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33 Birmingham, West Midlands, United Kingdom
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم A humble, respect kindness, funny, caring, romantic, honest, and understanding❤ The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) himself says: “Marriage is my sunnah, and whoever does not follow my sunnah has nothing to do with me.” [Sunan Ibn Majah, 1846] It doesn’t mean just marrying and forgetting about your roles and responsibilities. Every man should follow just as our Prophet did, with his sunnah ways. (1) Be kind and generous to your wife Prophet (SAW) treated all his wives equally and with the utmost respect. He catered to their needs, and always kept them above himself. He never hesitated to show how much value they hold in his life. Show them their real importance and always treat her with kindness. Be gentle, kind, and caring towards the women of the house. (2) Acknowledge her efforts He always appreciated even the littlest of things that his wives did for him, from cooking to taking care of the children. He never took his wife's efforts for granted and showered her with respect and gratitude. Be grateful to Allah (SWT) for her, and to her for all her efforts. Appreciate her companionship and show her the same support. (3) Help her with daily chores Prophet Muhammad (SAW) always supported his wives and helped them with household chores. He did his own work and even helped in cooking and cleaning the house. Don’t let this be the duty of just the wives, help them out whenever you can and in whichever way you can. Work together to maintain and build your home. Allah (SWT) rewards the man who helps his wife with household chores. (4) Pray with her and pray for her Our Prophet has put a lot of emphasis on praying together. It is the duty of the husband to lead his wife in prayer. Gain blessings from Allah (SWT) together so that you can be in Jannah together. Engage in praying for her alone. Thank Allah (SWT) for her, and pray for her health and wellness always. (5) Surprise her with gifts Gifts act as a token of appreciation in a relationship. It need not be materialistic gifts but any form of additional effort shown by you. Cook food for her, get what she wanted without her having to ask first, surprise her with random gifts, and feed her with your own hands. All that is spent by a man on his wife, parents, and children is a form of charity, which shall be rewarded. Prophet Muhammad (SAW) used to feed Aisha (RA) with his own hands to express his love towards her. (6) Spend quality time with her Spending time with your other half is the best way to get to know her better. It builds companionship, and knowing about her needs and wants. Prophet Muhammad (SAW) not only talked to his wives but also played halal fun games with them like horse riding. He made them feel close to him by devoting his time and attention to them. Allah puts barakah in the time you spend together. (7) Engage in sweet talks and gestures Prophet Muhammad (SAW) never used to raise a voice at his wives. He was always gentle with them. He called them sweet nicknames to make them feel special like ‘Humaira’ for Aisha (RA). He often showed them gestures of love and affection like kissing them on the forehead while leaving and entering the house. (8) Listen to her attentively Be there for your wife whenever she needs you. Listen to her when she opens up to you whether she’s sad or excited. Listen to her like you actually care about what she shares with you and encourage her to share more. Our Prophet (SAW) always used to engage himself in conversations with his wives to make them feel important. He always acted like a friend with whom they could confide. (9) Treat her with mercy Prophet Muhammad (SAW) focused on forgiveness all through his life. He forgave people who were impossible to forgive. He emphasized treating your wives as well, with kindness and mercy whenever they make a mistake. He was never rash and always overlooked their mistakes in public while correcting them in private sweetly. (10) Make her feel secure The responsibility of a woman comes under the man when she marries him. It is his duty to protect her and make her feel secure at all times. Always act like a door that can be opened by her whenever she’s in trouble.

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