Aging Muslim Canadian Men For Marriage at Muslima.com

Amr

45 • Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 18 - 35

I'm a business professional living in Toronto, Canada. I'm looking for a beautiful marriage partner. I am a tall attractive man from a good Egyptian family, and 43rd generation direct descendant of the Prophet Muhammad. Chemistry is very important to me as well as personality and intelligence. Amr

Rédwan

48 • Montreal, Quebec, Canada

Seeking: Female 32 - 45

Relation sérieuse pour mariage !

48-year-old French man of Moroccan origin. Divorced I have three children, whom I love and who live with me. If you don't accept my children, go your way! I accept a woman with children. I want to build my new life with a sincere, open-minded, cultured and optimistic person. I do not like selfish, extremists, intolerant, greedy and other perverts…! I love culture, travel, history, sport, science… At my age, I want to live in peace with someone who prefers laughter rather than stress! Living well is living happy! I know it's sometimes embarrassing to put his picture but I did, so I expect the same effort from my correspondents, and that's why I don't answer profiles without pictures... Thank you for your understanding!

Salam!

48 • Montreal, Quebec, Canada

Seeking: Female 28 - 45

Looking for someone special..!

I’ve been married to a wonderful woman for over 24 years now, had beautiful children and of course ups and downs like everyone else. No one is perfect. It’s been rough the past few years and now we’re unfortunately divorced. With all honesty, I’m here on this site to see if I’ll be able to once again have that feeling for someone special. Anyone real on this site..!!???

Ryan

41 • Channel-Port aux Basques, Newfoundland & Labrador, Canada

Seeking: Female 38 - 80

My nationality is British, but my father is Kuwaiti and my mother is British. If you are not looking for a serious long-term relationship, please don't reply to me. I work in Los Angeles and graduated from the University of Southern California, but I have no plans in the short term

Prince

49 • Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 23 - 50

Searching for my Soul Mate

I'm a hard-working professional who cares deeply about my career. I'm looking for someone who's career driven and that I can start a lasting friendship with and could blossom into something more. I love movies, music, dinning out, dancing, traveling, surfing the net, politics. I enjoy smart conversations that are full of interesting topics and laughter. What I look for in someone is a sense of humor and confidence. NOTE: Please do not contact me if you're from "Ghana" Anyone who ask me for money will be blocked. Thanks.

Aadil

44 • Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 18 - 45

Let's explore Islam and the world together

Assalamu Alaikum! Passionate and full of life, I’m a devout Muslim man on a journey to make the most out of life, all while helping others find their path. My days are filled with mentorship for youth and young men, where I find profound joy and purpose in guiding them to be their best selves, strengthening both their character and faith. A question I often get is about my ethnicity, and it’s something I hold close to my heart. I am proud to come from a rich tapestry of mixed ethnicities, embracing roots from the Caribbean and Latin America. My heritage is a vibrant blend of African, Indian, Amerindian (the indigenous peoples of the Caribbean), and Latino cultures, making for a unique story I am always excited to share. My friends describe me as the heartbeat of any gathering, bringing passion, energy, and a good dose of humour wherever I go. A fervent practitioner of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, I thrive on challenge and discipline, and I’m just as committed to leading a fit and healthy life. I have a deep interest in understanding the diverse ways we connect and relate to the world, often diving into the realm of personality tests to quench my curiosity. Seeking a partner who values health and fitness, enjoys meaningful conversations, long drives, and has a love for travel. A woman who is empathetic, caring, and sees the beauty in the highs and lows of life, always looking for the silver lining and believing in the goodness of people. If you’re someone who appreciates a drama-free life, cherishes meaningful connections, and is ready for laughter and thoughtful discussions, I would be delighted to get to know you. Together, let's uphold our values, navigate the journey of life, and create a joyful and fulfilling chapter rooted in faith, respect, and our rich cultural heritage.

Addi

44 • Amherstburg, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 23 - 38

Azul igaddioussially

Lover of knowledge, Honest, kind and appreciate integrity. Family oriented (as we goddamn and should everyone be ... aaaaah ^^j) Be selfish when alone building one´s self, then share it with the one you care for. Respect and fun and even manipulation as fun, all inside the integrity frame, not the other way around.

Daud

48 • Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 18 - 40

Salam Allaikum Beautiful

I have a youtube channel ``Wachest``

PAULO

46 • Hamilton, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 26 - 45

Um homem humilde trabalhador, Humilde; Pé no Chão; Disciplinado; Obrigando; generoso; assertivo; comunicativo; leal; tolerant; organizado; Responsável; confiável; compassivo. Sempre buscando evolução espiritual com a leitura do alcorão e sunna do profeta Muhammad que a paz e a Misericórdia esteja com ele.

Aaron

49 • Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 25 - 39

Seeking that special someone who has what it takes

Looking to meet my soul mate. Looking for someone that wants to share has the same interests that I do. I am into fitness, I love music, a good movie, dancing, good food and want to travel the world. I also enjoy walks in the park or just an evening out for a coffee at a local cafe( after Covid of course)or find the next Netflix and just Chill. I am very easy going and fun to be with and can make you laugh 😃 I am very ambitious, always looking to better myself. I am also very perceptive and a good listener. I am from Canada I want to see the world, visit new places, meet people, learn about different cultures and learn new languages.

Abd'Allah

43 • Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 38 - 44

Looking for a good pract hijabi Muslima to be mine

I, a 42-year-old Muslim man, am sharing my story with complete honesty and sincerity. I believe in following the teachings of the Quran and Sunnah and strive to live my life according to Islamic principles. My background comprises Jordanian heritage

Omar

41 • Calgary, Alberta, Canada

Seeking: Female 30 - 38

On the journey towards being a better human.

Living in the lively city of Calgary, Canada, I am a confident and independent man who values hard work and responsibility. I seek a meaningful connection built on mutual love and sincerity. As a devoted father, my three sons are my greatest pride—ea

Adeel

46 • Montreal, Quebec, Canada

Seeking: Female 23 - 49

Looking for a wife.

I am from Islamabad, currently living in Canada. I am in here since the year 2000. . I am an easy going person love to travel, cook, camping etc. I believe in respecting and supporting my partner. I am a religious person, do my wajibaat and expect same from my other Half.

khan

43 • Calgary, Alberta, Canada

Seeking: Female 34 - 43

looking some one special real face very welcome

that’s my real picture I’m expecting someone show me more interest I’m hard worker living in Canada. Someone who wanna marry me as a wife. my goal is going back to Saudi Arabia in Makah if someone interested then chat with me I’m not in rush, but I need someone pretty and good heart excited to marry someone like My Allah know if I am playing or serious someone willing to come Saudia

GB

48 • Ottawa, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 32 - 49

Looking for my forever partner

Honest, caring, funny, Chivalrous... Enjoy long walks, sitting by the fire, love to cook, traveling the world, going on road trips and listening to music & podcasts. Love the outdoors, hiking, walking, comedy shows, movies, trying new restaurants

Ibrahim

50 • Chilliwack, British Columbia, Canada

Seeking: Female 25 - 44

I am easier to start up a conversation than writin

I seek Muslim lady as companion and soulmate , Someone Matured and independent, someone passionate and hopelessly romantic, A woman who is family oriented and easygoing, Someone willingly ready to build a long term relationship with a selfless hopele

kas

44 • Ottawa, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 24 - 39

Seeking for marriage only

Assalamo Alaikum , I would describe myself as someone who is honest,caring,intelligent,hardworking,and ambitious. I have a great sense of humour.Iam an easy going person & don’t get easily disturbed by down’s in my life.I also enjoy travelling,w

AzizNasriddinov

46 • Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

Seeking: Female 27 - 37

Please read my profile

If you speak English we can start chatting. I don't speak Arabic. You must know if you are ok to settle a family with someone from different culture , with someone who doesn't speak your language. I work in healthcare in Canada. I am studying my

MarocBladi

44 • Montreal, Quebec, Canada

Seeking: Female 18 - 46

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sam

43 • Montreal, Quebec, Canada

Seeking: Female 22 - 40

u can write to me at: Glaceroyale liamg moc Bonjour everybody Gentil sir, humble, effoui, simple, intello, down to earth, epicurean, very virile, gallant, looking for a beautiful serious relationship. je suis spisrite ma partner must love, adore satisfying his own needs as well as the needs of his man in intimity, i am a dominant man in intimity and i want a submissive in intimity but in everyday life she will be my equal. my partner. je am against polygamy. I'm for polyamour. check on google. ma demarche est serieuse glaceroyale chez jmail (write me down, guess) femmes materialistes, please avoid me:) Pas de one night please. Thank you. Partner of sought-after travel! where there is love, there is compassion with which intelligence goes hand in hand. Jiddu Krishnamurti; the nature of thought glaceroyale to jmail (guess) Hello everyone\Ni'm a nice guy, humble, fulfilled, simple, intelligent, down to earth, epicurean, virile, gallant, looking for a nice serious relationship.\Ni am a spiritual person, I read all spiritual books. no skinny or fat. just proportional, athletic or plump, chubby. my partner must love, love to satisfy her own needs as well as the needs of her man in intimacy, I am a dominant man in intimacy and I want a real submissive woman in intimacy but in everyday life she will be my equal. my partner. \Ni am against polygamy. I am for polyamory. check it out on google. materialistic women, please avoid me:)\NNO one night stand please. Thanks. Travel partner wanted! “the ability to observe without evaluating is the highest form of intelligence.” Jiddu Krishnamurti .

Aamir

42 • Ottawa, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 18 - 37

Looking for Marraige

35 years old male living in Canada for the past 12 years. Graduated with a bachelors degree in Computer Engineering from McGill University and working as a software tester for a reputable telecommunication company. Please get in touch if you want to know more.

Hossam

43 • Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 30 - 37

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OH YES!! I am all the good stuff you ever wish in one guy... I am a super hero too.. LOLL sorry I like jokes. Let me get straight forward about this. the testimony about the oneself is not the absolute truth. The truth is how we perceive the traits of one another. Here I'd like to say that I want to be the person you can trust in, feel safe with, share and live your best moments with.

waleed Ahid shanti

41 • Cranbrook, British Columbia, Canada

Seeking: Female 24 - 39

only in Canada please my name is my :)

I like things to be the right way. I am always having dreams. I am working in Canada, BC, for the food and beverage industry. Alhamdullelah, I am supporting my mother in Jordan as her only son. But I still hope that some lady will accept me even tho

Mohammad

48 • Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 22 - 36

Good and understanding life partner

I am very caring, career oriented and broad minded. The person who always support me and our family, no feel hesited open minded, some time fun and not critisize our goal. May be religious but not foundamentalist. In term of religious I am not very religious but always keep in the way of allah. Someone who can make me laugh and fun and family oriented. Reverted muslims or just in muslims women don't fact but I always look her mind and heart. I always wellcom her

Irfan

48 • Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 23 - 45

Looking for true long life Love Partner.

Salam to all, I am polite, kind gentleman very friendly but sometime shy. Love to laugh, and laugh others always. Life is too short so enjoy fun and good time. I am educated professional independent. Love good dressing, Travelling, long drive and movies.Do not like conflict. Will tell you more about me later, when we talk.Salam.

samy

45 • Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

Seeking: Female 18 - 30

Looking for marrage

I'm open-minded and understanding, as well as sincere, loving and caring man with strong family values.I like traveling, outdoor activities and all kinds of sport.I also enjoy the sea and nature in general,in addition,I always like to explore new adventures and learn something new.

HeightenedSenses

47 • Ottawa, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 36 - 42

Does Anybody Even Read Anymore!!

Important notes to begin with: It's really disheartening and gravely disappointing that nobody actually puts in the effort to even read the very first few lines. What's even more disheartening and disappointing...the fact that this is supposed to be a Muslim website...dedicated for Muslims...where you would expect a decent Muslim environment!! Please...At least Read the Notes Section Carefully before Initiating Any Contact...Thank you! **NOTE: I would like to thank all those who showed interest in my profile or sent private messages. However, I urge you to kindly wait until the profile is complete in its entirety before deciding to initiate any contact as it is still a work in progress.** **NOTE: Please understand that my search is limited only to within Canada. I cannot sponsor anyone from any other country. Thank You! Since I’m still receiving messages and interests from outside Canada, I would like to elaborate more on this point. Sponsoring someone from outside Canada is not as easy as hooking up online and deciding to get married. It’s a long and tedious process that can take years, depending on each individual case. Part of the sponsoring process is meeting certain requirements and conditions, with respect to the person who is the “sponsor”. Among those conditions, is meeting certain financial requirements. I’m a person of “modest means”. I may have enough to get by through life, but certainly not enough to meet the immigration department’s financial requirements to sponsor anyone. So, regardless of how special you are, or even If you have a genuine interest in my profile…I simply cannot afford it. I sincerely hope this point is clear to everyone. Thank you! ** **NOTE: Before messaging or clicking the heart button…Please be mindful of, and respect the age difference. If we’re at different stages of our lives, we will have different mindsets, different visions, different interests and definitely different energies. So, while it’s flattering to receive messages and likes from a 21 years old sister…Do you honestly believe that it can actually work?…that we can truly connect intellectually and emotionally in a healthy relationship?? The same, I believe, applies on the other extreme of the age range… (Kindly understand that I’m saying this with the utmost respect and with absolutely no intentions to offend anyone) ** **NOTE: I took it upon myself to verify my profile, so as to put your heart and mind at ease. This way, when you visit my profile, you can rest assured that you are visiting a real profile...not a fake one. In return, before contacting me, I would really appreciate if you can verify your profile as well. I've lost count of how many times I visit a profile with a profile photo...only to find the very same photo used in another profile of someone who lives in a completely different continent!! Not to mention: fake information, physical features that don't match the profile photos, or photos of popular celebrities? Seriously?? You couldn’t be any more obvious??! ** **NOTE: If I don’t respond to your message, please don’t take it personally. Please understand that I get a lot of messages in my inbox. I cannot possibly reply to all of them. Please also understand that I do have a life outside this website. Since, unfortunately, not all members respect my wishes, some of the messages are set to be automatically filtered out according to some criteria (Country of residence, age range, religious values…etc.). So, if I don’t respond to your message: - It was either filtered out because it doesn’t meet the criteria I’m looking for (especially if you live halfway across the planet) OR - You don’t have the “verified” badge on your profile OR - You don't give me any indication that you actually read my profile OR - I’m, unfortunately, busy with other matters in my life outside this website…like normal human beings, OR - My paid membership has expired OR - After visiting your profile and praying Istikharah, it didn’t feel like a good fit. In any case, I wish you all the best! On a related note, when you decide to text me, Please Don’t just send me the generic default messages suggested by the website. Messages that say: "Hi", "Hello", "Salut", or shorter form "Slt", "ca va" or shorter form "cv"...these are not really meaningful messages. Please try to put some effort into it and make it have a meaning. Please take the time to choose your words carefully. Words have power…Try to respect that power...Thank You! ** **NOTE: This is going to be a long reading exercise...A really long one (may take more than an hour to finish reading, depending on your reading speed). Almost all the sections of the profile are thoroughly filled out with information. So, Brace yourself! As for the respected members who complain about the length of the profile: If you are taking this matter seriously enough, wouldn't you want to know as much as possible about your potential partner?? Would you rather step into a hollow profile with little to no information? Are you shopping for a potential partner at the fast food lane?!! If you cannot afford to invest an hour to get to know a potential partner...One would have to wonder, how would you be willing to spend the rest of your living hours, days and years with that partner...or any partner for that matter. With all due respect, Nothing is forcing you to keep reading. You can simply click the "back" button and choose another profile, right? Thank you! ** **End of Notes Section** The actual profile begins here: Walking through this life (DONIA) with the eyes of the afterlife (ALAKHERA), I strive to achieve and maintain the perfect balance between my nature as a human being with earthly demands and needs, and my inner spiritual thirst to its Creator. Guided by the Holy Quran and blessed Sunnah to enlighten my way, my DONIA serves my AKHERA while not forgetting my share of permissible times of joy, pleasure and happiness. Throughout the years of my life, I have come to a better understanding of myself and my personality. I have come to realize that I’m an introvert. I might, in fact, say that I’m chronically introverted. If you’ve ever heard or read about the Myers-Briggs type indicator, I would fall under the INFP personality type. If you’ve also ever heard of Keirsey Temperament Sorter, I would fall under the “Healer” role variant. I will try to explain more in the "More about me" section, but the highly extroverted nature of today’s world doesn’t appeal to me. It doesn’t attract me. Dealing with people drains me emotionally and leaves me exhausted. Many a time, I have wondered how my life would have been like, had I been born at a different time. A time when the world was a bit quieter, before things got so amplified. We live in a time of constant distraction. A punishing drumbeat of constant, harsh and discordant input and stimuli, that seeps right into our souls. I have this dire Need to have some personal space for thinking, contemplation and reflection. I treasure those late hours of the night and early hours of the day. The late hours of the night are great times while the world is still sleeping and you are awake communicating with God. The early hours of the day are great times to communicate with nature. And as the world wakes up and the day starts, the joy diminishes and reality hits back and then you’re just a cog in the wheel of life. In this wheel ...as an introvert (esp. chronic cases of INFP), one of the many things that characterize you ...you are an observant. When you are an introvert observant, you tend to view the world around you through different eyes...the eyes of an outsider. Not only that, you also tend to view the world at a slower and encompassing pace. You view the world at a slower frame rate. And as much as you can see beauty...As much as your senses intoxicatedly sing and dance in joy and pleasure, from the beautiful tapestry of God’s exquisite and impeccable creation…the warmth from the sun rays that blankets your skin…the gentle and salty breeze of the ocean with the harmonious beats from the sound of the waves bumping into giant rocks by the shore…the smell of the grass, wet on its cheeks after a rainy day…the multitude of birds of different species singing in perfect harmony…Everything around us is in a divine symphony of perfection. And while your senses are still in this intoxicated and joyful state, you subconsciously stretch your imaginary hands and try and grab a piece of this beauty, or even merely touch it…only to be awaken by a slap on your face, called Reality…you look at your hands, only to find yourself holding the ashes of what used to be, the ashes of what could have been. Because, with all this beauty…on the other hand... adding humans into the picture…the things that you see and hear... the things that are revealed to you as an INFP...the ugliness committed with the human hands...how ugly and cruel humans treat each other nowadays…the degradation of everything that is of value...the degradation of everything that is moral and ethical...that hurts!! I remember a quote by the Russian Novelist Fyodor Dostoyevsky: “People speak sometimes about the "bestial" cruelty of man, but that is terribly unjust and offensive to beasts, no animal could ever be so cruel as a man, so artfully, so artistically cruel.” Allah says in the Quran: (Chapter 7, Verse 56) وَلَا تُفْسِدُوا فِي الْأَرْضِ بَعْدَ إِصْلَاحِهَا وَادْعُوهُ خَوْفًا وَطَمَعًا ۚ إِنَّ رَحْمَتَ اللَّهِ قَرِيبٌ مِنَ الْمُحْسِنِينَ Translation: (7:56) "And cause not corruption upon the earth after its reformation. And invoke Him in fear and aspiration. Indeed, the mercy of Allah is near to the doers of good." And yet, we seem to only be more insistent, determined and adamant on the corruption… in all its different forms!! I have been through different trials and tests. I would like to think they were meant for my own good. To help purify me, awaken me (sort of like Neo’s awakening in the movie" Matrix"); unchain me from all attachments to this short narrow-scoped life, show me what this life (DONIA) is really like. I would like to think of it as God’s messages making his presence known, guiding me to aim for and work harder towards the better, and more important afterlife (AKHERA). As God promised in the Quran at the beginning of Chapter 29, verses 2 and 3: أَحَسِبَ النَّاسُ أَن يُتْرَكُوا أَن يَقُولُوا آمَنَّا وَهُمْ لا يُفْتَنُونَ (2) وَلَقَدْ فَتَنَّا الَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِهِمْ فَلَيَعْلَمَنَّ اللَّهُ الَّذِينَ صَدَقُوا وَلَيَعْلَمَنَّ الْكَاذِبِينَ(3) Translation: Do the people think that they will be left to say, "We believe" and they will not be tried?(Verse 2) And We have certainly tried those before them, and Allah will surely make evident those who are truthful, and He will surely make evident the liars (Verse 3) I’ve been tried in my career. I’ve been tried in my previous marriages. I’ve been tried with my children. And I’ve been tried in my health. “It’s been a hard road...the road I’m travelling on” (Tracy Chapman "At this point in my life") On that road, I'm looking more for companionship rather than a typical marriage. But make no mistake, my pursuit of finding a companion is not one out of desperation. I’m equally happy and delighted in my solitude. I'm equally happy and delighted in my relationship with Allah (Alhamdolellah). In Allah, there is compensation for everything else...and in other than Allah, there is no compensation for His Almighty. في الله عوض عن كل شيء و ليس عن الله عوض في أي شيء But, having a companion by your side tends to make those hours in the wheel of life mentioned above less ugly, it makes them more tolerable. It’s a blessing to be awakened, but not to be awakened alone...in a world that’s drowning in a deep coma. Since early in my life I have been struggling with finding the right career path that fits me and fits my personality. As a kid at school, I was that cute, yet, odd little boy with eye glasses sitting at the back. The odd kid whom his being left-handed…added even more to his oddness among his peers. The odd kid whom, when called upon to answer a question, and despite knowing the right answer most of the time, would deliberately give the wrong answer…just to avoid being in the spotlight. That odd kid who puzzled most of his teachers…when class participation doesn’t match with his performance in tests, final exams and final grades. The kid that didn’t have too many friends at school but was lucky enough to have my older siblings attend the same school…working as a protective shield around me. As I grew up and it was time to go to college, I got stuck in the path to get an Engineering degree due to some family and cultural pressure (in addition to my fondness of Mathematics), only to realize it wasn’t really what makes me tick. Along that journey, I went through my first marriage which resulted in two beautiful children, But only to find out that I was just a step in someone else’s ladder. I was only a tool for her (my first ex-wife) to get to Canada and have Canadian children. I once read that “Being strong doesn’t always mean standing your ground and fighting your battles…Sometimes, just summoning the courage to walk away with your head held high and your pride intact…is the greatest show of strength”… ...and that’s what I did. I didn’t fight any battles. I didn’t stand in any courts. I didn’t fight for custody or even visitation hours…I just let her go. Few grieving years later, I met a wonderful single mother whom, by the grace and the will of Allah, was bestowed the greatest gift of reverting to Islam. Being from two different backgrounds, we had a great and exciting life together and I thought I couldn’t be happier. Yet again, that didn’t come without a thorn in the flesh. Despite how great she was, she had this weakness towards her children. I was always viewed as the bad guy, while I only had the purest intentions towards them. I treated them like my own and tried to find in them my long-lost love to my own children, who were taken away from me. And even though her studies in Psychology (she was a trained Psychologist in her home country, Brazil) helped her a lot in understanding, analyzing and absorbing the depths of my personality, they seemed to fall short in fixing her own weakness in front of her children. Though unwilling to believe in the obvious, It was clear to both of us that, unfortunately, we have reached a dead end. Along with that, hardly having a chance to catch a breath...came another trial, another test, only this time it was in my health. I had a thyroid problem that was easily treatable but during the onset of the problem I started losing some hair and it started thinning. Raising those concerns to a dermatologist, he prescribed a medication that had some nasty side effects (you can search “Propecia side effects” on Google). Those side effects came into the most delicate of all matters in a married man’s life but, thankfully Alhamdolellah, with proper medication, I was, and still, capable of leading a normal life. This may only be a glimpse of my life, but it’s hard to write down everything in the limited space offered by the website. That, I believe, would need a big thick book with multiple chapters. As a matter of fact, I can’t tell you how many times I have been encouraged by the few friends I have in my circle of trust and who have been a part of different events in my life, to actually sit down and take up that project seriously…to actually write a book! Or at least carry a notebook and note down the countless incidents and events as they unfold! They seem to believe that writing, somehow, comes easy to me… and that I may have an interesting story to tell. At the time…the way they say it…it sounds tempting…but I know myself…it just wouldn’t work for me. In this glimpse of my life I shared above, I tried to be honest and truthful as much as I could. I believe in honesty being the best policy. I believe in honesty being an obligation because on the day of judgement when I stand before Allah, when I am held accountable to all what I have done during my time in this life, when the Almighty questions me…I pray I have all the right answers. To be Continued... **UPDATE (): Due to the ever-changing economy, I will be going back to school. That's why I changed my employment status to "Student". I find it an obligation to put accurate information as much as possible so as to save you the pain of making decisions based on false information. To elaborate more on this point: I'm currently not in a position to take any serious steps. This will have to wait until, en shaa Allah, I finish studying and, by the will of Allah, secure a decent job. If you are in a rush to take serious steps right away, I am afraid I may not be a suitable candidate for you. Thank you for understanding. ** **UPDATE (): Clarification regarding the answer to the “Want more children?” question: Having a child, is undeniably a great gift and bounty from Allah. You see every day people going to great lengths to achieve such a dream and be granted such a gift. But for those who have never been through the experience… Having a child is a very demanding and taxing and seemingly permanent, 24/7/365 full-time job… A job without a retirement plan in sight. The demanding and taxing part is at all levels (emotionally, physically and, of course, financially). I strongly believe that the financial part shouldn’t be a concern, as Allah is the ultimate and only Provider. Every single soul brought to this world…they come with their provision package from Allah. Allah says in the Quran: (Chapter 11, Verse 6) وَمَا مِن دَابَّةٍ فِي الْأَرْضِ إِلَّا عَلَى اللَّهِ رِزْقُهَا وَيَعْلَمُ مُسْتَقَرَّهَا وَمُسْتَوْدَعَهَا ۚ كُلٌّ فِي كِتَابٍ مُّبِينٍ Translation: And there is no creature on earth but that upon Allah is its provision, and He knows its place of dwelling and place of storage. All is in a clear register. And in (Chapter 20, Verse 132): وَأْمُرْ أَهْلَكَ بِالصَّلَاةِ وَاصْطَبِرْ عَلَيْهَا ۖ لَا نَسْأَلُكَ رِزْقًا ۖ نَّحْنُ نَرْزُقُكَ ۗ وَالْعَاقِبَةُ لِلتَّقْوَىٰ (132 Translation (132) And enjoin prayer upon your family [and people] and be steadfast therein. We ask you not for provision; We provide for you, and the [best] outcome is for [those of] righteousness. And in (Chapter 51, Verse 58): إِنَّ اللَّهَ هُوَ الرَّزَّاقُ ذُو الْقُوَّةِ الْمَتِينُ (58 Translation: (58) Indeed, it is Allah who is the [continual] Provider, the firm possessor of strength. The parents are just the tools that Allah uses to deliver such provisions. Same like my parents did to me and your parents did to you. However, and while it’s instinctive to crave and desire having a child, not everyone is equipped or ready to be a parent at all times or at the different stages of their lives. Having a child…it changes the whole layout of your life. You willingly, happily and selflessly put your life on hold, indefinitely, on an abandoned shelf somewhere… somewhere that you may even forget. And while having a child can bring you joy and happiness, despite all the sacrifices and the selfless role you play…As much joy it can bring...As much as they can melt your heart … as much as it can totally rip the very same heart apart when, God Forbid, things don’t go well and they’re taken away from you. As I mentioned before I, unfortunately, have been through this before in my first marriage and my children were taken away from me. The scars in my heart are still there...they haven't healed yet! At this stage of my life, as I mentioned before, I'm looking more for companionship rather than a typical marriage. I would like to invest the time and the energy, spared by not having a child, to build and establish a greater, stronger and deeper bond with my companion. Have the opportunity and the time and the energy to explore each other…our personalities…what makes us who we are. I would also like us to be able to: In terms of Faith and Belief and Emaan and our efforts towards Akhera: - Increase our knowledge about this beautiful religion together. - attend lectures at the mosque or even online together. - Study together and delve deeper into Quran and Sunnah of the Prophet (peace be upon him). - Try our best to live according to what we learn from the Quran and Sunnah and put into practice. In terms of Donia: (If we can afford it) - Be able to save some money to travel somewhere new together. - Take a course where we can find a mutual interest, or even a whole diploma together. - Learn a new language together. - Take up martial arts classes together. - And more… (but hopefully you get the idea) However, even with all our best laid-out plans…Allah is the best Planner…and only his will on earth shall prevail. If it’s meant to happen, to have a child (despite any other plans in mind) …Well, who are we to refuse Allah’s gift to us?? And who knows? That child might be the real factor that actually builds and strengthens that bond between us. That child, he or she, can grow up and be destined to be a great addition to the society and the world. So, that’s why my answer to the “want more children?” is “Not Sure”. It’s not a definite “Yes” or a definite “No”. I really hope this point is clear for everyone. Thank you! ** **UPDATE (): I have been asked by some members to describe what Islam means to me? While I’m by no means an angel walking this earth, I would still like to think that Islam is what shapes who I am. This greatest gift and bounty from Allah the Almighty that he generously bestowed upon us. Islam is in the air I breathe...in the water I drink...in the food I eat. It runs in my blood. Allah…the afterlife...the first thought in my mind when I wake up and the last thought before going to bed. It’s also the thought I have in the middle of the night when I am tossing and turning and cannot sleep. Islam to me is beyond the five pillars (Shahadah, Praying, fasting Ramadan, giving Zakat, or performing Hajj (if possible)). Islam is what shapes my moral and ethical compass. Islam is having a live conscience and a live filter to every single action (Will doing this be pleasing to Allah or not?). Islam is what shaped my profile the way it is...being honest, upfront and straightforward. Islam is seeking knowledge about what is halal and what is haram. Islam is about knowing why Allah created us, what awaits us after this life, in the grave and on the day of judgement. Islam is in every transaction of the day, be it big or small. Islam is in how I treat my neighbors. Islam is when I go shopping, when I smile at people, when I hold the door for somebody. Islam is in how I drive my car, letting you pass me first, giving up my parking spot for the elderly or a mother with her children or a pregnant woman... choosing to park further away and walk. Islam is when I remove harm out of people’s way. Islam is in my conversation when I talk to people. Islam is while humbly cruising through this DONIA, constantly reminding myself to look at the less fortunate...that despite my struggles and trials, there's always someone else who have it worse...that for any given day, as long as I'm in good health, have a safe shelter, have enough food and enough means to support myself and whoever in my care...then I'm among the richest of the rich for that day...the rest is just glitter and tinsel...the rest is just confetti...and Allah, who provided me for that day, is capable to provide for me tomorrow. Islam is also in considering every morning I wake up, still breathing and am capable of getting out of bed, to be another gift from Allah...another chance for a new beginning with Allah. Islam, therefore, is also in constantly reminding myself to practice gratitude and be among the few whom Allah mentioned in Chapter 34, verse 13: وَقَلِيلٌ مِّنْ عِبَادِيَ الشَّكُورُ (Translation: And few among my servants are grateful). Islam is in my reflections and contemplation of the conscious world around me. Islam is living this life, knowing with absolute certainty, that there will come a day when the inevitable visits to finally release my soul and take it on its ethereal and final journey...knowing that at that final moment...all this life since my birth, through all the stages, the successes and failures, the ups and downs, the accomplishments and disappointments, the struggles and trials...even the good times and heartaches...all this will be just like looking back from a window, at an infinitesimal grain of sand on a sandy beach, while seated in an airplane taking off and leaving the ground...All what remains is the luggage I took with me ... the luggage that only contains my good deeds during that infinitesimal lifetime I had on this earth. But, I’m still a human being…I have my shortcomings…I have my demons. With the help of Allah, I try as hard as I can to work on those shortcomings…With the help of Allah, I keep those demons at bay on a leash. ** **UPDATE (): There’s been quite a number of curious messages asking where I’m originally from. I promise you, I come from planet Earth…I’m not an alien!! I’m not sure why that would be a concern. If you are worried that there maybe some inherited misconceptions regarding marriage or treating women or any other, unfortunately, negative stereotypes attached to certain cultures or backgrounds…I assure you that’s not the case. As I mentioned in my answer to other curious messages regarding what Islam means to me…My only reference is: Quran and Sunnah. The place where I was born…is just that…a place where Allah destined, I would be born. This information I will share with whom Allah decides that we have a serious conversation. What I can share is that: I was blessed to be born in a Muslim country to Muslim parents and grew up in a Muslim environment. The notion of Ethnicity, Nationalism, pride of belonging to certain country or culture…don’t mean much to me. The years I lived where, what you call, I am “originally from” and before moving to Canada…I never felt like I belonged. I always felt like I’m a guest or a tourist who, sooner or later, will have to leave. Allah says in the Quran: (Chapter 55, Verse 10) وَٱلْأَرْضَ وَضَعَهَا لِلْأَنَامِ Translation: He laid out the earth for all beings. It’s humans that came up with these concepts of countries and nations, while It’s The whole earth for all beings. Hence, I come from planet Earth! ** ** UPDATE (): It doesn’t give me any pleasure to have to write any of this, but after some unpleasant experience, I find it necessary: While I sincerely appreciate that you might be interested in my profile, please understand that it doesn’t necessarily mean that, in return, I have an obligation to reciprocate. Even if you think that your profile fits the listed preliminary criteria I’m looking for (Country of residence, age range…etc.) …there are many other factors to consider. There’s no need to be rude about it…There’s no need for patronizing or condescending behavior or projecting your insecurities on me…especially when I reply back and, politely and respectfully, apologize for not reciprocating the interest…even when I think I don’t have the obligation to do so. You know…I can be rude too…I can be acerbic...but Allah says in the Quran (Chapter 25, verse 63): وَعِبَادُ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الَّذِينَ يَمْشُونَ عَلَى الْأَرْضِ هَوْنًا وَإِذَا خَاطَبَهُمُ الْجَاهِلُونَ قَالُوا سَلَامًا Translation: “And the servants of the Most Gracious are those who walk upon the earth in humility, and when the ignorant address them [harshly], they say [words of] peace” Also, in Chapter 28, verse 55: وَإِذَا سَمِعُوا اللَّغْوَ أَعْرَضُوا عَنْهُ وَقَالُوا لَنَا أَعْمَالُنَا وَلَكُمْ أَعْمَالُكُمْ سَلَامٌ عَلَيْكُمْ لَا نَبْتَغِي الْجَاهِلِينَ Translaton: And when they hear ill speech, they turn away from it and say, "For us are our deeds, and for you are your deeds. Peace will be upon you; we seek not the ignorant." So, Kindly spare me your preaching about proper manners…I think my manners are fine…they’re just different than yours. Also, you don't need to tell me how we could have been meant to be together or how, according to your judgement, I’m limiting my chances and you are considered a missed opportunity! There are no missed opportunities… Like the great companion Omar Ibn AL Khattab said: “we run away from the fate of Allah…to the fate of Allah”. If I were to tell the stories of my previous marriages, you’d be surprised how we ended up being together…you’d be even more surprised how both marriages ended up in a divorce. If it’s really meant and predestined to happen…it will happen. And Please… Spare me the need to explain or justify why I may not be interested in your profile. With all due respect, I don’t think you feel obligated to respond to every interest or every message you receive or feel obligated to justify yourself why you are not interested…Or Do You??!** ******************************************************************************

Majed

49 • Ottawa, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 18 - 30

لــتــســـــــــــــكــنـــوا 🫂 إلـــيـــهـــا

لا يوجد شخص يلائمك تماما. يوجد شخص يتنازل من اجلك وتتنازل من اجله، لانكما ترغبان بالبقاء معا I'm Just a simple, honest, kind, calm، and loving person. I am a kind soul. Feel free to ask me what you like. من عمل صالحا من ذكر او انثى وهو مؤمن فاولئك يدخلون الجنه يرزقون فيها بغير حساب

Clint

44 • Gander, Newfoundland & Labrador, Canada

Seeking: Female 24 - 32

Looking for a lifetime partner..

I’m a hard working loving man who wants a family and a lifetime partner. So I will say my life is quite complicated right now. I have been separated now about 6 months. She is Filipino and we have a 1 year old together.. unfortunately she has some mental problems… I did find this out early but she was already pregnant so I tried my best to make it work. I was hoping once we got to Canada she would get help … maybe take medication…. Unfortunately I was wrong . Now she left… made up so many lies about me to the police. We are going to court which is fine because I done nothing but I’m losing money for lawyers etc. she will probably end up deported… but I have no idea what her status is … she came on a visitor visa which has expired. She has violent outbursts, screams at me, throws things… then she will proceed to cry under the bed for hours. Before anyone asks no I did not cheat I’m a very loyal man.

Mohammed

44 • Windsor, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 25 - 35

Kind, wise and caring person.

I’m a divorced father of a child! Looking to form a beautiful family to set an example to my daughter of what me and her mother couldn't achieve. My daughter has no siblings and the best inheritance is good siblings. I love kids so much I could spend

Muhammad

42 • Ottawa, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 35 - 47

Seeking someone GENUINE

Asalamu Alikum to all. My name is Muhammad. I'm a Canadian born Pakistani. Parents are from lahore originally. I grew up in Medinah Saudi Arabia for a few years and have been living in Canada for quite some time. I am a Type 1 DIABETIC since the age 2 I believe. Alhumdulliah so far all seems alright. Other then that I am an easy going and hard to individual. I like many things in life such as food, traveling and adventure, just to name a few.

Druidovik

47 • Ottawa, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 35 - 50

I am looking for a warmhearted, sociable

I am a free-spirited entrepreneur who enjoys creative and forward thinking and likes to bring the best in people around me. I have been living in Ottawa for 9 years, worked at the House of Commons for 3 years before joining a school board as a senior buyer. From 1999 to 2010, I lived 11 years in Asia for work and discovery. I am a happy Wheelchair user.

Alaeddin

41 • Barrie, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 30 - 47

Looking for a companion in this life and next ❤️🤲

God-conscious, kind hearted, intellectual, creative, introvert (INFJ). I have most of my life figured out, good at what I do, own what I have alhamdulliah, ambitious and looking to complete my deen. Interests and hobbies: making music mixes (ch

Jamal

50 • Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 18 - 30

الزواج في اقرب وقت

الحمد لله انا رجل مسلم أخاف الله اصلي خمس صلاة واحب أن اقرء القران وانا رجل محترم في نفسي وعند عائلتي والمجتمع ورجل مسؤول احب ان اساعد الأيتام والارامل والمتضررين والمساكين المهم اريد الزواج بشريعة الله وسنة رسول الكريم في اقرب وقت بإذن الله

Mohamed

50 • London, Ontario, Canada

Seeking: Female 18 - 59

Hallow there

I am easy going person but im hard working guy .please if your profile dos not have picture then dont send msg or like . I am in this website but i am not looking for same one to help me or to give me money or to sponser me for a viza , alhamdulillah i have been in all continents from Africa to Asia 'Europe ' South America ' North America ' AND Travell more than 36 countrys ' i have experience on travaling alhamdulillah ' am here to find same one that she want to be loved and enjoy life , , i can manage to traver anywhere in this world by my self . And i like deen and dunya . i hope to find sameone who will understand me respect me and love me .At the moment i am in my vacation in Tanzania for safari in serengeti and ngorongoro in East africa and zanzibar .island till end of october .

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