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Yaseen
47 Al Jīzah, Al Jīzah, Egypt
Seeking: Female 23 - 41
Education: High School
One-sentence summary: I'm a modern warrior seeking a genuinely submissive, unconditionally respectful, obedient, truly religious, younger Muslim woman with whom I have chemistry, fluent in either English or Arabic, and willing to master Arabic — for marriage. No, I don’t want a “servant” for a wife. Yes, a submissive wife can still respectfully discuss and debate with her man of the house. Not knowing the difference between servants and submissive partners, between blind obedience and unconditional respect, is a symptom of the influence of the global feminist culture. The differences are there, however, and I know them. I have faults and weaknesses, like lacking some grit and discipline for long-term goals, but others describe me as highly intelligent and cultured or well-read. So, a lack of intelligence in a woman, as expressed by her words and reactions, can get on my nerves sometimes. If the lack of intelligence is combined with sarcasm, unintelligent demands, or a lack of respect from the woman, this will 100% instigate my disrespect. If the disrespect is returned, then it's over with that woman. Feminism has influenced more than 95% of modern women in my estimation, like women who "want to be treated like queens" and demand respect without giving it, so keep what I just introduced in mind before interacting with me. I'm incompatible with feminism and feminists. The man is the leader of the house and must be treated that way. Women can get the "queen" treatment from her children because that's the children's Islamic obligation, and I will raise my children based on this principle, but she must also treat her husband like a king, with unconditional respect. This is my non-negotiable way; take it or leave it now. I have divorced and stopped the marriage process with very "religious" and beautiful women for nothing other than their continued disrespect of me. And if we talk, I will test you as I've tested others. You've been warned. Everything I ask for is in accordance with the commands of God in Islam, Christianity, and Judaism. The evidence for this is, of course, there for anyone who wants to be sure. Therefore, feminism is hostile to all religions, and when it cannot challenge a religion, it distorts the texts related to women in that religion, as Islamist feminism did to convince Muslim women of equality and that it is not necessary to revere the husband and that it is possible to treat the husband as if he were a little brother or a domesticated pet in the house. If marital happiness could actually be achieved with feminism, I might not have objected much, but life taught me with harsh lessons that feminism is a societal and marital cancer. Sooner or later, marital life becomes miserable with feminism. Marital bliss and sustainable stability can only be achieved via the traditional and Islamic family structure. And yes, I’ve seen hundreds of the “happy” modern couples; if that’s modern happiness, then no, thanks. I’d rather keep searching for a one-in-a-million. Contrary to what my introduction might've implied, I am capable of romance after marriage with the right chemistry. My default attitude toward respectful, religious, honorable women is also one of kindness, gentleness, and chivalry — all within the Islamic guidelines. But, unfortunately, not that many women in today's world are respectful, religious, and honorable, and my chivalry [is] conditional. If you behave yourself, you can deal with the "knight" in me; if you're arrogant, sarcastic, or disrespectful, you'll be treated like trash. I'll always be more allergic to disrespect than you, and this is my right because the man will be the leader of the house, as I said. I'm also allergic to unintelligence, but I'm capable of living with an unintelligent, humble, respectful, submissive wife and 100% incapable of living with a disrespectful wife even if she's the most intelligent, beautiful, and richest nobility. If you won't read enough of my profile to feel ready to fall in love after marriage, then there's no need to talk or reply. I'm not subscribed because there is barely any [mutual] interest with compatible profiles, and because very few profiles have anything to read. If your profile has nothing meaningful to read about you or what you seek, the chances of me being interested in talking are hopelessly low. I heard all the excuses for not writing anything on the profile, and they're all unacceptable. Once there's mutual interest with even one compatible profile, I'm happy to subscribe and communicate. If you cannot demonstrate compatibility from your profile and you need to chat for this, that is proof of incompatibility; I know exactly what I'm saying and I'm certain of it because my mentality is not compatible with the mentality of a woman who publishes a blank or near-blank profile on a marriage or matchmaking website for any excuse. No one's asking anyone to put super personal or private information on public pages, but where is the breach of privacy in saying "I want a man who has X, Y, Z characteristics," for example? Yeah, some people don't even have enough sanity and reason to realize that. And my profile is long intentionally; I want to repel people who are reading-challenged. Note: This part of my profile is written in English, so if you're reading it in a language other than English, then you're reading an automatic translation that will likely be in poor language and full of mistakes. I use instant messengers, of course, but I'm not an IM type of person; I'm an email type of person. To clarify further, I'm not compatible with messages that only say, "Hi. How are you?" It's totally fine to start your message that way if you're used to this sort of politeness, but it'll save us both a lot of time if you know what you want to talk about before you contact me and mention it in the first message. I always do that if I contact you first. Secondly, if you Liked or hearted my photo without viewing my profile and I never responded or even viewed your profile, that's because I consider Liking without viewing the profile a bad sign; the implications are unattractive, especially as the behavior of a woman. Finally, I don't have time to chat about the basics with several sisters. These websites or apps have fields to complete and fields to write about ourselves and what we seek exactly for this purpose: to get a basic understanding of someone and see if there's enough compatibility. If there is, that may inspire the will to get to know others deeper. In short, if you don't have time to read and write some basics on the profiles, I also don't have time to chat about the basics over and over again with a new person every day. A Muslim trying to follow Islam today is like someone holding burning coal. A true Muslim today is a "stranger" in the word's most painful, arduous, and difficult meanings. We are literally "strange" in the eyes of 99% of people, including "Muslims" living in Muslim countries. I come from a liberal background, unfortunately, but today, I don't listen to music, but I'm not fanatic about it if it's already playing in a news video or something. I don't watch movies. I'm the imam of the local mosque in the small Nordic town where I live, but this doesn't mean I'm perfect or the best Muslim around. I know how to recite the Quran, speak, read, and write Arabic fluently, and I have some Islamic knowledge that is above average compared to the current state of the ummah. Other than that, I have faults, weaknesses, limits, and so on, like any normal human. Islamized feminism, which is part of my ex's identity, is what destroyed my previous marriage. I did my best to find a religious wife when I searched years ago, and I thought I found her. She wore a proper hijab and jilbab, never wore makeup in public, prayed her five prayers, and didn't listen to music or watch movies, and she was even more fanatic about this than me. Those are God's rights. However, when it came to my rights as her husband, she gave me none: mainly, no respect; and obedience came with great difficulty and after a long time sometimes. Any educated Muslim woman knows this is schizophrenic, almost hypocritical, and contradictory because a husband's rights are fundamental in Islam, just like a mother's rights when the relationship is between a son and his mother, for example. My ideal wife either understands what Islamized feminism is and is actively against it, or she understands a husband's rights and grew up in a home where her mother fulfills those rights, so she grew up soaking up this culture, this essential part of Islam. I study chemical engineering and am very close to graduating, but I struggle for many reasons. I want to finish my studies and emigrate to a Muslim country soon. I thought my last marriage would help me, but it was a significant reason for my struggles. And living in these countries single is almost emotional torture sometimes. The disappointment, frustration, and misery that my previous marriage brought me have made things even more difficult after thinking I was saved the struggles of facing life in the West alone. All this doesn't mean that I'm settling for less than a proper Muslim wife in the future. If you think I'm writing a lot here, this is about 5% of what I want to say and write to avoid wasting time in pointless messages from incompatible women. And it doesn't work most of the time because the far majority who send me a message or click or tap the heart never even view my profile. So, if any sister reading this suffers from male "time wasters," I promise you that there are also plenty of female time wasters here ... too many. When I want to waste my time on something fun, I play computer games. I don't want to waste my time on pointless messages. I'm not interested in women who wear makeup and fancy "hijab styles" in public; these women don't understand what hijab is. Not interested in women who like to show off and be better than other women in life; I want a woman who wants to be better than others in Islam. Not interested in a woman who likes to argue with her husband; I've had more than enough of this, and I'm tired of it and not interested. And if a religious sister, who has "traditional" parents, is interested enough in me, then she will need to convince me that putting in the effort of marrying her is not a stupid risk; the worst part about religious women with traditional parents is that they haven't grown up watching their mothers treat their fathers according to Islam, just according to tradition, but the worldly expectations of traditional parents and their future potential negative effect on grandchildren are also risks. Can I even find a truly religious sister with religious parents here? I seriously doubt it. I think those only exist in small villages nowadays. And when they live in cities, they're lost in the crowd and usually don't post profiles on matchmaking websites, which is a shame. What will brothers like me do to find a compatible wife when we're living in a non-Muslim country and cannot emigrate just yet? I can't think of anything other than to have a profile on a website/app like this, as almost futile as it is. It is like trying to find one person in a million people.

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