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ja

32 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female

Big, tall (193cm) athletic African American man

I’m big, tall, manly and athletic. I own a company, two houses, a stables with horses and more. I’m passionate, with high drive and after marriage I want a woman that is the same. If the idea of being with a big strong black man is attractive to you, let’s message and match.

Tarreanno

41 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 40

I'm American, Living in Morocco

Assalamu Alaikum wa rahmatullah Before I begin talking about myself, I want to start with an important reminder. Using platforms like this, where men and women are placed in direct contact, undeniably creates a situation that can conflict with the proper boundaries Islam has set for us. We have to be honest with ourselves about that. So before anything else, I would like to propose a technique that...(even if it doesn’t eliminate the conflict entirely), Inshallah, it can at least show Allah that we cared, that we didn’t take this lightly, and that we made a sincere effort to minimize it. Here’s what I suggest: Whenever we need to communicate, instead of speaking privately one-on-one, we create a small, controlled group chat. That could mean any of the below: A) Me plus a trustworthy brother... B) You plus a trusted female relative or friend... C) Or even better, all four of us together (you, me, your trusted companion, and my trusted companion). Ideally, of course, it would be best if you could introduce me to your wali (your father, brother, or uncle) early on, because, truly, that would be the most correct and blessed way forward. But I completely understand that in the very beginning, you may want time to assess things before involving your family. That’s why, at the very least, I’m proposing we keep our communications supervised in some way...not private, not hidden. This way, we can move forward with honor, sincerity, and respect for the limits Allah has placed between us. You might be wondering: "If you're so strict about communication, why are you even using a site like this?" And that's a fair question... so here’s my honest answer: Point 1: Realistically, technology opens the door to far more opportunities to find a compatible spouse than relying only on our local personal contacts. But even though I’m using an online platform, I’m committed to keeping all interactions within the Islamic guidelines as much as possible. Point 2: If hearing all of this makes you feel uncomfortable... If it makes you think I'm "too much"... Then honestly, we are probably not the right match. Because the woman I’m seeking will understand, respect, and appreciate this approach not judge me for it. Ok so if you've made it this far in my looooooooooong message (LOL) Subhannallah, wow you must be bored! LOL I'm joking of course. So Alhamdulilah, if you're still interested and reading. So now I'll talk "ABOUT ME!" I'm American, born and raised in Brooklyn New York. My month and year of birth is Oct 1973. I'm my mothers only child. Most of my family is Christian. At 18, Allah, by His Mercy, guided me to Islam. Alhamdulillah, the greatest blessing of my life, may He keep me firm until my last breath. Ameen A few years later, one of my cousins accepted Islam, then one of our uncles. As of now, the three of us are the only Muslims in my entire family... and my heart aches in du'a for the rest of them. Allah says: "Indeed, you do not guide whom you like, but Allah guides whom He wills..." I pray that Allah guides them... especially my mother... before it’s too late. I come from a deeply rooted American family...generations on both my mother’s and father’s sides have been in the U.S., mostly based in New York City with some family possibly from the South. When I asked my grandmother where we’re originally from, she just smiled and shrugged and said..."Boy dont getz me to lying...I don't know!" ...so let’s just say, we’re overdue for a DNA test! Interestingly, my father’s side traces some lineage back to Native American roots. Professionally... Because Allah said: "Men are the protectors and maintainers of women..." it’s only right that you know about my ability to provide. I’m currently an Assistant Director of Cybersecurity ... meaning, in simple terms, I stop hackers from robbing billion-dollar companies. I've been in technology for 25 years, Alhamdulillah, and work remotely, so I can live anywhere in the world with a stable internet connection. My role ranks among the top executive tiers in global enterprise organizations and I can provide you my LinkedIn profile if you want to verify my formal professional history. So about my pictures... At first glance... I know exactly what you're thinking. "Uh oh... this brother looks like an 800-pound gorilla ready to flip a car over!" So I acknowledge I may look like an ex-bank robber LOL, but trust me...I'm not! Alhamdulilah. And honestly...what usually surprises people (and I love this part) is when I actually speak. Suddenly my "thug" image crumbles, and what comes out instead is intelligence, humor, and (Alhamdulillah) a heart that just wants khayr. People who meet me usually end up laughing and saying something like, "SubhanAllah, you're nothing like what I expected. you look "dangerous" but you're just a big kid at heart!" That's a true story! I genuinely love making people around me laugh, feel alive, and feel appreciated. I'm the happy, bubbly one in my circle of trust. I'm the one cracking the jokes, lightening the mood, and pulling harmless pranks like silently standing in a dark corner of the house and just wait for you to pass by. And without any jump scare, no touching... no shouting... just silently standing still for you to unexpectingly to notice me, just to get your heart to beat faster in horror!!! LOL But when life demands it... I can flip the switch instantly to "boss mode", "head of house, mode", "crisis manager," or "800-pound gorilla in charge" mode. When it comes to Islam... outwardly and inwardly... Alhamdulillah, I try to reflect what I believe. Islamically speaking, it is encouraged to judge what’s apparent...while leaving the unseen to Allah, as the Prophet (Sallallahu alayhi wasalam) said: "Indeed, I have not been commanded to search the hearts of the people, nor to tear open their bellies." (Sahih al-Bukhari) To that end: I outwardly display my Islam with purpose. From the way I dress...being from Brooklyn, New York, my style definitely carries that signature edge and confidence... but it's modest, clean, and unmistakably Muslim. You’ll find me about 90% of the time in a thobe or a jalabiya... pants above the ankle, sunnah-compliant! As for inwardly...Islaam is truly my way of life, not just a label. Not just on the tongue. . My 'Aqidah and Manhaj is according to the Qur'an and Sunnah as understood and practiced by the rightly guided companions. I am careful with who I take knowledge from, and I strive to stay upon clarity (Salafiyyah), following scholars such as: Shaykh Ibn Baz, Shaykh al-Albani, Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen, Shaykh Rabee' al-Madkhali, Shaykh Saleh al-Fawzan, and the likes of them. May Allah have mercy upon them all. Ameen You will never have to wonder whether your husband is praying. Alhamdulillah, I take the Salawat extremely seriously. Even Fajr. Even when tired. Even while traveling. (Though being human, of course, sometimes we all fall short... even Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasalam) overslept for the salah. but I strive to be consistent and sincere. I don't share this to boast or show off, but this context of marriage, is when we need to be transparent, just enough so that we are clear - they type of man I am. I'm also steadily learning Classical Fus'ha Arabic, as well as Moroccan Darija, to better deepen my connection to the Qur'an, the Sunnah, and the people around me. In reality... Islam raised me. When I became Muslim at 18, it taught me how to eat, how to use the bathroom, how to speak, how to honor contracts... how to be a man. It’s my blueprint for life. Now... let's keep it real for a minute. Everybody sounds amazing during the "getting to know you" phase. But what happens after a few months... or a few years? So I want to be upfront about both my "good" and my "bad". My good? Alhamdulillah, I’m deeply firm against bid'ah (religious innovation). I don't blindly follow personalities, popular trends, or cultures. I try hard to ensure that everything I practice in the religion has solid, authentic evidence from the Qur'an and Sunnah, as the Prophet (Sallallahu alayhi wasalam) said: "Whoever introduces into this matter of ours (Islam) that which is not part of it, it will be rejected." I hope Allah blesses me with a wife who values this deeply. My bad? I can sometimes be a little too much of a gorilla. I’m naturally calm, playful, and patient, especially in the beginning of conflicts or misunderstandings. But if the same issue repeats itself literally 20, 30, 40 times over months and years... I admit... I might lose some of that softness. So if I ever sound a little more firm than you like, just know ... it took 19 calm reminders before that. LOL!!! Bonus good point? I'm cautious about who I take as friends. I’m extremely careful about who I let influence me, because the Prophet (Sallallahu alayhi wasalam) said: "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends." I'm not the type always out with the boys, lost in sports and hanging out. I prefer to be home... chilln! spending quality time... ideally with my wife, who I hope to be my best friend, bi'idhnillah. I don’t do social media (except basic WhatsApp for family and male friends), I don’t take selfies, and I don’t mix with non-mahram women ...and I expect the same loyalty and haya’ from my future wife. Inshallah Bonus bad? I'm a little lazy when it comes to planning outings. Not lazy to enjoy them ...just lazy to coordinate them. The idea of Googling, mapping, planning schedules feels like torture. But if you plan a day out... you’ll find me outside by the car, shoes tied, wallet (with money) ready, waiting on you!!! ... faster than you can grab your purse. I’m much more of a homebody than a museum-walker! Give me a cozy evening indoors with family, some puzzles, card games, or online games (no music... no immodesty)... and I’m in my happy-zone! Still, I do go out now and then ... just enough to stay balanced and not grow mushrooms on my head. LOL So although I'm born and raised in New York City...right now, I live in an absolutely stunning part of Morocco called Tabula... mountains everywhere you look... houses tucked right into the cliffs. One of my favorite pastimes is just sitting outside ...day or night... staring at Allah’s breathtaking creation. I want to buy a beautiful piece of land here, maybe high up in the mountains, and build a warm, welcoming home rooted in simplicity, nature, and remembrance of Allah. Not cut off from the world. I still want to travel, visit my mother in the U.S., and see more of Allah’s creation but to use Morocco as my new home, that always calls me back to peace. Martial arts is another passion of mine... Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, Muay Thai, Western and Russian boxing... it's my way of staying strong, disciplined, and grounded. Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasalam) said: "The strong believer is better and more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, although both are good..." and I try to live by that. So let me land this plane now... If you're looking for a brother who might look like he just came off a UFC fight card... but who would rather be indoors cracking jokes, solving puzzles, leading his home upon Qur'an and Sunnah... protecting you, your honor, and your Islaam... then, well... maybe we need to talk. (and not privately, remember) LOL May Allah grant all of us what is best in this life and the next, and guide us always to what pleases Him.

Ramadan

43 • Newburgh, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 26 - 45

Trying to find a needle in a haystack

Look I'm sure there's plenty of nice women from Africa here. I don't want to move there, and I don't want you moving here. I reverted back in 2010. I'm willing to relocate and looking for somebody who's looking for a Muslim oriented family. I'm very

Ask_Me

41 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 34

Hello Ladies : )

Bio in short, I am not on the website often I am Egyptian/American, I live in New York but I travel often. I treat ladies very kindly, I prefer to get to know each other through a conversation, I don't like to talk about myself much on a public profile.

Yassor

44 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 25 - 44

It takes two to make happiness and quality of life

I am a psychotherapist and addiction counselor. I work in New York and Dubai. I am a very caring person that helps people achieve their life goals and reach optimal level of functioning. I love sports swimming traveling and the sea. I am a giver affectionate kind-hearted and altruistic person. I am athletic play soccer every week.

Blair

31 • Binghamton, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 25 - 37

As-salamu Alaykum

My name is Blair Robinson I am currently incarcerated in shawangunk C.F walkhill New York best way to contact me download the Securus app and enter or if u like to I've been waiting my entire life to meet you, Yes...You reading these words right

Mohammad

37 • Valley Stream, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 36

Looking for a Wife

I was born on September 26, 1987 in Karachi, Pakistan. In April 1991, I moved to New York and became a U.S. citizen. In 2021, I got my Bachelor's degree from CUNY Lehman College. I work as a store associate right now but I'm trying to get a better jo

Samer

33 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 40

I have a family living in Belgium and America and I am looking for a life and a baby girl for dating, love, marriage, stamina, and having a family, I am a great man, and I am a great man, and I am a great man. I am a very good man with principles and I am very responsive, romantic and kind heart I love helping others and I love taking care of my family and my home and I love to work a lot 🌹💙️💕😊🤍🧡💛💚💙💜if you are joined, I am not a man who is a man who is a man who is a man who is a man of his own

amr

36 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 20 - 33

a serious relationship

I am easy going and open minded with a good sense of humor , romantic a good listener and a strong sense of family are also some of my traits. I am unpretentious and down to earth. I think it is the quality of life that is important and not just material items. I believe in fairness and equality and treating others with respect. I am patient and like to help others and ,i am Pray five times and fast in Ramadan

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Eric

43 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 48 - 88

I am looking for a special,loving relationship

. I am from California and I am 43years old. I am looking for a special, loving relationship with a unique Man who is affectionate, Handsome, with a shapely figure, sincere, easygoing, with interests and characteristics similar to mine.....someone wh

Mahmoud

26 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 20 - 26

N/A

New Yorker born and raised. Former college athlete, now professional nerd. Work full-time as a hacker and AI researcher. For fun I love the outdoors, hiking/camping, and boxing. I also love to travel but haven't done much of that recently, inshallah

Alameen

59 • Syracuse, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 99

Bio update 2 in 2 hours 12/20/24

Muslim Man, Intelligent,Ambitious, Caring ,Sharing ,Loyal, Provider Independent, Motivated, a lot of will power and determination, Extremely God FEARING, Energetic, kind,extremely rare, real, not into wasting time,patient,Very respectful,super Loyal, I remodel homes and very constructive minded, super handyman, auto mechanic,also a professional Barber, loves to travel,shoot pool, swimming,museums,beaches, parks, exercising,love quality time with my partner,love children ,life, living and doing good things for self, people,children,the homeless, InShaaAllah...I love talking to the elderly they mean the world to me as well as misguided children and the homeless. I have a strong sense of passion for helping dis advantaged individuals. In Shaa Allah ,, loving and caring Single Man.

Bryant

55 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 28 - 50

I'm compatible with a programmer or web designer

Abdul Rasheed

32 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 37

As Salamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatuallahi Wa Baraktu.

abdulrasheed_13_ DM me on IG Alhamdulilah. My name is Abdul Rasheed. I'm 32 years old. Dominican American from NYC. Im not perfect but I fear Allah. I am honest, respectful, caring, responsible, trustworthy, funny and I'd make a wonderful husband In

Abdulla siddiq

44 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 26 - 44

striving to be the best version of myself

Name Abdulla siddiq.I work as a superintendent in condominiums throughout Manhattan. I’m Muslim, 44 years of age ,no children .Im African American living in the U.S .Im single and looking for a Muslima to marry doesn’t matter where you are located,just be a practicing Muslima, attractive,humble ,understanding and caring!!

Shams

39 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 22 - 35

Bismillah

Growing up in a multiethnic household instilled a respect for different cultural traditions and patterns of life. I’ve been fortunate to have lived in several Muslim countries—mainly for work and studying Islamic sciences and languages. Given the challenging educational climate in many western countries, I think it’s important for children to spend time in the Muslim world and strengthen their connection to Islamic civilizations. Faith is at the forefront of my identity. In a moving ayah, we're told that it is in the remembrance of Allah that hearts truly find peace. This verse defines the purpose toward which I strive to orient my life. I take inspiration from scholarly approaches to our deen that emphasize sincerity in action and the purification of character. The two are inseparable in my view and it’s important that my partner share a commitment to the inner spirit of Islam as well as outward observance, both in performance of the pillars as well as abstaining from the major sins.

Mujahid

44 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 30

Bismillah

I'm a Muslim business man looking for a good, righteous Muslim wife (Insha'lla). I currently live in the United States and if ALLAH (SWT) blesses me to find my wife that isn't in the United States, I pray she would be willing to relocate to the United States. Bi'thinillah ☝🏾

Felipe

29 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 40

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

I am a recent revert since Ramadan of 2023. I am multi business owner, investor, and financial expert focused on worshipping Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala and providing for my family. Born in Dominican Republic, raised in NYC, lived in Maui, Hawai’i.

Mustafa

29 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 55

Aesthete, bibliophile, cinephile, nyctophile.

My philosophy is: "It's none of my business what people say of me and think of me. I am what I am and I do what I do. I expect nothing and accept everything." And it makes life so much easier. Art, cinema, music, reading, writing, travel, horsebac

yafai

47 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 26 - 39

“The most complete believers are those who are bes...

I know life can be difficult on my sisters at times. You are the backbone of this ummah. Stay strong and keep your head up! May Allah guide the Muslim umah and protect us from evil and the hellfire In short I am NOT looking for a cook, a maid, a b

Hassan

34 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 35

If you have WhatsApp leave your number.

Assalamualaikum my name is Hassan I'm a laid-back guy I enjoy working out I go to the gym about 5 days a week I box I even train boxing I love lifting weights I'm big on anything that's dealing with fitness it's great for my mental health and it's gr

Faraz

48 • Hauppauge, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 31 - 41

Salam Everyone Please do not message if you are ...

I am organized , fun loving successful business person , worked v hard to establish myself. I am super blessed and content and v thankful for his blessings . I am enjoying my life to its fullest, I like traveling been to multiple European cities , Asia , Middle East , Far East . Enjoy socializing having quality time with friends and like minded others ,very often dinning out at different cultural restaurants“strictly Halal “ also into boats ,sailing , Harley Davidson rides , managing existing business also now a days setting up online it will be a new business venture. I can’t stand fake ness and shallowness,truly admire classy , deep and positive thinking people with class and dignity those who believe in self respect , I am well travelled and been around so can read between lines 😀.

Abdullah

54 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 31 - 48

Ask and I shall tell

♡Homebody ♡Enjoy relaxing at home and watching movies and eating 🍿 ♡Dining ♡Camping ♡Seafood, Chicken, Turkey and Southern style cooking. The spicier the better. I'm very easy going and laid back. I'm looking for someone that has similar likes and qualities. If your mahr is anything above normal, please don't even bother contacting me. If you do not cover please don't bother contacting me.. I'm a simple man, living a simple life, simply searching for a good PRACTICING or STRIVING Muslima Im not desperate and have no problem remaining a widow if need be. I don't have time to entertain games so if that's what your about please remain where you are - If you do not COVER please don't contact me for marraige. - If you are not a practicing Muslima, please don't contact me for marriage. - If you contact me for marriage and I do not respond, please accept my silence as a response of non interest. Jazakallahu khair Mas salaama.

Talib

27 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 30

Honest, Loyal, Ambitious

I have a full-time job as a Software Engineer. I have the ability to provide for a wife and family, Alhamdulilah. My ultimate goal is to make hijrah and live in the Prophet’s (Sal Allahu Alayhi Wa Sallam) city of Madinah to continue my lifelong j

Mamadou

36 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 25 - 38

Salam

Assalamu Aleykum! I'm Sow, I am 33 years old, I am from West Africa and I live in NYC. Besides that, I am a chef at Red lobster and Olive. In life I love sports, traveling, dining with friends. I' m looking for a nice, cute girl who knows what s

Bilal

39 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 35

Nop

Hi, Everyone thanks for visiting my profile a few words to describe myself My name is Bilal I was reside in the US and Canada living in New York city queens city I am decent, caring, honest, funny, loving, and outgoing person and I love traveling, I am looking for my life partner, someone who is honest caring, loving, and sincere, thanks ,and good luck to everyone in there search

ali

64 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 35 - 49

Simplicity and Compassion is my Mantra

I am a sincere, simple, loving and quite athletic. I love out doors activities and exercise regularly. I have good moral values. I am comfortable in my skin. I respect others values and desires. Enjoy assisting others. Am accessible, Looking for som

Trave

37 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female

Read!/Leer mi pagina/leia minha página/Tout lire

English/Española/Portuguese/French 👇👇 👁👁👉🏾When you write me, divide your phone number into three parts ... then, slowly, send me three messages with your number, while we both are online. I will combine the parts and write you Cuando me

Abdallah

43 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 23 - 33

software geek, Quran lover, Da'ie, generous n easy

I'm a tech nerd writing deep learning cybersecurity apps In love with memorizing and teaching Quran Fitness oriented, marathon runner and a toughmudder Community activist n you'll find me on the weekends giving Dawah to not yet Muslims Conduct

Abdus

53 • Middletown, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 23 - 43

Sisters only for me,Alhamdulila

I love this Deen, and I would like to share what time I have left with a sister who feels the same, 5 Salah every day, Allahu Akbar . Let me clarify for the uneducated sisters especially these sisters from the US polygamy was acceptable from our profit if you do not accept this then you do not accept the whole Dean of Islam educate yourself before you make accusations about a brother whose intentions are good, I do not have a wife now ! I do accept polygamy!, because Our prophet said it was OK .I DO NOT HAVE ANY INTENTIONS OF HAVING MORE THAN ONE WIFE! A brother who is looking to take care ,and be a good Muslim husband To a good practicing muslima. Ifyou are not fulfilling your obligations to Allah I am not interested in you , making Salah and Accepting what has been laid out for us by our prophet Mohammed Allah correct you and correct me In all of our mistakes Ameen

M khan

42 • Smithtown, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 46

Seeking a nice lady for marriage

I’m a nice, loving, caring, humble, direct and positive person. I Live and works in New York, and I’m well settled person. I love seeking knowledge. I love traveling, and exploring new places. I have visited Germany, France, Belgium, South Korea, China, UAE and Saudi Arabia.

robert

42 • Albany, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 22 - 29

I am looking for love

My name is Robert and I am from the Caribbean. I speak FRENCH, ENGLISH, SPANISH, AND CREOLE. I LIKE DRAWING, PAINTING, READING, LISTENING TO MUSIC, and watching movies. I am a college student. I am open-minded,, outgoing, caring, disciplined, honest, and respectful. I am looking for a woman who is beautiful both on the inside and the outside. Someone whom I can trust, who has her head on her shoulders, who is ambitious, goals oriented, who is sincere and love me for who I really am. I am a man who loves women, respect them because my mother is a woman.

Steve

59 • Valley Stream, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 28 - 50

I'm looking for someone Sweet

I'm half Italian and half black yes I'm Siciliano I live alone and I know how to treat a woman... I'm a public safety officer but law enforcement isn't my passion my passion is writing yes I'm a Author Wrote my lst two novels, you can Google them The title is called The Young Godfather And Moving Through Time by Steve Benidito I'm a Nice guy and a gentleman ...

Quamy

52 • Binghamton, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 30 - 46

Imagine Humans were blind, what would then be....

Imagine humans were blind... what would then be important and necessary when it comes to choosing your zawj? I love Allah but like most of us have been ignorant and often neglectful in my deen. i believe and understand that there will be an accounting for my deeds and an i am seeking allah's forgiveness and mercy with regard to my short comings. I was married once and the experience was a test, not only did I fail miserably but one that left me scarred and twisted emotionally and spiritually for nearly a decade. By Allah's mercy i am beginning to understand my mistakes and the test Allah gave to me little by little. I have come to realize that i am not strong enough by myself in this dunnah without the help of other mu'min beside me. Not sure if i deserve a wife or if i should even be seeking one. The idea of waking up every day with someone who helps remind me of Allah and my obligations to him and joins and supports me in my journey towards him is to me very appealing and perhaps very much necessary.

Alam

53 • Niagara Falls, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 40

"If We Connect, I'll Go the Extra Mile for You"

******* I am the CEO and President of a small but thriving company that specializes in manufacturing and exporting various products, including horse saddles, tack, harness sets, horse blankets, bags, belts, wallets, and purses. As an international ma

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