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Aïsha
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Last active: 2 months ago

42 Delft, Zuid-Holland, Netherlands

Female / Divorced / ID: 20956408

Seeking Male 35 - 55 living within 50 kms of Delft, Zuid-Holland, Netherlands For: Marriage

Last active: 2 months ago

Overview

Aïsha

She's Looking For

Education:

Masters Degree
Bachelors Degree,Masters Degree,PhD or Doctorate

Have children:

Yes - live at home
Any

Drink:

Don't drink
Don't drink

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Religion:

Islam - Sunni
Islam - Sunni

Occupation:

Unemployed
Any

Member Overview

Wow, you want to get married! I too, so we already have that in common. Good start! You will certainly want to know who you have for you. Well, I'll tell you that I'm 42 years old, single mother of a daughter who is 2 years old. My daughter was born from a previous marriage. The father is living a...
Wow, you want to get married! I too, so we already have that in common. Good start! You will certainly want to know who you have for you. Well, I'll tell you that I'm 42 years old, single mother of a daughter who is 2 years old. My daughter was born from a previous marriage. The father is living abroad and does not play a role in education. We live in Delft, but I originally come from the Hague and like to live in the region. I am a university graduate in adult education, but I would like to make the switch to IT for which I have had a strong affinity since my teens. I am now taking concrete steps in this regard and I hope to be able to do so in the short term. Let it be clear. During a marriage I like to continue working because I am financially responsible for my daughter and want to build up a good pension for myself. I like to cook and bake. I like this so much that I even watch YouTube movies on the subject. I am also interested in IT, online marketing and budgeting. My interests and hobbies’s I hope to merge into a website where I will share my recipes with the goal of helping people cook more often to keep more money left at the end of the month. To relax I watch series and movies on Netflix. I don't have a TV connection so don't follow anything on the regular channels. Over the years I have become useful in sewing curtains, planning and housing. In social traffic I am mainly a functional prater and I am not of the cows and calves. Be an introverted too. I am quite a control freak and an independant man. That is why I need a husband who can entrust me with important tasks in the family to avoid overloading me. I make my decisions based on data. Basically, don't just chop buttons based on feeling after I think I have enough data. I do this in combination with the Istikhara. Especially read about the kind of spouse I'm looking for. That is what I expect during marriage and in the run-up to it.
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Seeking

Do you know that, of those personality tests used on dating sites to find a partner? The match in personality and character is only part of a successful marriage with me. Finding each other attractive is not enough either. Life is not a fairy tale. It is hard and full of trials. A stable home port ...
Do you know that, of those personality tests used on dating sites to find a partner? The match in personality and character is only part of a successful marriage with me. Finding each other attractive is not enough either. Life is not a fairy tale. It is hard and full of trials. A stable home port is extremely important to cope with life. Mutual trust and respect are the basis of this. This is a start when expressing expectations. I will do that below. If you can't find yourself in this, stop it. If you think you can meet my expectations, I would like to invite you to contact me to make a telephone appointment with me so that we can talk about my expectations and those of you. We're not going to chat endlessly. We are not going to date. Until a marriage is possible, our agreements and conversations are purely business. My expectations: - between 39 and 45 years a generation gap can create problems within a marriage and I want to avoid that. You are no more than 3 years younger or older than me. - Healthy eating and living I cook and decide what to buy so that we can eat and live healthy. You have already developed good habits in this. - No smoking or drinking I do not want cigarettes and alcohol in my home. You smoke and don't drink. - No more wild hair that wild hair you have lost. Your goal is to give your wife a stable and happy life. Family life is paramount. - No debts you have to realize that having a woman costs money. It is your responsibility to maintain it (shelter, food, drink, clothing, etc). When you have debts, it will be on your budget. Please disconnect it first. - Financial capacity in order to maintain a woman and possibly children, you must keep enough money in advance of a marriage every month. Your spending is going up dramatically so you need to be sure that you can bear it now and in the future. - Access to financial records If you are convinced that you want to marry me, I want to see your financial records. I want to see where I start. No inspection means end of exercise. - No psychological complaints you are psychologically stable and are able to cope with all the difficulties in life. - Access to overall health I want to discuss your bless you. When it comes to this, I do not want to have any adderties under the grass. - willing to move My daughter is now 2 years old. Once she goes to kindergarten, I will go to settle near the elementary school. This means that I will stay in the same municipality for 8 years. If you do not live with me nearby you will have to move. I am not prepared to do so. - assisting in the household because I intend to continue working you will have to help in the household. - No objection to working woman makes it clear that I want to continue earning my own money because I am financially responsible for my daughter and because I want to have a little apple for thirst when I retire. - good example for my daughter the biological father of my daughter does not live in the Netherlands. So she needs a father figure. Someone who takes his responsibility, has a good character, is patient and treated with respect to me and her. - passing on the height of the dowry to prevent us from running on this at the end of the trip I would like to hear from you what you have left for the mahr / dowry. - willing to marry on marital terms many marriages do not stand. Sorry. In the event that we end up, I want to be able to retain my own funds. I don't do 50/50. Prior to the nikah, we can work together with a notary public to draw up these conditions. - References since we don't know each other, I want to have 4 references that can illustrate who you are in terms of behavior and character. Think of family and friends. Well done! You have reviewed all my expectations. If you think you can meet this, you know what to do.
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More About Me

Aïsha

She's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Female
Male
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
42
35 - 55
Lives in:
Delft, Zuid-Holland, Netherlands
within 50 kms of Delft, Zuid-Holland, Netherlands
Relocate:
Not willing to relocate
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Black
Any
Eye color:
Brown
Any
Height:
5'8" (173 cm)
5'9" (175 cm) - No Answer
Weight:
73 kg (161 lb)
Any
Body style:
Average
Any
Ethnicity:
Mixed
Caucasian (White)
Appearance:
Average
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Don't drink
Don't drink
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Eating habits:
Halal foods always
Halal foods always
Marital Status:
Divorced
Single,Divorced,Widowed
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Any
Number of children:
1
Any
Oldest child:
2
Any
Youngest child:
No Answer
Any
Want (more) children:
Yes
Yes
Occupation:
Unemployed
Any
Employment status:
Not Employed
Full Time
Annual income:
0€ - 15.000€ (EUR)
Any
Living situation:
Live with kids
Live Alone,Live with kids

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
Netherlands
Netherlands
Education:
Masters Degree
Bachelors Degree,Masters Degree,PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken:
English,Dutch
Dutch
Religion:
Islam - Sunni
Islam - Sunni
Born / Reverted:
Reverted to Islam
Any
Religious values:
Religious
Religious
Attend religious services:
Sometimes
Only on Jummah / Fridays,Only During Ramadan
Wear a Niqab:
No
N/A
Wear a Hijab:
No
N/A
Read Qur'an:
Ocassionally
Daily,Ocassionally,Only on Jummah / Fridays,Only During Ramadan
Polygamy:
Don't accept polygamy
Don't accept polygamy
Family values:
Moderate
Moderate

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Computers / Internet, Writing, Cooking / Food

Food:

Middle Eastern, Barbecue, Indian, Italian, Mediterranean

Music:

Pop

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

Forrest Gump

Favorite Food:

Ik lust van alles, dus je kunt me ook van alles voorschotelen. Sta altijd open om nieuwe dingen te proberen.

Favorite Music:

80s en 90s popmuziek

Humor:

Onderbroekenlol en droge humor

Hobbies & Interests:

Koken, IT/Websites, Online Marketing, Ondernemerschap, Klussen, Interieur, Budgetteren

Travelled:

Suriname, Egypte, Turkije, Spanje, Portugal, USA, Caribisch gebied

Romance:

Strandhuisje huren en de dagen vullen met wandelen, eten en ontspannen.

Personality:

Behulpzaam, zelfstandig, verantwoordelijk, introvert, gedisciplineerd, loyaal, analytisch

My Perfect Match is:

Zorgzaam, slagvaardig, verantwoordelijk, flexibel

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