚ رَبَّنَا وَلَا تَحْمِلْ عَلَيْنَا إِصْرًا كَمَا حَمَلْتَهُ عَلَ
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Don’t bound love into limitation, let it free.
We will talk later ........! First of all, I ask Allah, Lord of the Mighty Throne, to guide us to what He loves and is pleased with. He is the Guardian and capable of so. My greetings to you and all your family, Eid Mubarak to you. May Allah bring us blessings and goodness. May Allah accept your fasting and standing at night in prayer at the end of this virtuous month of Ramadan with good acceptance.......🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
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