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Karapatos
40 Silifke, İçel, Turkey
Seeking: Female 28 - 32
Marital Status: Divorced
(Here I paid for a membership more than a year at total and what I found was mostly fake or problematic members. I don't think to pay anymore but if anyone wants to reach me seriously, I see all the likes and if I visit your profile and like you back you can consider paying for the cheapest membership option) (To not take your time unnecessarily, I can first try to summarise what I search superficially; Here I seek a religious hijabi/niqabi girl who doesn't have kids. Also I prefer my wife not interested in earning money but there can be exceptions like working from home or with me if you are so much into that. Not a deal breaker but I would also prefer someone who is comfortable with living in nature and hot climates as I live in a small town on South Coast of Turkiye with hot and humid summers.) Assalamu alaikum Firstly, I would like to have a wife who can be helpful for both of our religious life as most of the marriages nowadays take us away from our real purpose in this world. I particularly mean being supportive about what I am doing in Risale-i Nur madrasas which are a kind of dawah organization and where I started to volunteer many years ago while I will be doing real estate investments which doesn't take my time much and let's me to invest it this way. (if needed, relocation is not an issue for this and travelling in a spiritually benefiting way can be an exception) Related with above, especially since a couple of years I am trying to quit habits and activities which are harmful religiously and which are not giving us a better perception but still I might be enjoying this life more than many others while seeking a deeper meaning and benefit in every activity. The last years are like; I am participating dawah activities and charities more in winter and spending other half of the year with swimming, kayaking and fishing daily while still doing dawah activities with brothers living nearby. About my personality, In general it seems like I am reflecting people's behaviour and feelings back after amplifying them. This emotional amplifier can turn me into a slave when I see some kindness and I might respond to compassion and selflessness with a much stronger reflection. Actually even if I don't receive, probably one of my best upsides is to be able to show love, interest and compassion continously. In short words I can say I am expecting these two features as minimal requirements; first one is to help both of our religious improvement and second is expecting a deeper relationship. (sorry if I sound superficial but I think I seek and appreciate beauty more than it should be) Having a deeper understanding and knowledge about religion, spirituality, psychology and arts would be big perks. Lastly I spent my time with several outdoor sports professionally and we can even go for an expedition in future like paddling or walking to Saudi for hadj or any kind of journey benefiting us spiritually if you are also interested. As I started to talk about my weird ideas I can tell another one to help you get me better. Several years ago I tried to find support for a muslim village idea but couldn't find the right people to participate. It was a unique and seemingly promising idea in details but I couldn't reach the right people. Then I thought to minimize the target as relocating to a remote area as a couple after finding a likeminded girl. That was probably the first reason of mine to use these online marriage platforms. After hadj I focused on dawah activities more but I am still open to that village idea or starting our own muslim "civilisation" from scratch ⌒_⌒ +What I am not expecting is house chores and cooking as long as you don't mind eating raw food everyday and live in a quite untidy house :D + I would prefer if you can inform your family as early as possible about me and the idea of getting married this way +I am supporting gender segregation in Sunnah and trying to live according to that. Being over protective is more like a downside of me. +Some other possible downsides are procrastination, complaining(I probably healed from complaining much in times of stress alhamdulillah) and having a confused mind due to overtasking myself +I can tell a bit about my marriages as it was asked multiple times; It was last year when I met with my second wife and when I first saw her online, I felt like an intuition that she was seeming very depressed and told my negative decision but couldn't resist much as she continued to be persistent. Even after the first week of marriage she fell into that mood again. For her sake I was willing to support her till she heals and continue our marriage but she wanted us to divorce also to not let me deal with these kind of problems again after my first marriage which was also something struggling as I lost her due to cancer. Not because I wasn't being able to find matching women here but probably I cannot say no easily to people who are having hard times.
Francis
49 Ankara, Ankara, Turkey
Seeking: Female 18 - 60
Marital Status: Divorced
I am just a very simple loving and caring man looking for real love and matured relationship that can possibly result into a happy marriage. Basically, my romantic life is a journey filled with diverse marriage disappointment and meaningless life. It encompasses moments of little or no joy and but full of heartache, teaching me valuable lessons about love, trust, and compatibility in the hard way. Overall, my romantic life is a reflection of growth, resilience, and a continuing quest to find a fulfilling and lasting love. The disappointment and heartbreak that follow a failed marriage are emotions that cut deep and leave lasting scars on the soul. A union that once held dreams of everlasting love and happiness can shatter, leaving a trail of shattered hopes and unanswered questions. The initial stages of disappointment in a failed marriage often come as a slow realization, like a creeping shadow. It's a feeling of something not being right, of expectations slowly crumbling. This can manifest in various ways, such as growing apart, a lack of intimacy, or unresolved conflicts. When these issues persist and a couple reaches a point where separation becomes the only viable option, the heartbreak sets in. One of the most painful aspects of a failed marriage is the dismantling of a life built together. The dissolution of shared dreams, plans, and the emotional investment in a future together can be excruciating. It's like watching a beautiful castle of aspirations crumble into ruins. The disappointment stems not just from the marriage's end but from the realization that the fairy tale ending will never materialize. Heartbreak in a failed marriage is complex and multifaceted. It's not only about the emotional attachment to a partner but also the loss of identity within the marriage. Many individuals invest so much of themselves into their roles as spouses that when the marriage fails, they must grapple with the question of who they are outside of that context. It can lead to feelings of confusion, isolation, and a profound sense of emptiness. The emotional rollercoaster that follows a failed marriage is intense. There's often a period of shock and denial, where it's hard to accept that the marriage has truly ended. Then comes the overwhelming sadness and grief. The mind replays cherished memories and mourns the loss of a love that once felt unbreakable. It's a time filled with tears, sleepless nights, and a heaviness that seems impossible to lift. Anger is another common emotion in the aftermath of a failed marriage. It can be directed towards the ex-partner, oneself, or the circumstances that led to the breakup. It's a natural response to feeling hurt and betrayed. This anger, if not managed, can be destructive and hinder the healing process. The disappointment and heartbreak in a failed marriage can also manifest physically. Many people experience a loss of appetite, sleep disturbances, and a general decline in physical health. The stress and emotional turmoil can take a toll on one's well-being. Rebuilding life after a failed marriage is a daunting task. It requires self-reflection, self-compassion, and the support of friends and family. Therapy and counseling can be invaluable in helping individuals process their emotions and gain insights into their experiences. It's an opportunity for personal growth, discovering one's own strength, and redefining what happiness means. Over time, the heartbreak may begin to heal, and the disappointment can transform into wisdom. The lessons learned from a failed marriage can guide individuals towards healthier relationships in the future. It's important to remember that a marriage's failure does not define one's worth or their ability to love and be loved. In conclusion, the disappointment and heartbreak in a failed marriage are profoundly painful experiences that can leave lasting scars. They encompass the grief of lost dreams, the dismantling of a shared life, and the emotional turmoil of a shattered love. However, with time, support, and self-reflection, individuals can heal and emerge stronger, wiser, and better equipped for the future. A failed marriage may be the end of one chapter, but it can also mark the beginning of a new, more resilient, and hopeful one.

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