36 • Medan, Sumatera Utara, Indonesia
Female / Single / ID: 20713357
Seeking Male 36 - 45 For: Marriage
Last active: 17 hours ago
Computers / Internet, Education, Movies / Cinema, Reading, Traveling
Seafood, Fast Food / Pizza
Basketball, Swimming, Volleyball
The Blind Side
How to win friends & influence people. I'm Sharahza, Mushashi
Spicy food and all food as long it is halal
Basically soft-music & pop music. But nowadays, when I listen to the song it influences my ability in reciting Qur'an. Still struggle to recite. In the past, we were not allowed to listen to pop or western song. We only allowed to listen to nasyid.
I like dark colour and wear gamis. Few years ago, my mom disagrees with my decision to wear niqob and also told me to wear bright colour. I did not debate mom at that time but my two young brothers did. No matter what the people judge me toward my performance (like what I received from the boss in the campus), I didn’t care. I still have my brothers who support me. In term of physical appearance, I am the eldest but I am the shortest among my three siblings.
I'm ok with humor but dislike rude joke. I feel uncomfortable being surrounded by the people who tend to spread porn humor which I think impolite & disgusting. I like to watch stand-up comedy (but of course certain comedians)who deliver his jokes in a good way and also give the critics.
1. I like swimming though it’s difficult to find the swimming pool for muslimah only. When I was a child, the place to practice to swim was a river because there was no swimming pool in my village. Hopefully, can have private swimming pool one day
2. I like reading since childhood. I was fourth grade of elementary school at that time when I started to read a novel about Buya Hamka (national hero of Indonesia, religious & brave man who put into jail by the regime) while waiting for my mom in her class. Now, the genres of my reading are my subject field, Islamic novel and biography of famous people.
I would like to go to Mekkah and Madinah as the fifth pillars of islam.
I will respect my partner’s cultures. I can tolerate when it is not forbidden in the religion because I concern on religion over culture. Let’s respect each other in the way of eating (spoon & knife vs right hand). But in term of greeting different gender by kissing is something I can’t accept. For me, respecting our friends from different gender is not based on touching or kissing.
1. Cooking a new recipe for him (though I'm not good enough at cooking). 2. Traveling together. If it is a famous place, I prefer to visit in early morning to avoid crowded people. Overall, I respect my partner’s choice in choosing the place. 3. I will be his beautician like to do pedicure/manicure etc. to make him relax after tired at his workplace. In the past when I saw my mom cut my father’s nail & how they treated their spouse was really nice.
Good listener, respect someone's privacy/ choice & dislike dishonesty
1. He obey the Islamic rules & wants to learn Islam. What kind of family will he try to build if he himself doesn’t do like shalat and he drinks alcohol? 2. Fidelity. Your spouse can’t see you every time but Allah can see you. 3. Respect woman. No matter how angry you are, please control your emotion & don’t try to do physical abuse. I never hit by my parents or see them fighting or yelling to each other. 4. Be responsible man as a breadwinner & don’t depend on a wife. You do your part and I do my part. Sure I’ll try to help. 5. I want someone that respects my decision, being a house wife or a working mom in the future. I’ll be a good listener for all your arguments.
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