martisa

Martisa (44) 

Male / Divorced / ID: 11507808
Oslo, Oslo, Norway
Seeking: Female 24 - 40
For: Friendship, Marriage

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Education: Bachelors Degree
Have children: Yes - don't live at home
Drink: Don't drink
Smoke: Don't smoke
Religion: Islam - Shiite
Occupation: IT / Communications

After too many years of living the life of the career professional, I`m ready to shift gears and find one person to settle down, grow old with and have a good family.....together we shall bring forth beautiful children, grow old together......and watch out grand-children become adults. It is hard t...read more >>

After too many years of living the life of the career professional, I`m ready to shift gears and find one person to settle down, grow old with and have a good family.....together we shall bring forth beautiful children, grow old together......and watch out grand-children become adults. It is hard to be objective abut yourself and I am not big on talking about myself but I guess is a necessity on here,....I am a very simple person who enjoys the simple things in life,.....I have a great sense of humor and get along well with people who are honest, have a good self image and mean what they say and say what they mean. I have a life strategy and an idea on how to implement it ...I’m confident that I will reach my goals and know life from both sides, Insh Allah,...a sensitive one who never gives up ... I will tell you this I am not into head games. I`m not going to lie and convince you that I`m perfect, or wonderful or attractive. I`m not going to say that I`m something special I`m just me -that all I can and want to be. I work hard and enjoy excelling at my job. I enjoy people, do my best to understand them, and believe in helping others when I can. I care about my friends, and believe in honesty in relationships. In my fun times I enjoy a wide variety of activities, everything from cycling to volunteering. I have a lot to offer and believe a great relationship is also a great partnership ...”the good you do comes back to you" and I respect all faiths. In life I have learned that you must take each day and make it count and appreciate those that you hold dear,.....every new day bearings with possibilities, it`s up to us to fill it with the things that move us toward progress and peace. If a man and a woman choose nikah, two issues must be settled first. Number one: As a couple, we are committed to Allah. We’re going to live a life that honors Allah. We will be people of excellence and integrity in all that we do. The second settled issue must be that as a couple, we are committed to each other. Occasionally, we may disagree, say things we shouldn’t, we might even pout or get downright angry. But when it’s all said and done, we’re going to get over it, and we will forgive and move on. Leaving is not an option. We’re committed to each other through the good times and the tough times. I am not a paying member at this time and cannot read your email but you can find me on skype.

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About Martisa

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Gender: Male Female
Age: 44 24 - 40
Lives in: Oslo, Oslo, Norway Any
Relocate: Willing to relocate to another country Any
Appearance 
Hair color: Black Any
Hair length: Short Any
Hair type: Straight Any
Eye color: Hazel Any
Eye wear: None Any
Height: 5'8" (173 cm) Any
Weight: 74 kg (163 lb) Any
Body style: Average Any
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White) Any
Complexion: Wheatish Any
Facial hair: Clean Shaven N/A
Appearance: Very attractive Any
Physical / Health status: Normal Any
Lifestyle 
Drink: Don't drink Don't drink
Smoke: Don't smoke Don't smoke
Eating habits: Halal foods when I can Any
Marital Status: Divorced Any
Have children: Yes - don't live at home Any
Number of children: 1 Any
Oldest child: 16 Any
Youngest child: No Answer Any
Want (more) children: Yes Any
Occupation: IT / Communications Any
Employment status: Full Time Any
Income: Prefer not to say Any
Home type: Apartment / Flat Any
Living situation: Live Alone Any
Residency status: Citizen Any
Background / Cultural Values 
Nationality: Iran Any
Education: Bachelors Degree Any
Languages spoken: English Any
Religion: Islam - Shiite Any
Born / Reverted: Born a muslim Any
Religious values: Religious Any
Attend religious services: Only During Ramadan Any
Wear a Niqab: N/A Any
Wear a Hijab: N/A Any
Read Qur'an: Only During Ramadan Any
Polygamy: Don't accept polygamy Any
Family values: Conservative Any
Hobbies & Interests
Entertainment: Antiques, Astrology, Education, Family, Gardening / Landscaping, Home Improvement, News / Politics, TV: Educational / News, Cooking / Food
Food: French, Middle Eastern, Barbecue, German, Seafood, Greek, Italian, Continental, Eastern European, Mediterranean
Music: Classical / Opera
Sport: Other, Cycling, Diving, Fishing, Jogging / Running, Swimming, Walking

Obviously attraction is important but everyone has something different that makes them sexy, so it`s rely hard to describe exactly what you are looking for because you can`t define chemistry, it’s just there or it’s not. You never know who you might meet and have instant chemistry with in another pa...read more >>

Obviously attraction is important but everyone has something different that makes them sexy, so it`s rely hard to describe exactly what you are looking for because you can`t define chemistry, it’s just there or it’s not. You never know who you might meet and have instant chemistry with in another part of the country or the word. I have come to realize that you can have friends from all over.....it is what makes life interesting.....don’t you think so?.....distance is an issue in most case.....but life is a gamble......I certainly don`t want distance to keep me from meeting someone special,.....all relationships take work whether two people live close or very far apart. I am in search of someone who is genuine, honest, and ready to become a righteous wife and good mother. I am looking for the right Muslim wife, a woman who will not walk away from conflict, but work towards a resolution together....who will stay with me during hard time. I think that it is the people in life worth living, I want quality time with someone special!....someone to try and find love in my life. The aim of the Muslim family must be worship of Allah, as marriage is considered to be yet another form of Ibadah. So I want someone who is trustworthy, loyal, knows what she wants out of life, dependable and has her head on straight. In terms of looks/age/race etc: not really important to me if you are funny, intelligent woman with something interesting to say then mail me. A woman who’s honest and has traditional Islamic values and MORALS which are contained in the Sharia. Cultivation of Islamic values is essential in our Muslim family and they should not only be cultivated but also nurtured. Our likes and dislikes, our conception of nice and vulgar, good and neat and chaotic, etc., must be in conformity with the Sunnah. I like a woman who can tell it like it is and not let people walk all over her yet has a heart and gold. A hard-working individual striving to be the best that she can be from the inside out. It is the person on the inside that matters most,....I would be able to move to anywhere if you are the right one, nothing keeps me here anymore,....as for someone out of state or country, I`m willing to email or phone, skype, conversation and get to know you then travel to meet you, to communicate eyes to eyes and soul to soul,.....when we are together, we should be turned on by each other both mentally and physically,....I want to have a mental connection/energy from talking to you as well as physical,....You`ll make my heart skip a beat when you look in my eyes and tell me I`ll love you forever Martisa,....I`ll respect you verbally, physically and emotionally.....I`ll treat you with all care and kindness, spurt you with love and understanding, honor and respect you, your family and friends and lust after you with passion and sensuality. I am looking for a meaningful relationship in which I can enjoy all facets of our togetherness. My purpose of marriage is tranquility and peace through a successful union that considered the primary objective of nikah. Like anything a Muslim does, marriage should only be undertaken after gaining an understanding of all that Allah has prescribed in terms of rights and obligations as well as gaining an understanding of the wisdom behind this institution. Things women do that turn me off: 1- Dressing Trashy: I have more respect for a woman that dresses attractively but not too provocatively. Be careful how you dress. Make-up Madness is definitely a no-no. So if you can see a line on your neck distinguishing your skin from a heavy mold of make up, it’s way too much. Humans are social creatures and what we wear sends signals about who a person is. Well, dressing too sexy, and provocatively sends the inappropriate signal to men. Now, if you’re just looking for sex, that’s fine. But otherwise, remember, dress appropriately. 2- Speaking in a Crude Manner: I generally don’t care for a woman that could put a sailor to shame with the way she talks. I prefer a woman who speaks in a proper manner and doesn’t use an overly large amount of slang and cursing. 3- Bad Hygiene and a Sloppy Appearance: Bad hygiene in a woman is going to make me want to run for the hills, period. And a sloppy appearance isn’t going to draw me close, either. I dislike bad hygiene. I avoid the company of girls with bad aroma. If you don’t clean your body, hair and skin properly, then for sure you are turning me off with your unbearable odor. 4- Being Flirty with Other Men: This is a definite no-no. Want me to care deeply for you? Don’t flirt with my buddies. Not only does it make you look easy but it shows a total lack of class. In fact, you really shouldn’t be flirting with anyone but the guy you are in a relationship with. If you are single, then by all means, enjoy flirting! Thus, you can earn your guy’s love and attention as long as your flirting is totally directed toward him only. 5- Having All Male Friends: Girls aren’t the only gender that get jealous. When you’re constantly surrounded by other men, your boyfriend may get jealous. 6- Smoking: I consider smoking as a disgusting habit if found in girls. A smoking girl carries bad odor and unpleasant breath. Yellow teeth and black gums will totally turn men off. 7- girls who worship alcohol/get HAMMERED 8- I don't care if a girl is unemployed or not, if I like her I like her. Things that turn me off though. Her trying to make herself sexy to me instead of letting it come natural, tattoos, sleazy acting, slutty looking, pierced tongue, nose or pretty much anything but her ears, being so high strung or hyper she gets me nerviness, insensitive or arrogant. 9- All around party girl. If she likes getting drunk every weekend, hitting up parties, bars, and clubs, I don't care how hot or beautiful you are, that just turns me off like crazy! 10- Definitely arrogant and bitchy 11- Lying is absolutely not tolerated. 12- Cursing definitely turns me off in a woman 13- Talking crap about other people. 14- If your profile does not have bio. and pic. so that means you're married or in a committed relationship. I could go on forever lol.

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