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Bilaal (43)

BEEN HURT SO TIRED. LOOKING FOR N... Graskop, Mpumalanga, South Africa
Seeking: Female 30 - 39 for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

Young & Energetic. Businessman. Im currently in a dead end relationship where I realise that the issues I had when my marriage started out are unresolved. There is so much more to enjoy in life instead of endless arguments for no reason whatsoever. Life must be enjoyed. Relationships must be a 2 way street. One partner cannot only give love and affection. Im tired. I think there is a better life for me out there. 

Shah (39)

Life has been unfair Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Female 22 - 37 for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

As my heading states, life has been unfair, been through 1 too many heart breaks, tired of seeking miss perfect, so i've decided to put myself out there and hopefully the perfect one for me might just find me! So Here is a bit of my life in a nut shell, a short story i've written and waiting to be published: Today the sadness of my loss hits me like a train on a de-railed rail road track, I find myself stuck between two chapters in my life one which I have been trying to read and understand for 11 years and the other that lasted for as little as over two months, however the second chapter had brought me love, laughter, joy and understanding as appose to the first chapter that had brought 3 beautiful miracles but sadness, heart ache despair and a lack of personal character. I seem to be dazed now so more often, I try my best to be strong but find myself drifting off every time, I see a couple walk pass or a woman stranding by herself in anxiety, anxious hoping that it’s the opportunities that I had lost by my own accord I suppose, It has finally come to a point where the first chapter has finally come to an end and as painful as it may be I can understand and accept the facts that it was just never meant to be, two totally opposites trying to make things work for all the wrong reasons this I can live with, Yet I find myself twiddling over the second chapter, everything so perfect, the interlude, the chapter begum off with, the suspense of the story, the never ending character always keeping the love triangle on its toes and then the crash where the story just came to a full stop, with no real understanding and details of how, when or what. I try and make sense of it all but I cannot; I find my days taking way too long to end and my restless nights just as long waiting for the break of dawn. I have never really lived in regret and here I find myself regretting my loss, I’m devastated to a point where I find myself lying to my mind, “Saying it’s Okay” you will get over this but my heart begs to differ. There were too many perfect moments, a woman who felt that she was so broken yet she has so much to offer, her potential beyond the boundaries of words, her personality beyond the comprehension of one’s mind, her sadness and despair a story you would not wish upon the worst of enemies, but her heart that of brave and untamed lion, A woman with so much rage and anger caused by an unwanted past, but more so that she is just misunderstood, the anger that surfaces are only that of a wound that keeps on being opened, a scare that refuses to go away, the memories so painful that it burdens the day turning into darkness and then again from darkness into light. I thought I could tame this beautiful heart, I felt I could rectify the wrongs, I thought by trying and setting things correct by myself I was doing justice to that which injustice had done wrong to her, But I found myself interfering in something so strong, that it wished to rectify the wrongs on its own time, at its own pace and at its own strength, I misunderstood her sadness as weakness and all I did was more damage than good and where it got me was the loss of someone so beautiful, from within, that I regret every attempt I made to do good in what I assumed was rite and she had only wished to deal with her despair on her own terms and her own time, why could I not understand this, I guess love, true love has no sight, everything done or said is blind, its wanting only the best for the person you care about, there is no justifications for ones actions, As love is blind, I would say to any person out there who falls in love as I did, don’t be scared be as I have been, if its sincere stand before the one you love with both your arm and hands raised out before you offering your heart and love with no questions what so ever, trust in your offering but always remember, That actions speaks louder than words a woman is like a bent rib the more you try and straighten it the faster it will break, do not force something upon a woman that she does not wish upon herself, love her, cherish her, respect her and most of all, do not lie to her, for once trust is broken it is very hard to regain. I guess I am now stuck between two worlds, the one I am forced to walk upon with my regrets for my actions until the day I find myself walking through the pathway in the sky, to a world that we all have to walk to someday. This is a story of a very saddened man, that thought he was doing more good but caused more harm, I guess there is no way going back, As I was told you cannot change the past, but I can at least try and change the future for those men out there like me, For me there is no hope but for you guys there are, please listen to my story and do not try and force something that is so natural in nature as a woman, as she was meant to be so shall she be, do not try and bend a tree with your bare hands either it will break or you will break, trust me enjoy the beauty as it was meant to be. In my mistakes rectify your doings it’s not too late for those gentleman out there, reach out to your woman, draw them closer, hold them as they were meant to be held, say sweet nothings into their ears, touch them, care for them, be a real man now and always, open the door for them, close it behind them, draw a chair for them, wake up earlier show them how special they are to you and how much you need and appreciate them, it’s all the little things that matters not the big promises, that I swear, a woman is a beautiful creation created for the purpose of a man to understand and accept that he is not above her, but beside her, as my Sumi my Ghetto Girl once told me, the past cannot be changed so heed my words my fellow brothers, all beautiful memories that are created between you and the most precious gift in your life cherish it, take good care of it, protect it with everything you have including protecting it from yourself, your insecurities your misunderstandings for your actions will speak louder than your words and once your emotions does something that you will regret someday, take care of what you have, because once the deed is done there is no going back to try and change the past, no lie, no story and no cover up will ever restore that which is lost, do not put yourself where I have landed, to dwell this earth for the rest of my life in regret, don’t lose your twin soul as I have mine, my regrets should remind you all, that there is still hope for you in my loss and sadness , for I do not wish this grief upon no other soul to bare, this is my gift to you, in my sadness may you find your happiness, Always remember my words and always say a little prayer, that my Sumi finds her love and trust again someday. Hers always and forever “Her Shnookumz”. This story is of a beautiful wonderful woman who resides in Newlands west in Durban, her identity is not to be known, neither mine but this love story is real and I swear this is my despair that I will have to live with forever. Mr. Not to be known. I've been told and asked by 2 wonderful elderly woman one 71 yrs old and the other 82yrs old, not to loose hope and despair, I've seen there tears and dua's that I may find love and happiness once more,I taken an oath that I will attempt it once more and Insha Allah with their Dua's and that of my mother, I pray that my Rab will accept all our dua's Insha allah Ameen, that of mine and those out there seeking to complete half there deen insha allah.

Phaldie (50)

WAYFARER SEEKING OASIS FLOWER Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Female 26 - 40 for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

I am very cool and loving and confident guy. I'm ready now to settle and can be a very good comforter to the right lady, who know it might be you......? I consider myself very romantic. I like the nature and love taking long strolls along beaches and nature environments.

mike(ALI) (54)

L HARMONIE POUR UN AVENIR MEILLEU... Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Female for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

I am a man liberale in my taken one of position,ce for that j etais victims from my FORMER one; epouse, and especially we are ourselves separe for belief question she fu chretienne she wanted I the suivent,chose that n has not marche,mais for the moment I not more 20ANS, and I look for a woman that my will return HEUREUX,et me I see the protege, to return it so happy in The worse one and in the better ones.

Ahmed (60)

Asalamulakum Brakpan, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Female 35 - 80 for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

Asalamulakum I have been lucky in life and now I am looking to be lucky in love. I am a fun loving Muslim man who fully believe that laughter truly is the best medicine. However, that said. I do know when and where to be serious and respect that trait in others as well. I enjoy a wide range of activities from your stereotypical travels to something more offbeat thrilling night drives in game reserves Really though, I think fun comes from who you are with rather than what you are doing. Good company can make what would have been a mundane experience a great time. I look forward to seeing what the future will bring with the right person and am optimistic that I will find someone to spend my life with.

Ayubu (36)

MY ALLAH LEADS ME THE GOOD Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Female 21 - 34 for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

ALLAH KNOW THE GOOD BUT, I PREY ALLAH TO GIVE THE CORRECT CHOOSE

kashif (41)

kb Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Female 23 - 28 for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

im happy person

abdulahi (37)

i am fun liking man Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Seeking: Female 18 - 30 for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

i am a journalist a tv broad caster i am an intertainer i behind the love and i love the lovers

salmaan (42)

live to love & love to live Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Female 29 - 34 for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

Always interesting,love the outdoors,serious about respecting life,family & people,5 x daily salaah is important,i love sports(extreme),lifes short but who says one cant be happy.......

Ray (32)

hi Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Female 20 - 30 for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

hi

rahim (47)

I am your soul mate, lets consuma... Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Female 20 - 45 for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

I am sexy, hardworking, intelligent and good looking. I am a university graduate and like my proffession. I am kind and cheerful but hates lies and dishonest people. I am wild and loves people who are not afraid to explore...

Foxymo (43)

Asalmualakum Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Female for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

I am a happy go lucky guy. I live life as it is surpse to be. I am a God fearing men.

A K (60)

Looking for "someone" to share th... Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Female 35 - 50 for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

Tall, attractive, fun loving outdoor person with lots of tender loving care to give to a special woman. Great personality and character, sports loving and still a kid at heart.

Muhammed (41)

Looking for Love Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Female 22 - 45 for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

Salaams, i would describe myself as fun, outgoing, spur of the moment person. I am very driven in what I do. Go getter in life. I love to pamper my women.

ARSHAD (38)

looking for luv Durban, KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Seeking: Female 18 - 43 for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

intellectual.humurous

shoiab (41)

fun Benoni, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Female 18 - 42 for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

im outgoing fun and open minded.very flexible

MOOSA (43)

HAJEE Zeerust, North-West, South Africa
Seeking: Female 18 - 35 for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

Open gentleman who likes new challanges..

Sheraz (49)

Seductive Sunsets Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Female 33 - 45 for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

I am honest and straight forward. Like to share great times and moments. I am into making memories, because life is to short to make a fuss of all things. Positive and motivated and passionate in all I do.

Muhammad (47)

Honesty is the best policy Sandton, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Female 27 - 43 for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

Hard working and honest person with strict religious life don't like cheaters and street ladies i do respect others beacuse i need respect for my self. 

Ismail (43)

Love & friendship Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Seeking: Female 25 - 40 for Marriage
Marital Status: Separated

Just down to earth guy. Enjoys social work.

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