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Tarreanno
41 • New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Education: High School
I'm American, Living in Morocco
Assalamu Alaikum wa rahmatullah Before I begin talking about myself, I want to start with an important reminder. Using platforms like this, where men and women are placed in direct contact, undeniably creates a situation that can conflict with the proper boundaries Islam has set for us. We have to be honest with ourselves about that. So before anything else, I would like to propose a technique that...(even if it doesn’t eliminate the conflict entirely), Inshallah, it can at least show Allah that we cared, that we didn’t take this lightly, and that we made a sincere effort to minimize it. Here’s what I suggest: Whenever we need to communicate, instead of speaking privately one-on-one, we create a small, controlled group chat. That could mean any of the below: A) Me plus a trustworthy brother... B) You plus a trusted female relative or friend... C) Or even better, all four of us together (you, me, your trusted companion, and my trusted companion). Ideally, of course, it would be best if you could introduce me to your wali (your father, brother, or uncle) early on, because, truly, that would be the most correct and blessed way forward. But I completely understand that in the very beginning, you may want time to assess things before involving your family. That’s why, at the very least, I’m proposing we keep our communications supervised in some way...not private, not hidden. This way, we can move forward with honor, sincerity, and respect for the limits Allah has placed between us. You might be wondering: "If you're so strict about communication, why are you even using a site like this?" And that's a fair question... so here’s my honest answer: Point 1: Realistically, technology opens the door to far more opportunities to find a compatible spouse than relying only on our local personal contacts. But even though I’m using an online platform, I’m committed to keeping all interactions within the Islamic guidelines as much as possible. Point 2: If hearing all of this makes you feel uncomfortable... If it makes you think I'm "too much"... Then honestly, we are probably not the right match. Because the woman I’m seeking will understand, respect, and appreciate this approach not judge me for it. Ok so if you've made it this far in my looooooooooong message (LOL) Subhannallah, wow you must be bored! LOL I'm joking of course. So Alhamdulilah, if you're still interested and reading. So now I'll talk "ABOUT ME!" I'm American, born and raised in Brooklyn New York. My month and year of birth is Oct 1973. I'm my mothers only child. Most of my family is Christian. At 18, Allah, by His Mercy, guided me to Islam. Alhamdulillah, the greatest blessing of my life, may He keep me firm until my last breath. Ameen A few years later, one of my cousins accepted Islam, then one of our uncles. As of now, the three of us are the only Muslims in my entire family... and my heart aches in du'a for the rest of them. Allah says: "Indeed, you do not guide whom you like, but Allah guides whom He wills..." I pray that Allah guides them... especially my mother... before it’s too late. I come from a deeply rooted American family...generations on both my mother’s and father’s sides have been in the U.S., mostly based in New York City with some family possibly from the South. When I asked my grandmother where we’re originally from, she just smiled and shrugged and said..."Boy dont getz me to lying...I don't know!" ...so let’s just say, we’re overdue for a DNA test! Interestingly, my father’s side traces some lineage back to Native American roots. Professionally... Because Allah said: "Men are the protectors and maintainers of women..." it’s only right that you know about my ability to provide. I’m currently an Assistant Director of Cybersecurity ... meaning, in simple terms, I stop hackers from robbing billion-dollar companies. I've been in technology for 25 years, Alhamdulillah, and work remotely, so I can live anywhere in the world with a stable internet connection. My role ranks among the top executive tiers in global enterprise organizations and I can provide you my LinkedIn profile if you want to verify my formal professional history. So about my pictures... At first glance... I know exactly what you're thinking. "Uh oh... this brother looks like an 800-pound gorilla ready to flip a car over!" So I acknowledge I may look like an ex-bank robber LOL, but trust me...I'm not! Alhamdulilah. And honestly...what usually surprises people (and I love this part) is when I actually speak. Suddenly my "thug" image crumbles, and what comes out instead is intelligence, humor, and (Alhamdulillah) a heart that just wants khayr. People who meet me usually end up laughing and saying something like, "SubhanAllah, you're nothing like what I expected. you look "dangerous" but you're just a big kid at heart!" That's a true story! I genuinely love making people around me laugh, feel alive, and feel appreciated. I'm the happy, bubbly one in my circle of trust. I'm the one cracking the jokes, lightening the mood, and pulling harmless pranks like silently standing in a dark corner of the house and just wait for you to pass by. And without any jump scare, no touching... no shouting... just silently standing still for you to unexpectingly to notice me, just to get your heart to beat faster in horror!!! LOL But when life demands it... I can flip the switch instantly to "boss mode", "head of house, mode", "crisis manager," or "800-pound gorilla in charge" mode. When it comes to Islam... outwardly and inwardly... Alhamdulillah, I try to reflect what I believe. Islamically speaking, it is encouraged to judge what’s apparent...while leaving the unseen to Allah, as the Prophet (Sallallahu alayhi wasalam) said: "Indeed, I have not been commanded to search the hearts of the people, nor to tear open their bellies." (Sahih al-Bukhari) To that end: I outwardly display my Islam with purpose. From the way I dress...being from Brooklyn, New York, my style definitely carries that signature edge and confidence... but it's modest, clean, and unmistakably Muslim. You’ll find me about 90% of the time in a thobe or a jalabiya... pants above the ankle, sunnah-compliant! As for inwardly...Islaam is truly my way of life, not just a label. Not just on the tongue. . My 'Aqidah and Manhaj is according to the Qur'an and Sunnah as understood and practiced by the rightly guided companions. I am careful with who I take knowledge from, and I strive to stay upon clarity (Salafiyyah), following scholars such as: Shaykh Ibn Baz, Shaykh al-Albani, Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen, Shaykh Rabee' al-Madkhali, Shaykh Saleh al-Fawzan, and the likes of them. May Allah have mercy upon them all. Ameen You will never have to wonder whether your husband is praying. Alhamdulillah, I take the Salawat extremely seriously. Even Fajr. Even when tired. Even while traveling. (Though being human, of course, sometimes we all fall short... even Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasalam) overslept for the salah. but I strive to be consistent and sincere. I don't share this to boast or show off, but this context of marriage, is when we need to be transparent, just enough so that we are clear - they type of man I am. I'm also steadily learning Classical Fus'ha Arabic, as well as Moroccan Darija, to better deepen my connection to the Qur'an, the Sunnah, and the people around me. In reality... Islam raised me. When I became Muslim at 18, it taught me how to eat, how to use the bathroom, how to speak, how to honor contracts... how to be a man. It’s my blueprint for life. Now... let's keep it real for a minute. Everybody sounds amazing during the "getting to know you" phase. But what happens after a few months... or a few years? So I want to be upfront about both my "good" and my "bad". My good? Alhamdulillah, I’m deeply firm against bid'ah (religious innovation). I don't blindly follow personalities, popular trends, or cultures. I try hard to ensure that everything I practice in the religion has solid, authentic evidence from the Qur'an and Sunnah, as the Prophet (Sallallahu alayhi wasalam) said: "Whoever introduces into this matter of ours (Islam) that which is not part of it, it will be rejected." I hope Allah blesses me with a wife who values this deeply. My bad? I can sometimes be a little too much of a gorilla. I’m naturally calm, playful, and patient, especially in the beginning of conflicts or misunderstandings. But if the same issue repeats itself literally 20, 30, 40 times over months and years... I admit... I might lose some of that softness. So if I ever sound a little more firm than you like, just know ... it took 19 calm reminders before that. LOL!!! Bonus good point? I'm cautious about who I take as friends. I’m extremely careful about who I let influence me, because the Prophet (Sallallahu alayhi wasalam) said: "A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends." I'm not the type always out with the boys, lost in sports and hanging out. I prefer to be home... chilln! spending quality time... ideally with my wife, who I hope to be my best friend, bi'idhnillah. I don’t do social media (except basic WhatsApp for family and male friends), I don’t take selfies, and I don’t mix with non-mahram women ...and I expect the same loyalty and haya’ from my future wife. Inshallah Bonus bad? I'm a little lazy when it comes to planning outings. Not lazy to enjoy them ...just lazy to coordinate them. The idea of Googling, mapping, planning schedules feels like torture. But if you plan a day out... you’ll find me outside by the car, shoes tied, wallet (with money) ready, waiting on you!!! ... faster than you can grab your purse. I’m much more of a homebody than a museum-walker! Give me a cozy evening indoors with family, some puzzles, card games, or online games (no music... no immodesty)... and I’m in my happy-zone! Still, I do go out now and then ... just enough to stay balanced and not grow mushrooms on my head. LOL So although I'm born and raised in New York City...right now, I live in an absolutely stunning part of Morocco called Tabula... mountains everywhere you look... houses tucked right into the cliffs. One of my favorite pastimes is just sitting outside ...day or night... staring at Allah’s breathtaking creation. I want to buy a beautiful piece of land here, maybe high up in the mountains, and build a warm, welcoming home rooted in simplicity, nature, and remembrance of Allah. Not cut off from the world. I still want to travel, visit my mother in the U.S., and see more of Allah’s creation but to use Morocco as my new home, that always calls me back to peace. Martial arts is another passion of mine... Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, Muay Thai, Western and Russian boxing... it's my way of staying strong, disciplined, and grounded. Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasalam) said: "The strong believer is better and more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, although both are good..." and I try to live by that. So let me land this plane now... If you're looking for a brother who might look like he just came off a UFC fight card... but who would rather be indoors cracking jokes, solving puzzles, leading his home upon Qur'an and Sunnah... protecting you, your honor, and your Islaam... then, well... maybe we need to talk. (and not privately, remember) LOL May Allah grant all of us what is best in this life and the next, and guide us always to what pleases Him.
Ramadan
43 • Newburgh, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 45
Education: High School
Trying to find a needle in a haystack
Look I'm sure there's plenty of nice women from Africa here. I don't want to move there, and I don't want you moving here. I reverted back in 2010. I'm willing to relocate and looking for somebody who's looking for a Muslim oriented family. I'm very
Billy
39 • San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 38
Education: High School
Billy from California
Hi there- I’m Billy from California. I am half American and half German. Enjoy traveling + meeting new people. I have traditional values and believe men should be the protectors and girls should be the nurturers making a warm and cozy house.
Farhan
39 • Daly City, California, United States
Seeking: Female 33 - 43
Education: High School
Single Muslim, I am a big teddy bear, do your best
My father taught me carpentry from the age of 8. I graduated from Westmoor High School in 2004. I have completed two years of college after that at a local community college. I have made Dean's List four semesters at my local college. I have worked e
Quentin Malik
40 • Cleveland, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 35
Education: High School
Assalamualaikum to my future Wife and soulmate
I'm a 42-year-old Muslim who has recently moved to Columbus, Ohio, and I'm ready to start fresh. I don't have any children and I'm looking for a partner to marry. I consider myself a unique individual, like a diamond in the rough, and I believe I'm t
Judah
30 • Louisville, Kentucky, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 50
Education: High School
Just Moved To Louisville Need A Woman Some Soft
FACEBOOK MESSENGER to reach me directly ( Dan Dan) is my name on there and About me well I’m Humble And Layed Back Stay To Myself From Alabama Born & Raised Been In Louisville Now Going On My 2nd Year And I Dont Go Out Or Hang I Love My Peace Alone..
Cecil
52 • Tampa, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 49
Education: High School
Searching for my African Queen?
Hello. I enjoy staying fit by exercising, running, jogging, marathons, boxing. I love attending cultural events of African and African American nature. my diet is 100% plant-based. I have not eaten meat in over 23 years. I love traveling to the Afric
Heat
54 • Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 60
Education: High School
Very caring man who loves helping others.
Loving, caring, sharing, respecting and very considerate. Don’t break my peace and I won’t break yours. Do not judge a book by its cover, education is great and I’m a firm believer in being very educated, but common sense is greater and that’s what made me very successful. I live very modest but have more than many. Social Media is Dwayne Heat Williams, I’m into technology, the entertainment industry, music, film and tv. I also have a Genectic Collection Connection where we collect samples for Paternity Testing for over 20 years. If you do not have 5 photos please DO NOT contact me. If you ARE NOT willing to video chat, DO NOT contact me. I want that ONE serious woman who is real, not someone playing games and catfish!
sincere
29 • Grand Forks, North Dakota, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 40
Education: High School
I’m a chill , laid back guy 😎
I've come a long way in life, through many experiences that I can't wait to share with you, I didn't grow up in a Muslim family, but I accepted the light of Islam as my guide and way of life through time, patience, and understanding. On my journey I
Jonathan
42 • Athens, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 43
Education: High School
In a world full of sin Allah has willed Change
I'm awestern man Who has submitted to Allah and his Beautifulgrace and forgiveness.Ilived submerged Many years in consumerism & Sin.i now seek 1forgiveness Prosperity as a 0man of faith Work on being the best human I could be every 1day.
Amir
66 • Indianapolis, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 99
Education: High School
AMIR
As-Salaamu alaykum, If you have no picture don't bother. Hello my name is Amir, greetings to whom ever is reading this. I am an entrepreneur, who loves to engage in acts of worship, I enjoy exercising, meeting new people, I am very friendly, and I like to travel. I am also Vegan...
Baseer
43 • Fort Pierce, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 45
Education: High School
I'm Big on Trust,Loyalty, Honesty and Striving....
I'm to be honest and straight forward,I'm currently serving time in a states prison,I received 20yrs. In which 17 is my ESS to serve,I've been down now for 15 1/2 with only 30 months left to do,I stepped into the folds of Islam in 2015. So,now I've j
Keenan
32 • Kansas City, Missouri, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 43
Education: High School
get out next year
salamu alaykum! I'm Ali, an Muslim passionate about living life to the fullest. I believe in balancing my faith with a healthy lifestyle, which is why you can often find me at the gym or enjoying outdoor activities. Fitness is not just a hobby for me
Frederick
40 • Baltimore, Maryland, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 43
Education: High School
Contact me on Facebook at Frederick Kingery.
My Love Language is Words of Affirmation. I am loyal and treat marriage and relationships seriously. I did some time behind bars but I've been living a positive life by Allah's permission for almost 10 years. I exercise and love to eat. I'm a big nerd, haha. I've reverted to Islam over 23 years ago. I recite Arabic and know basic Grammer. I'm a Salafi Muslim.
Dale
48 • Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 47
Education: High School
Loving, caring looking for my own Khadijah
I’m currently incarcerated, InshAllah I will be free in 2025. I have made some mistakes in life and I have grew as a man, I am no longer living in the dunnya, I have changed my mindset and looking for new opportunities. In order to to talk to my unc
chris
54 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 99
Education: High School
Looking for marriage want a polygamy family.
I am a 53 year old man looking for a Indian woman to bring to the states and make her my wife. I will get the fiance visa so you can travel to the states and stay till your green card comes in. Looking for only serious minded women. I'm down to earth
Kevin
38 • Richmond, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 50
Education: High School
Healthy communication builds the best Relationship
Hey,I'm Kevin I'm 38 from the Bay Area California I'm hoping to build a friendship through communication and see what it leads to hopefully a relationship is my long-term goal on this site I'm a Published children's book Author with 3 Available on Am
Felipe
29 • New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Education: High School
Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
I am a recent revert since Ramadan of 2023. I am multi business owner, investor, and financial expert focused on worshipping Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala and providing for my family. Born in Dominican Republic, raised in NYC, lived in Maui, Hawai’i.
Christopher
37 • Dallas, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 30
Education: High School
Assalamualaikum
I'm a new Muslim. Took my shahada January of this year. I'm learning daily what it is to be a Muslim and serve Allah swt in the correct way. When I came to this site I didn't know that the communication would cost and I'm not really interested in pay
Joe
30 • Tinley Park, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 35
Education: High School
Adventurer at heart, lover of history, and music
Welcome to my TED Talk! 😂🙃 Please do not message me if you live outside of the US/Canada 💼 Work: As a Client Advisor, my approach goes beyond transactions. It's about connecting with clients on a meaningful level, ensuring their automotive ch
James
23 • Prescott, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 35
Education: High School
I like to have fun get out adventure explore
Let's chat I live in America At the moment it's best for me to make money here in the USA then travel anywhere else and transfer my money so it's double or 3x what other countries money is I love to get out go to arcades love to do Archery hikes camp
Nesta Munir
33 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
Education: High School
As.salaamu.Alaykum my Beautiful Sisters
my SnapChat is nmarley501 I'm a Muslim man who's currently incarcerated but will be coming home really soon Insha Allah. I love the Ocean and I Love to cook. I also like to travel. It's much more that you can get to know about me if you're interested..... It would be a pleasure getting to know you in return.
Benjamin
75 • Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 70
Education: High School
Benjamin
Firm this is the definition of my last name but willing to compromise on everything. I like to think of myself as pretty smart. Anytime someone can navigate their way through life and get to my age I would say is smart, lucky and most of all blessed
Mic
66 • Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking: Male 39 - 57
Education: High School
I’m a white man who is seeking a Muslin man wife
I’m outgoing, fun, loving like going to the beach, camping traveling, hunting and fishing and I will change my beliefs that I have to do what my man wants me to believe and I will do whatever I’m told to do to make sure that he is happy and satisfied
salaheddin
24 • Warren, Michigan, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
Education: High School
assalamualaikum
I'm a 23-year-old man starting to understand the world understanding that every king needs a queen and I'm also starting to understand how important religion is in everything I'm very outgoing and fun loving I do like to sit at home but I'm not a hom
Zolameen
32 • Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 32
Education: High School
Good things come to those that want it
vincent
44 • Augusta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 44
Education: High School
Assalamu alaykum sisters I want something geniune.
I am passionate about life, thankful to be alive and I appreciate every breath that I take. I do my absolute best to look on the positive side of everything and look to make the best of every situation. I am a gentle man who is hard on the outside an
Yusuf
35 • Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 36
Education: High School
A profile created for my wonderful brother...
وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ “And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mate
Fernando
33 • Milwaukee, Wisconsin, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 31
Education: High School
Hi
I like to be home and enjoy outdoors generally. I am not sure what to say but I will be honest. Most of the weeks I do the exact same thing. I am very friendly and I am trying to be more successful in life. I barely take pictures of myself. The only
Belal
57 • Tustin, California, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 54
Education: High School
United States Only
First off don't send me any messages I'm not a paying member. I'm a 56 year Man living in America though looking for love within the entire world. I've never been married and have not found that woman who compliments and completes me. I'm a person
Abdullah
35 • Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 49
Education: High School
Looking for a beautiful marriage.
Islaam is the most important thing to me on this earth, upon the understanding of the righteous companions and the righteous Salaf. I am very loving. I prefer to stay in the house with my wife. I like video games. I love sweets, snacks, and pop.
Edward
41 • Hampton, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 50
Education: High School
Companionship Leading to a Promising Future
Asalamu alaikum. My Islamic attribute is Yusef. I am a Salaf Sunni Muslim who is looking for a compassionate partner. Iam an author of a children’s book called “5 Days of Bullying,” currently on Amazon Kindle. I enjoy reading and working out. I am a man who has faults, but I try to stick to the Quran and Sunnah to the best of my ability. 
Ricky
50 • Baltimore, Maryland, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 55
Education: High School
love life live !! No discrimination US only!!
I’m self-motivated discipline I have a balance life . I can say… a lot about myself it’s always to action is everything.We can bring out the best in each other You can bring the worst in people . People can make words that sounds sweet and humble
Merza Mizori
34 • Lansing, Michigan, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 39
Education: High School
Family Man
I love working out and being outdoors which includes going to the beach. I do not have any kids yet but I cannot wait to have kids with the right person and would like to start a family. I am currently incarcerated and my release date is 2025.
Abdul-Karriem
61 • Elizabeth, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 33 - 53
Education: High School
Focused Brother.
A down to earth,brother, well rounded, grounded, centered, practical, realistic, focused , good sense of humor. We can talk about anything. Anytime. About getting in n staying in the best constant peak physical condition as well as mine n soul n heart etc. To Any none n whom ever may send or show any interest, just to let it be known I have not officially joined the site yet completely. N Yes I do work so that's not why. I just decided to get on this site n set up a profile for the momnet n I haven't quite completed that yet either. Its in process now, based on my crazy present schedule. But I do intend to complete n or rearrange or twik my profile to a more complete one n to officially join the site in a about a week insha- Allah t.a.. Again things now are based on n off my present set job schedule. No excuse it's just a reality for me to deal with at this time. But even that will get better. I only inform this small but important notation to say to any Muslim Woman, who sends or shows an interest , I will intend to make it my business to reach back out to you just be a bit mindful n a little patient. No I am not married , at all . Yes I live alone. I am not engaged or have a bunch of girlfriends. I am a single Muslim man hoping to n seeking best can my best other half, real true woman friend, mate, companion, partner, lover, wife, etc etc . If I can. I hope. I am very tired of being with out the right one for me. Not just any one , or another one , but the best one the right one for this Abdul-Karriem. Yes I want someone too , but who will put Allah t.a. upfront n worship n practice together n by herself day in n day out with me thru what ever up or down , good times n in ruff times, n not someone who will freak out when the tests n trials comes or run off n leave me during or because of any hardships that can come that are not due to your doing or making . Someone who will really want me for the correct reasons n not for the superficial reasons. Someone who truely want me n need me. Desire me , care for me help Aiden assist me , someone who pray for me truely n then pray with me constantly. Someone who will fight the good fight , the righteous fight against all the foul wrong evil foul things that are also in the world we live in trying to hurt n attack n defeat n destroy the real n true Muslim men n woman n the believers all the people serving Allah.t.a. trying to make a right minded positive difference every day n nite. Yes I need someone special too. But right within her soul , mind , heart, n body , n willing to constantly learn n relearn n grow with me as a team. Yeah need some Special Muslim devoted right minded woman. Who will not see or get lost on color, or get fooled by family or friends or haters , . Someone who could n will accept this real striving Muslim Blackman born in America. Someone who will not let their family or friends blind them or persuade them n breakup what could be because they have race issues in their heart n have not grown . Their is no racism is Islam. Someone who can practice her role n learn n understand her role n role with me in n out of any n every bump or curve. N enjoy each other's company deeply n fully n have peace n harmony with one another n to like n love n be crazy about each other day in n day out. Because truely no two days seem to be exactly alike. .Thank you respectfully.

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